I am married and we have a great sex life. But I would like to involve others (male or female). I know that is a very touchy thing. And my husband knows about it, and seems fine if the others are female, but males forget about it. I would like males and females. He says he is not comfy with the guy touching him or me.
I want to know have you ever had a 3some or whatever and how did things work out afterward?
2006-07-16 07:42:37 · 9 answers · asked by lalala 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband and I have had 3somes and 4somes. Some were fantastic and others were not so good. If your husband is not comfortable seeing you with another man then you definitely should not include one. One key to a successful swinging lifestyle is to make sure all parties involved are comfortable and in agreement. That can only be accomplished by communicating with each other.
2006-07-16 07:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by WePlayWellWithOthers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I were good friends with another couple and we used to get together on weekends and get out of town together for some adult fun. We would have sex together in the same bed and at times we would swap and we ALL had some great times. There was never jealousy or anything like that. We all pleasured eachother in special ways and it worked out great till they moved away. how i miss them!
2006-07-16 14:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by johnmishere1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu need to be very secure in your relationship for this to work...no room for jealousy in a 3 way. Your husband is not there yet, or he would not care about another male. Don't go for it until he has gained maturity enough to handle whatever happens in the tryst.
2006-07-16 14:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never have and I dont think its such a great idea to be inviting others in the bedroom , what if you or your husband ends up really liking it ? what if y'all meet up and do things with the other knowing in secret ? how would you feel ? what if they always wanted to invite other woman over to play ? what if he pays more attention to her during sex ? All these things would heave a heavy toll on my mind i wouldn't risk such a thing .
2006-07-16 15:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, I'm assuming this was your idea & he's not as open minded as you are in regards to partners & sharing. I hate to tell you, but it just won't work, because you'll want more & he won't be able to deal with another guy. You're better off doing this with someone else & just not telling him about it. Since it is for your pleasure, just keep it that way.
2006-07-16 16:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have andf my fsience was happy with after word before he said no but until it happend he was happy he saw the plesure it game both of us
2006-07-16 14:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama080989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you want to be tested for HIV frequently.
2006-07-16 15:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by bill6866 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope never had
2006-07-16 14:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by buttseyeluv43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no never did it sorry
2006-07-16 14:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by starla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋