Marriage & Divorce - 16 July 2006

Has this mistake ruined your marriage? Did you get through it? Have you learned something about each other as a result? Tell me your story. Thank you in advance.

2006-07-16 09:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Grudge 5

Nothing in divorce mentioned, alimony, child support, nothing. Just that dad was like never had a family. Mom got the shaft. Dad is retired officer.

2006-07-16 09:06:02 · 6 answers · asked by Hagatha 2

First of all I love my husband but I am bored sexually. How can I ask him for an open marriage? I need some assistance here.

2006-07-16 09:05:29 · 22 answers · asked by not2smarttoday 2

I have had couple of long relationships and I just can't stand women except for sex. I don't like anything about women except that I'm sexually attracted to them. I'm straight and will never try men so what does that make me? I feel a little guilty saying this but its true.

2006-07-16 09:02:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have had marital problems. She has allowed herself to become close to a friend of hers. She has left me for him in the past and has come back but things aren't the same. I suspected she was still cheating and now she is pregnant. She wants to be with me, but did she do this so that periodically she can meet for visitation and then have sex with him? Am I crazy? I accept the pregnancy like it was my own but question where we stand and her intentions. This is not something you can just come out and ask. Signs say she enjoys sex more with him but I am the better choice for our family, I guess. This is so confusing and complicated. Please help.

2006-07-16 08:58:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, what did you do about it? Are you still married? I've heard that if you can overcome something like this it can actually make your marriage stronger (not that I'm recommending it, of course).

2006-07-16 08:58:03 · 14 answers · asked by oh kate! 6

2006-07-16 08:56:36 · 7 answers · asked by Maro's mom 5

my husband is half drunk when i pick him up from work, he denies this but i have been married to the man for 12 years and i know if his hair is out of place let alone if he is drinking, i have told him about 8 times now that if i drive up to pick him up again and he is drunk i will drive on by and leave him there, should i or not

2006-07-16 08:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-07-16 08:42:10 · 4 answers · asked by prem d 1

2006-07-16 08:17:18 · 13 answers · asked by bunnygirl 1

well i am 18 about to be 19 and my girlfriend is 18 with one year left of highschool ... we have been talking about marriage after she is done with school, is this wise? i am in the army i deployed to iraq once already i have a great career so i know i can do well for a family

2006-07-16 08:13:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kyle 1

in a marriage,do you think it should be 50/50 or do you women leave the important issues up to your husband,like paying bills,attending to the car,and shopping for groceries,stuff like that.not being nosy,just asking.and who takes care of the kids.

2006-07-16 08:12:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i went out to a bar he likes to get attshon frome girls whin i saw him do this he gets mad and lives me thear .he then gos to anther bar and i go home. the next day he tels me to come pick him up at10am .he then tells me liyes and i make him fill gulty and then he tells me the thurth .he stayed untill closeing at the bar. and had plans to leave with a frend and her frend to go to party at her house .he got in her car and it had to many people and she tells him i will drope them off and come back for you.so he waits but no show.he said her frend and him was going to get togather and have sex. he says he was mad at me becous i told him to stop looking at outher girls is the reason he left and he was going to go to have a good time. i asked if he loved me and he tells me hes not in love with me anymoor but he loves me?

2006-07-16 08:08:12 · 21 answers · asked by candy t 1

my ex-wife is taking me back to court once again. she already has every thing including the kids. she lives in colorado and i live in texas. i tryed getting a continuance for the court date because i don't start work until aug7th and i needed some time to make some money to get a lawyer and fly to colorado for the court date.
well i got the continuance the court date is now 2 days after i start my new job which is out of the country. so i'm now worse off than i was before. it has been granted that i can attend court over the phone which helps. but how can i defend my self with out a lawyer?the ex-wife has a lawyer. i have called every lawyer i could find in colorado no one will talk to me with out paying them. and i dont have the money yet.. i tryed to offer to send my contract of employment to one lawyer for proof. and then offered to sign a contract with them for payment as soon as i started work. he wouldn't go for it. is there any thing else i can do or any where else to turn?

2006-07-16 08:05:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my girl friend cheated on her then boy friend. He knew about it but forgave her. They got married shortly after. But he doesn't know how to trust her again. Any suggestions?

2006-07-16 08:02:22 · 10 answers · asked by leapofff 1

Should I give her the cold shoulder?

2006-07-16 07:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by dyno_bot 2

Hi there.





I'm a 33 year old married man. I have a beautiful wife whom I adore and 2 lovely children. For all the world we have a perfect life. I even feel like a bit of a hypocrit claiming i have a problem. You see.. I met my wife when we were very young. I was 17 and she was 15. Soon after we were expecting our first child. We made a committment to stay together and thankfully we were one of the lucky ones who were able to and are still able to make it work. Being in kinda a settled relationship I kinda gave up on stayin in shape and ended up very overweight. All tru my 20's I was very heavy. Other women were a non issue and I was very happily married anyway so i never gave it a bit of thought. However in my early 30's I got somewhat of a health scare and have since lost over 100lbs. I looked well for the first time in many years and other women have began to show an interest....lol please don't misunderstand...I'm not talking about having women flinging themselves at my feet or anything like that... But just showing an interest. whilst I can say with a hand on my heart I wouldn't entertain any of that carry on... in the back of my mind I'm somewhat torchered by the what ifs.. Sorry for such a trivial question but would anyone have any experience of this or have any helpful advice?

2006-07-16 07:45:12 · 28 answers · asked by Nobigdeal 1

1. Do you ever fantasized about being with a woman?
2. If you had the opportunity and were sure nobody would ever find out would you try it?
3. Have you tried it?
4. Would you do it again?

2006-07-16 07:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by WePlayWellWithOthers 2

I am married and we have a great sex life. But I would like to involve others (male or female). I know that is a very touchy thing. And my husband knows about it, and seems fine if the others are female, but males forget about it. I would like males and females. He says he is not comfy with the guy touching him or me.

I want to know have you ever had a 3some or whatever and how did things work out afterward?

2006-07-16 07:42:37 · 9 answers · asked by lalala 4

2006-07-16 07:38:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife has borderline personality disorder, she has not been diagnosed yet but fits all the critiria. This is having a really negative effect on our marriage, she will love me one day and want me to move out the next. Its gut wrenching. I will support her in anyway that i can but i dont know how or what to do. As of right now she doesnt even want to touch me. it has gone on for a few days and happened a month ago as well. She gets these mood swings and then feels like she doesnt love me. Sometimes these negative times last for weeks at a time. It is distroying us and breaking my heart. I do not want to lose this wonderful women. What can i do? Is there any kind of medication that helps with this? I want to get into a therapeist but i have to find one that does the sliding fee scale due to our money situation. Those arent easy to find around here. Please help me. It would kill me if this family falls apart. (by the way we have a 2 year old boy)

2006-07-16 07:16:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really do appreciate her cooking and I don't want to be an insensitive jerk. It just seems that she needs to learn to clean up after herself. Am I being unreasonable?

2006-07-16 07:15:23 · 18 answers · asked by kbishop79 2

2006-07-16 07:14:56 · 12 answers · asked by Officer 1

when you first met your mate,did you know at that time he or she was the one you were going to spend the rest of your life with.and what attracted you to him or her?was it love at first sight?

2006-07-16 07:09:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-16 06:56:00 · 6 answers · asked by WoodyBretton 3

just for the sax ? looking a love ? waht thay want extly ?

2006-07-16 06:43:49 · 6 answers · asked by Mahm 1

2006-07-16 06:41:11 · 5 answers · asked by obsession0524 2

WE have been talking about it lately but he keeps coming up with excuses like he doesnt want a tv in the bedroom and what if his kids ex wife dies and then they have to switch schools? He led me to believe that i s what he wanted and now he is making excuses. Is it wrong of me to think that maybe he wants to keep 2 separate lives- he doesnt invite me to family weddings, he doesnt allow me to take his daughters anywhere and there are other signs.

2006-07-16 06:20:51 · 17 answers · asked by wesbajar 1

My boyfriend still feels the need to go to his ex wife's house (they shared together) to do house repairs and to see his daughter. I am trying hard to not get in the way of his relationship with his daughter but he treats me unfairly. He lives 2 hours away, so last time he went to do house repairs, he ended up sleeping on the couch. He knew this is something that would have upset me, so he lied to me to my face. I knew he was lying so he confessed that he had spent the night there out of conveinence. I was upset and told him that he shouldn't have lied to me. Then he was pouting and said that I acted like I didn't want him around and that hurt his feelings. I told him that if he wanted his ex wife back to go home but he says he wants to be with me.

This past weekend is like many others. He wanted to spend time with his daughter but he has only tried calling once in the past 3 days. His daughter hates me and he said she may spend the weekend at his house. What should I do?

2006-07-16 06:06:30 · 13 answers · asked by torn 3

2006-07-16 05:59:21 · 18 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1