If so, what did you do about it? Are you still married? I've heard that if you can overcome something like this it can actually make your marriage stronger (not that I'm recommending it, of course).
2006-07-16 08:58:03 · 14 answers · asked by oh kate! 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, on the cheating. No, on the still married. No, on the overcome it. And a big fat, NO, on the stronger part! (you will be looking over your shoulder all your life and thinking he is still cheating)
2006-07-16 09:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by wittster 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I was with my ex husband for 20 years and he cheated almost the whole time. The first one I knew about, found out about, is someone that I had known since I was 9 years old!! AND she is my ex husbands sis in law!!! That lasted for 4 years, at least, and he told me it was for only one. Then he became a truck driver. He had an emotional affair with a co worker at one job, then spent tons and tons of money on girls and drugs at another job.
I had left him twice after finding out about the first two, but I kept going back. Stupid move on my part. After this last job of him constantly getting women and drugs, I had had enough and left him emotionally for about a year, then left him physically for good. I have never been happier in my life!
We did try to work it out for a long time, but it just wouldn't work since he wouldn't quit cheating and lying. I am now with someone that doesn't believe in having affaris, lying, doing drugs, abusing women, etc. I have finally met my soul mate and am planning to marry him, probably next year.
2006-07-16 12:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I´m just in the middle of it!!! I found out two weeks ago that my husband had been cheating on me for a whole year. We´ve just been married for 2 1/2 years. He´s trash!
2006-07-16 09:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Paulina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband cheated. When I found out about the last one, I also found evidence of three other affairs! We were married for 11 years.
As I said, he's my ex husband; that was the last straw for me. I could no longer trust anything he said again. We've been divorced for 5 years, and I still don't trust him. We only have contact because we have children.
2006-07-16 11:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by long_ebony_locs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Ex wife cheated 3 times on me. After the 3rd(with her First Cousin) I kicked her to the curb. I got to keep the house and full custody of my children. Judges don't like cheating spouses.
After the first 2 times we did the counseling bit. I don't think she wanted to change that's why she did it again.
2006-07-16 09:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our 5th yr anniversary is next month. i just found out two weeks ago that my husband has a 3 yr old son that he has been paying child support for.
i have a copy of the birth certificate and paternity test. they are my evidence of adultry. i am getting a divorce.
he was abusive physically and emotionally, so this was the last straw.
i used to pray to become a widow, but God gave me a window instead... lol
2006-07-16 10:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by ppunk71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me while i was carring for my terminal ill mother He said i was not paying attention to him he wasnt working i was still working fulltime overnite and caring for my mother all day keep in mind i still took care of bills for us and my mother i said we could work it out but two years later its the topic behind every argument i throw it in his face our marriage has not been the same i have cheated i dont respect him i dont think you get over it. plus it didnt help that he's an alcoholic and unemployed
2006-07-16 11:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to overcome it now. so far my marriage is not stronger. still a lot of resentment and hurt and mistrust.
2006-07-16 09:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by starla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife and i have an understanding that if anyone cheats its automatic divorce.....that gives us a deturence like the old cold war
2006-07-16 09:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by bill6866 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and it was 2 years ago and i recently cheated back on him............. you see it never stops so you should just get with some one you can trust
2006-07-16 16:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by makayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋