my husband and i went out to a bar he likes to get attshon frome girls whin i saw him do this he gets mad and lives me thear .he then gos to anther bar and i go home. the next day he tels me to come pick him up at10am .he then tells me liyes and i make him fill gulty and then he tells me the thurth .he stayed untill closeing at the bar. and had plans to leave with a frend and her frend to go to party at her house .he got in her car and it had to many people and she tells him i will drope them off and come back for you.so he waits but no show.he said her frend and him was going to get togather and have sex. he says he was mad at me becous i told him to stop looking at outher girls is the reason he left and he was going to go to have a good time. i asked if he loved me and he tells me hes not in love with me anymoor but he loves me?
2006-07-16 08:08:12 · 21 answers · asked by candy t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
XXXXXXXXXXXXXX it means he's just in this marriage for the benifits. Is this the kind of marriage you want? Need? deserve? XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-16 08:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that he is not committed to your marriage anymore and he is probably using you.
I hope that you do not have any kids between you because he is setting a terrible example for children.
I would suggest that you talk about marriage counseling and doing what ever it will take to make the marriage work in a mutually beneficial way.
If he is not willing to do that, he has totally given up on the marriage and it is time to file for divorce claiming irreconcilable differences.
Good luck.
2006-07-16 15:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to f flip off..might hurt a lot, but keeping him just demeans you and lets him know he can run all over you. Tell him if he ever calls you again from some chicks house, you'll come over and run over him.
Throw his clothes out the door, lock it and let him learn a lesson!
I think one reason my marriage has lasted so many years is that not only does my husband respect me and know I wouldn't pull crap on him, but that I will not accept it from him.
Now it's time for you to stop being a doormat and stand up for yourself.
2006-07-16 15:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go pound sand up his a s s!!! You don`t need that crap so let him go. That`s the stupidest thing you can say to someone( Ilove you but I`m not in love with you!!) He`s got someone else and he`s keeping you around for back up!! Get rid of his a s s now!!! He`s a joke!!!!
2006-07-16 15:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, actions speak a hell of alot louder than words. He has no love for you. He is obvious about the fact that he cheats and does whatever he want to do. Throwing in the"I love you" foolishness is just something he says to keep you and have you focusing NOT on his behavior BUT on that "does he love me, does he love me not" BS. You need to be more concerned about why you allow him to treat you with such disrespect. He don't have to love or like you--BUT he has to respect you. Like singer Kelis, be a BOSS and fire that idiot so you can hire someone who has the qualifications to treat you right.
2006-07-18 11:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by To be or not to be 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey what it means is he cares about you as a person, but as far as a relationship he isn't into you! I've been there you need to take care of you first when you stop worrying about him he will be wondering what's up then you will see the tables turn. take care of you first before any man get happy w/ yourself first, and i guarantee you wont care as much
2006-07-16 15:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by pamic113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to play, but still have the security of a marriage, and he is trying to not hurt you with the I still love you, he thinks that will soften the blow that he is a cheater.
also helping him to rationalize that what he is doing is right in his mind, although it is dead wrong.
2006-07-16 15:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by blackdogandco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this womenizing man loves you but is not in love with you than maybe its time to let him go.
2006-07-16 15:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by Angel & QueensKnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say, it sounds like your relationship is in trouble. He has someone else on his mind.
2006-07-16 15:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes got another woman
2006-07-16 15:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋