been married 3 years..2 yr old and 2 mo pregnant...hubby leaves wednesday..doesnt even call...i go friday and tell him to come home...he dont till 2 am...we talk sat morn...he dont say anything...i had to go somewhere and when i got back hed got his things and just walked out...no note or anything...what kind of man would just walk out on his babylike nothing matters...and he never did anything for the family either...3 yrs of marriage...hes never worked...he gets ssi...but thats not near enough...and he hates my dad that has helped me pay for things i cant...my dad fixed a old house for us..give us a car to drive(and hubby refuses to let my drive)...and me his truck(cause hubby being a a**)..to drive...and this isnt the first time hes done it...he thinks my dad is the problem...im just not gonna drop my dad because he wants me too...should i work it out or just let him stay away...he dont seem to care about me or his children
2006-07-16 22:55:11 · 18 answers · asked by crazywitch911 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just remember this one thing..... you can do bad by yourself, you don't need him to help you do bad. It's obvious that he doesn't care for you or his children. Your dad is looking out for you because you husband is not. he should be commended trust your dad he will always look out for your best interest.
2006-07-16 23:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't work it out with him. It isn't worth it. It sounds like you are not happy with the life anyways. Divorce him and move on with your life. Your dad is helping you so you should have no problem with getting through this tough time. Look for someone new who will take care of you and your children.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 07:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband thinks no more of you and your children to treat you like he does, WHAT do you need him for? Get rid of him. Lock the door, bar the windows and thank GOD he is gone. Be glad that you aren't a battered woman, that your child isn't abused.
It is going to be tough to get through, but with the support of friends and family.....you will make it through this.
2006-07-17 06:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by grandmaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him. he is no good. seriously. what kind of a man who doesn't support his family. i am not saying you should go shopping while he works his backside off. but is a two parties contribution. just think if someone asks you what are you so proud of your husband? if you have something to say then may be the reasons to give him another chance. is easy for ppl to make a judgement but from the sound of your story, he is no good.
2006-07-17 06:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Yvette R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you are better off with out him.
Your children do not need a father, whom comes in & out of their lives, it's to confusing for them.
You need to file for divorce & child support & be done with it.
The last thing you need is to have two children & the pressure of a husband who will not partisapate in raising them.
Since you father is such a big part of your life, allow him to be the father figure in your childrens lives.
2006-07-17 08:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO SEE A GOOD LAWER,ABANDENMENT.YOU HAVE ALREADY WON.HES SEEING SOMEONE ELSE,YOU OR THE KIDS AT THIS STAGE OF THE GAME DONT MEAN MUCH.ADULTRUS BEHAVOUR.NO 50/50..SUPPORT FOR 2 WILL BE SET AT 23% OF HIS GROSS SAL:(pay).I KNOW I JUST DID IT.ONE 21 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER @ 200.00 A WEEK(COLLAGE)LOST THE HOME AND CONTAINTS.THE ONLY THING SHE DIDNT GET WAS MY JOB?????
2006-07-17 09:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce take with him by a law in force and leave with peaceful mind by preparing your children in good views.
2006-07-17 07:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Somi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no I wouldn't work it out with him. Any man who would walk out on his pregnant wife and child is a sorry *** man. you can be miserable all by yourself. Or you can be strong and move forward and be a good example for your children.
2006-07-17 06:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Veronique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to a marriage counselor. He needs a counselor by himself as well it sounds like. I agree with you, it doesn't sound like he cares much. If counseling doesn't work, I would leave.
2006-07-17 06:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump him, men like should through out fm house ,, i think you deserve a better man who's responsible
2006-07-17 06:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Some 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋