what can you say about a husband who's dating and having sex with someone other than his wife.. but this time its a gay..
2006-07-16 19:49:49 · 23 answers · asked by iNfectiOus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately that happens more often than expected.
Our society "values" drive some homosexuals to hide their real sexuality by marring a person of the other sex, this way they please the community and try to follow what is expected from them.
The world is going through a change and everyday homosexuality is being more accepted and the people that live this kind of life being respected, with this in the future this kind of behavior will be just history.
Now about this guy, I'm just sorry that he is not strong enough to stand by his options.
2006-07-16 21:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by joseclaudio2001us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's time for a divorce. You can't possibly share your love with people other than your prtner, coz then that won't be love anymore. Being gay isn't horrible, but it sure makes husbands distrustful towards their wives. Divorce will get both the husband and the wife out of false dilemmas.It's not worth leading a confused life like that.
2006-07-17 02:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon.
Is this your husband or a friend of yours?
If it's your husband, you need to take extra precautions & not have unprotected sex. You also need to decide if you can live with his infidelity, his bisexuality, & his possibly leaving you for a man.
If he's a friend of yours, by all means support him in his sexual preferences, but you're duty bound to tell his wife for her own sexual health and safety.
I lived with a guy who liked to swing both ways. I was ignorant of the fact until he infected me with Hepatitus B. I could've died from liver cancer or become a 'carrier' of the disease..either being a normal result, but I was extremely lucky to make a full recovery instead. I dumped that conscienceless stinker
2006-07-17 03:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by Chencha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... a lot of gay people marry and have children, just to shelter themselves from the social branding as "gay".
It really depends on how his wife regards it; if she does not object (either because she doesn't know, that is, her husband is good to her and gives her enough attention; or because she know and consents), then the rest of the people... it's none of their business.
2006-07-17 02:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the wife knows? And she's still having sex with him? Looks like she deserves whatever she get's.
2006-07-17 02:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by lost_carolina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got married to hide the fact that he is gay to please his mom or get respect in the company he is working for, could be going through a mid-life crisis, decided to experiment or just got caught up in the moment. Men do such wierd things.
2006-07-17 03:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is gay and was trying to hide in a marriage.
It is going to be hard for her to deal with but he is what he is and it's not her fault.
Does she want to stay in this marriage knowing this?Does he?
Then are their children involved?That would be huge.A lot harder for kids to deal with this.In my opinion divorce is the only option but I am not them so they need to talk this through and do what's best for them.
2006-07-17 02:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by cmeand3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the Huaband is not fully satisfied with the Wife and he is bored with women and is now experimenting with something New !
2006-07-17 02:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by earthwaterfireairsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt matter whether he's having sex with a man or woman.. anyone other then his spouse is still cheating.. unfortunately for her she was married to a closet homosexual.. time for them both just to move on..
2006-07-17 02:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing is to talk to him... Express your views... Maybe its something that excites you to watch or join in... If you can't deal with the situation then you need to make a choice. Is he bi or is he straight gay? Don't ask us talk to him...
2006-07-17 03:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋