women help please?

Question

has anyone ever asked you if your expecting when your not?
almost everytime i go to a store infact today a man asked me if im exspecting and gave me his church card and said if i need any help stop by,
its so embaressing , does this happen to you?
im 19 yrs old and this has been happening for the past year, yes my stomach is big, all i eat is fast foods, and i know i need to start exercising, but evertime this happens to me i feel so bad

io havent even had a baby before but i was pregnant for a 6 weeks and had a miscariage but still i dont think that should make me look fat

Answer 1

Oh man.. that's messed up.!..next time, just look them in the eye and try to get some tears up and say that you just miscarried after 7 months of being pregnant. Embarrass them!!

Answer 2

I used to be a lot bigger than I am now and Yes I was asked that question once and it is not only humiliating but also kills what little amount of self-esteem you do have.Someone mentioned something about the kind of clothing you wear, do you wear things that maybe are just unflattering to your bod?
You really do need to cut out the fast food not only do you pack on the pounds but its really not good for you. If it will make the transition easier maybe allow yourself fast food once a week and try to eat healthier. Also want do you drink? I used to drink Pepsi all the time and switched to water and Diet pepsi and I dropped 15 pounds really fast.
As far as people asking you if you are expecting people are rude and just dont think. Good luck to you and try to eat healthier.

Answer 3

I am a woman with that same body style. Lots and lots of sit-ups helps. In regards to people who as the stupid question - turn the tables on them. When someone asks if you are pregnant launch into your best acting job ever. Let the tears well up in your eyes and burst out. Say, "I was, but I lost the baby!" Cry like a baby and embarrass them right back.

Answer 4

Honey yes this has happened to me also ...but I'm 40/w 3 grown children.
You are to young to go through that.If it matters to you or hurts your feelings then do something about it.I won't say what because different strokes for different folks,but you can start by making less trips to the fast food place and exercising more(walking,running etc)bottom line you have to want to change you.

Answer 5

Maybe its the type clothes you wear. Take a good long look in the mirror and see if you think you look pregnant. I think it is rude for anyone to assume someone is pregnant unless it is soooo obvious.

Try to eat better and excercise because the older you get theharder it will be to lose the weight.

Answer 6

OH no no no never has happened , that must be a self esteem crusher .. can i ask you a question tho , do you drink allot ? not to say having a drink every now and again is bad for you , cause it ain't , but uh Ive noticed allot of younger women start drinking allot get a protruding lill beer belly , and it can kinda look like your expecting . something to think about ..

Answer 7

I'm sorry this is happening to you. I made the mistake of asking someone when their baby was due and she wasn't pregnant, and I felt terrible too!!!

Now I never assume someone's pregnant unless I see a baby coming out.

Answer 8

its rude especially with you being only 19----try to change the type of clothes you wear and a diet wouldnt hurt because its true the older you get the harder it is to lose i know that for a fact its hard no lie but well worth the end results

Answer 9

Paging Jenny Craig....Paging Jenny Craig

Answer 10

You should stop eating fast foods and start eating healthy foods. Be patient and you´ll lose weight.