I want to know of any man or women that found their soumate. I want to know how you knew they were the ones. How you found your soulmate, where and when. Are you still together? And what does it feel like to be united with your soulmate.
I believe I found mine, but I cant be with him as I am married to someone else and he too is married to someone else.
Was anyone else in this position, and if so what was your outcome?
2006-07-16
12:41:51
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Spellbinder
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Family & Relationships
➔ Marriage & Divorce
For the people who think I have cheated on my husband and that I m a whore, i have news for you. We have not acted on our feelings, we have not even discussed our feelings with each other. What we feel for one anothe is only ever spoken through our eyes....and the happiness we feel when we are together as FRIENDS!!!!
If we are not soulmates, then why do we bring so much joy and happiness to each other. Why do we feel so complete and content in each others company, why is it that we cant bare even think of never seinging him again.
He gives me life, and when his not there, i might as well be dead.....
2006-07-16
13:24:59 ·
update #1
Yes. Him and I have always been together.
A soulmate is your other " you". People have more than 1 soulmate. Soulmates who are spiritual, experience the best enounters, because in essense, it is a metaphysical phenomenon. However, I believe that you are not always meant to be together forever. Obstacles always arrise. And sometimes once their mission together is complete, you depart sadly... but never forgetting each other and if you are spiritual you won't ever feel alone, because they will be there teaching you to be stronger from any kind of distance. Soulmates also have similar physical characteristics...If they have a strong enough connection they can practice telepathy. A soulmate is not someone you learn to love, it is someone you already love and the relationship is not able to be explained but felt.
I think that.. you are in an obstacle of being with him and you can't do anything. You need to make a decision based on where you think you'd find a better future.. and if he would do the same for you as well. Just make sure you don't regret anything you choose.. because you very well may not be meant to be with him, but as the bestest friends. And if he is in your life, it is for a reason.
2006-07-17 14:34:26
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answered by ahs_freakychic 2
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That you believe in a soulmate proves you are unrealistic. How the hell did you manage to find a soulmate while you are married to another? Does that mean you are a cheat? Any guy who is not married to you has NOTHING invested. He can tell you anything and you are naive enough to think this guy is a soulmate? Let this guy live with you and deal with your human foibles, at your best, worst and most critical and see how he treats you. Get your life together and go work on your marriage. You and the other married guy are on thin ice. Its obvious that you both are incapable of maintaining a faithful relationship and thus cannot possibly be soulmates. Do not be duped by infatuation. Perhaps a little more emotional investment in your marriage would cure you r problem.
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I don't think I called you a whore. There's one thing I do know and that's marriage isn't easy. The kind of relationship where you are able to spend time longingly looking into each others eyes ends at high school. Try spending some of your energy on your husband and you may be better off.
2006-07-16 19:57:52
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answered by Flagger 6
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I and most likely every married woman in the world would just like to say stay away from other womens husbands since when did it become ok to do this to one another really come on you cant think that what you are doing or or even thinking about doing is right. Havent you thought even of the fact that what happens when he finds the next soulmate after you I mean if he is doing it to his wife now what makes you think he wont do it to you. Get a grip and stay away from that poor womans husband.
2006-07-16 20:14:45
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answered by Jessica G 1
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The first time I ever laid eyes on my husband, I suspected he was the one, even though I was heavily involved with someone else. I was in the Army Reserves during college and first saw him leaving the coat room, about 300 feet away from where I was standing in formation. That was in 1981. We married in 1983, six months after we had started dating.
We love each other fiercely, but we're both "strong" personalities and argue a lot. We're always compromising on things, but he still gives me goosebumps.
My grandfather left his sweetheart, whose family had money while his was quite poor, in Europe in the 1920s to make his fortune in the US. When he went back for her 6 years later, she had married. So he returned to the US and married. Her husband died. His first wife died. He went back for her again, but again, she had remarried, so he brought a wife back from Europe. This second wife, my grandmother, died in the 1960s. The sweetheart was on her third husband. In the 1970s, his sweetheart contacted him. They were both single now but they had established their lives continents apart and each felt too old to start anew someplace else. They kept a running correspondence, but never saw each other again.
2006-07-16 20:08:56
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answered by Jess Wundring 4
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Yes, I found my soulmate but there are still days when I feel like stabbing him in the forehead with a fork. Nothing's perfect.
Re: Your soulmate being married to someone else, well my friend, he belongs to someone else so let it go, plain and simple.
2006-07-16 19:46:37
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answered by Joolz 2
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We found each other. But we were both divorced, so it all worked out. In your case, I think I'd have to let him go. But that's your decision.
2006-07-16 19:53:32
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answered by fishing66833 6
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yes, i have, we met on the internet and have everything in common, so i need to take the next step real slow!
2006-07-16 19:55:51
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answered by sorrells316 6
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OmGoodness... I know how this situation all to good.... I left... and have been with him 10 years this yr
2006-07-16 19:46:46
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answered by Anonymous
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i found mine, and we did go thru a rough patch, but we have been together 5 years... i love him! he's Everything
2006-07-16 19:47:59
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answered by bronzebabekentucky 7
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yes
age over 50 (both)
met on yahoo personals
I was divorced BEFORE i found mine, and mine was widowed
2006-07-16 19:47:44
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answered by G. M. 6
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