The wife is a female dog and hardly gives him the time of day anymore. She should have taking care of her husband more better or he would have not seeked me!!!
2006-07-18 21:18:42 · 44 answers · asked by butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not married and I do not expect nothing from him. I will go about my own way when things get hot with the wife. To much drama.
2006-07-18 21:36:03 · update #1
Yes I know the wife and kids.
2006-07-18 21:53:51 · update #2
Regardless of what you think of his wife, yes it is wrong for you to be sleeping/seeing a married man. And gee, I probably would give my husband the time of day if he was sleeping around either! How do you know you're the first? Would you want your husband to cheat on you? That is what you deserve.....
Leave him alone, and maybe he can find a way back to his wife. If not, he could divorce her and then he could go out with you....until he finds someone else better.
2006-07-18 21:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by jazzzame 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is what he tells u. U do not need to be fooling yoursdelf into thinking that what u r doing is okay because it isn't. There are always 2 sides to a story, and obviously u only see 1 side. Maybe there is a reason why the wife ignores her husband. Don't u think that he could have possibly cheated b4??? U won't be the last, and besides u answered your own question.....this is only about sex, but females always get twisted up in the game. Girl get out and get your freak on somewhere else. U don't need this mess. Unless u r one who likes to live in chaos.
2006-07-18 21:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by jonzmom1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a recently divorced woman who has cheated. I was involved with a married man for about 7 months until we both started to get feeling for each other. My first response was that, hell, SHE has nothing to do with me....but she does. I believed, too, that yes, it was her fault. In the end, it is no ones fault but HIS, for being unfaithful. His traumatic relationship is his own. If you get involved with him, before he dissolves the marriage, then the you could be blamed by the wife and the children, then where does that leave you? If you say that you're only in it for the sex, then why do you care if he is open with you? I would think about that, if I were you. It's not WRONG, but in ways it's not right. Would he be someone that you could see yourself with for awhile? If not, then I'd get away, before it all falls apart. There are plenty of men out there that are available, and that aren't married.
2006-07-18 22:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But who is he committed to? It's not wrong if you both feel it is OK, (and you don't believe in the Bible.) But as for you? If he's messing with you, but still with his wife, what does that make you? It seems like you are number two! And are you comfortable with that? No woman feels OK with number two once she realizes that that's what she is. The fact that you want someone else to make your "right or wrong" decision lets me know you know the answer. You know it's wrong, and you know he will stay with her. And another thought: Why would you want to stay with a KNOWN cheater? As soon you loose his interest, where will he go? Set yourself up for failure either way, it's a no win situation for you. If you take a good look, nothing good comes for you. Find someone who wants you and you only. He's out there.
2006-07-18 21:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUst remember that at one time he loved his wife and though he'd never cheat on her.Of course the sex is great with him , Its new, its a challenge, But remember, once a cheater, almost allways is a cheater from that point on., I'm sure this isn't the first time hes done it, and won';t be the last,. Obviously his wife isn't satisifying him, but I wonder if she even knows that, ot did he just dip out without trying to talk oh, Good luck!! You'll need it!
2006-07-18 21:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Stacey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you talk with him how much does he really listen to what your saying and how much of it is about himself. I'm guessing he's pretty self centered. Ask him what your fav. color is.
How could you judge his wife having one sided knowledge? Any man who can not remain true to his wife in any circumstance is the dog. Try to look at this situation if the wife where your sister and see if you are doing the right thing. I am not trying to yell at you just to get you to see how wrong this is. I would bet he feeds you all kinds of info just to make you feel sorry for him. I also bet your not his first affair.
2006-07-18 21:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Namooni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no .. your the dog and so is the guy..... when people are no longer happy in marriage they either try and work it out OR they divorce then they go screw other people.. and that's just what he's telling you about his wife is it?? So that it justifies his behaviour??? Anyways how would you feel if you were the wife?? and don;t think but i would look after my husband blah blah cause that's just crap... it's just an excuse that sleazy selfish in mature guys use to get silly chicks like you into bed on a regular basis,, remember girly.. what goes around comes around!!!!
2006-07-18 21:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the wife is a Dog, then why has he not left her for sweet you?
Think about it girl, if he can't sort out his wife then he is just using you for sex. You will just end up being hurt. I don't believe it that you have accepted to be his second best.
2006-07-18 21:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by mwilaeuzaih 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you or any of the other girls i'm sure he has been with... don't think i don't understand, b/c i have been in a similar situation, and i was STILL wrong, b/c he is still married. if he is being treated so badly then he needs to grow some balls and leave. FURTHERMORE, if he has ANY 'love' and 'respect' for you and this relationship he has with you, he will leave b/c HE knows that it is wrong to have affairs. As much as i sympathize with your emotional turmoil, for everyone involved (your karma included), you need to wait until he gets his life sorted out, no matter how much it will suck. b/c if it's true love, then he will do it, and come back. Good luck!!
2006-07-18 21:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Alynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't slept with my wife for > 10 yrs. For some people divorce is very very difficult to obtain, and abstinence is not an option.
Of course, he choose his wife and maybe he turned her into a dog, so be careful.
2006-07-18 21:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by hellbent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋