My faithful, horny wife?

Question

I have a beautiful, faithful 30-something year old wife. We are both white. Recently at a wedding, I was having a temporary knee problem so i agreed to allow my wife to dance with anyone she wished at the reception. I'm not the jeolous type.She danced with EVERYBODY. Later, she came to me and whispered, "You're gonna get lucky tonight, mister." She explained that a young handsome black guy had pressed against her while dancing and, let's just say she was impressed. He told her, "I'm so embarressed that I'm rock hard. Please don't walk away and allow everyone to see", so she kept dancing, obviously turned on. She was honest. So I wouldn't get upset, she stayed close to me the rest of the night. We had amazing sex that night. A week later, she asked me if she could have a black stripper for her birthday. She said that she just realized at the wedding what a turn on seeing a large black dick would be. She said that she only wanted to see one, and it would be a fantasy come true.

She said that if I did, she would allow me one wish also, like my fantasy about her dressing up like a maid. Or even going with me one time only to a strip club (she has always said no) and let me enjoy a lap dance from a female stripper with her there. She said that she has no intentions about being unfaithful. She said that she has been faithful and would just like one fantasy and would not ask for more. She stresses that I would be the only one who benefits from her being turned on--she would attack me shortly after the strippers performance. She says that she would not do anything sexual with the stripper, but would like to just touch his dick if I would let her. If not, she would just look. Should allow her? She IS a faithful wife and is extremely open with me. I am leaning toward doing it.

Answer 1

tell her once u go black, u never go back!!!....just kidding, i think it's healthy for people to "fantasize" about other races, sexes, etc, whatever turns a person on is great, as long as they want to share it with the one they love (or with)!...get her what she wants!....(let her see it online while she's waiting for her birthday)...a happier wife makes for a happier husband.

Answer 2

Let her do it. If you go to strip clubs, she can touch the stripper's penis. She was upfront with you about the guy having an erection while dancing with her. You should be flattered that the guy was turned on by your wife. If she gets the stripper and fondles him, she is acting out a fantasy and you will reap the benefits. If she goes to the strip club with you and you possible fondle one of the dancers, do you think she will get angry? Judging from what you've written, most likely not. The both of you should be very upfront about being faithful to one another because the stripper fantasies can have dangerous consequences. If your wife fondles another man's genitalia, and discovers that she likes it, she may want to progress to a threesome, or maybe an open relationship. If you hire a stripper to visit your home, or go to a club with one of those VIP rooms where who knows what happens, do you think that you'll want a threesome, or have sex with another woman because you've already felt up an exotic dancer? Take it easy...but know what you are doing...and know your limitations.

Answer 3

Well let's see......she dances with this black guy at a dance and just by accident he gets a hard on. Off course he will be embarrassed if anyone but her see's his hard on so she had to keep dancing pressed up close so he won't be embarrassed.

And of course the guy is so embarrassed he keeps that hard on for a long time...just can't be helped. With your wife pressed up to his member and enjoying it I bet not.

Now she has this fantasy that she wants to not only see one but to play with one. Oh yea..touch it....I forgot.

Sure is a good thing you are not the jealous type.

Sure you are getting the benefit of it all but what happens when she doesn't have someone else to turn her on. Will your sex life go into the tank?

Great story. Thanks for not asking a question. It would be very hard to get an answer after that.

Good luck to you my man. Honest or not this sounds very strange unless you both swing already.

Answer 4

Personally I think it's disrespectful toward you! Everyone is different, and I don't like to judge others. I think it's okay to look at another and say, " oh he is cute." Same with you. But then leaving it at that.
Although, you know after your girl danced with this man she wasn't thinking of you while in bed that night. Now wanting a black stripper seems as though she is a little obsessed with this fantasy! You can't compete with that, you are white. I just hope if she ever got the chance, she wouldn't take her fantasy to another level....? I wouldn't feel comfortable being with someone that is so turned on by someone who is the opposite of me. Good luck hun.

Answer 5

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He made her feel like a Goddess - didn't he?
One of the sexiest things for a woman is know know that 'she' is sexually attractive. Women need to feel desired, and to feel that they have a certain power over men. Perhaps what turned her on more than anything was the fact that the guy 'had the erection'....

Your wife liked being a honey to the bee - as she 'should' be. Time for you to turn her on again. It is the way things should be. Men lie back too much and expect the woman to perform on 'them.' Pretty insulting, pretty lazy, pretty self-centered, not to mention 'unmanly.' After all, whose body needs the attention? The man's? No.

Turn into the panting puppy dog you once were. Husbands and wives start boring each other, so get that passion rolling. Chase her butt off.

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Answer 6

so have a stripper in for her birthday. You will get another wild ride. In the mean time, you should be working on some fantasy and role playing to let her act out these fantasies...they are absolutely normal, fun, keep things fresh. Go for it...turn off all the lights, be a Black intruder, seduce and rape her...her mind can fill in the blanks...there are so many silly things to be done in the bedroom, kitchen..wherever, there is no need that anything EVER get stale. Use your imagination...she has told you what she likes, go for it...and in the meantime, be thinking of some crazy fantasy(s) of yours and act them out also. Sounds very healthy to me.

Answer 7

I think that's going just a wee bit overboard, if you ask me...the thought of it may turn her on, but to throw it in your face, so to speak, is disrespectful. I hope she realizes that hiring a stripper means that he'll strip down to his underwear, but he's not going to fully strip! You might ask her if you can rub up against other women, and have a stripper for your birthday. Would that be ok with her?

ADDITION:

Ok, now she's saying just this once, and she wants to touch it! I guess this means that you get to touch the woman of your choice just once. See where this is going? I still don't think that it is respectful to you. She should be focused on YOURS, not someone elses! Asking you if she can touch another man is not a good thing!

Answer 8

Let me tell you something. I am a white girl been dating out of my race for the past 13 years. I am married to a Jamaican. Be careful with this fantasy. It could cause problems between you two. If she wants to see a black penis, then rent her porn. I do believe that something bad could come of this.

Just a little advise:
They say once you go black you never go back!
It was true in my case.

Answer 9

And you're afraid she likes black dongs more than white ones?
Who cares? As long as she loves you, sleeps with you, and is your soulmate in every other way, let her perve at as many long shlongs as she wants to.
Furthermore, the time will come when she will want to have a fitting. Whether you allow her or not is not the problem, it is whether or not you are strong enough to accept the difference between sex and love. The more jealous and possessive you are, the more she'll want to experiment.
I suggest you start taking advantage of her curiosity and try getting a few two-females-one-male threesomes in before she goes for the experimental black ride. That way it will be easier to accept it.
Welcome to the 21st Century!

Answer 10

I'm sure you have your fantasies. Just be glad you're the one getting all the love at the end of the night. As long as you know she isn't cheating. If you're into this kind of stuff maybe you can watch a porn with her featuring a black man. My wife and I have done it a few times (not specifically featuring a black man) and you quickly forget that it's on.

Answer 11

Well this is just a guess, but it sounds like you're not entirely comfortable with this idea (or else you probably wouldn't be asking about it on Yahoo). I would advise you to talk to her and tell her what you really think about her new fascination. If you're fine with her checking out another dude's johnson, well more power to you. But if you don't like the idea, you'd better tell her so. If you hire this stripper for her despide your misgivings, you probably won't be able to put it behind you.

I know what my reaction would be if my wife said she wanted to check out another guy's junk. I'd tell her she could go right ahead, after she signed here, here, and initialed here.