2006-07-18 23:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by mohannad_n1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mine cheated on me too.....What you do is understand that if she did it once, he'll likely do it again, and that she clearly doesn't love you.....that isn't love. You deal with the hurt, take it like a man, and you move on. you get something to keep you busy, keep your mind off things, and understand that it isn't your fault, its her character defect, not yours. When she says mean things to you, understand that it is because she knows she is wrong, and is simply lashing out rather then dealing with her own problems...
2006-07-18 23:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by ambercan12345 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With a name like Mohamed I presume that you are a Muslim. Muslims are allowed to beat their wives and are well known for their cruelty to their wives. You may have been faithful to your wife in one way, but have you been cruel to her? I put it to you that you have NOT treated her as a loving husband should.
I know that Muslims make their wives walk 5 paces behind them, have you treated your wife like a dog?
Mohamed, perhaps YOU are the one who needs to change, perhaps you should start loving your wife and treating her kindly.
Helping in the house and bringing her gifts, taking her out and treating her like a queen. Then she might show some respect for you.
Try reading the Bible and see how Jesus tells men to treat their wives? Show real love towards her and don't treat her like a second rate citizen. Remember RESPECT MUST BE EARNED, you cannot ever respect someone who beats you and treats you like a dog.
I realise that I wont get the 10 points for this question, but Mohamed, look first to yourself as you are the only one you can change, if you are nice to your wife, she will be better towards you.
2006-07-19 06:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have not mentioned the details. At First be sure that she has cheated you or it is you who is taking her in wrong way. If you are 100% sure that she is cheating you (in what manner?) than find the reason why is she doing that. try to bring her back in her own life and even your's. i know it hurts when someone, we love very much ditches us but it hurt us more when it is in our hand to bring that person back in our life and we are not doing it. if you love your wife let your love make her love to you. try hard. It is easy to break relationship but it takes a lot to built it and sometime it is impossible to rebuit it. so don't think to break if it is in your hand to save it.
BEST OF LUCK.
2006-07-19 06:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found beating the crap out of the boyfriend and leaving my wife worked for me
2006-07-19 06:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her to the curb
once a cheater always a cheater
2006-07-19 06:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋