Marriage & Divorce - 18 July 2006

Been with my partner for over a year...no marriage talk at this point...but the word has been mentioned here and there.....That is were the problem starts....we disagree. Both been married before....I don't think there is a point to it.....when we first met we both agreed that we didnt want marriage....Only one has changed his mind...with the saying that someday if I want to get married! I have not changed my opinion on marriage....I dont want to do it again. Whats wrong with living together ? Am I wrong? By the way I have been married 3 times and him 2. Together we have 7 kids....Not quite the brady bunch but it is good. Its not destroying our relationship...but it is a shadow. Yesterday he told his daughter that some day we would be married.

2006-07-18 11:34:53 · 10 answers · asked by delightful1970 1

I know he will make a good husband and father and he is a good provider. I should just accept that I cannot have everything.

2006-07-18 11:30:47 · 35 answers · asked by consigliere 6

out of shape as in maybe their stomach isn't flat, and has pudge. also does hair style matter.

2006-07-18 11:21:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for ideas to arrange a fun evening with my wife in the Los Angeles area. Even though she is a bit on the straight side, she has offered to go to a strip joint with me. She's open to what she called a "sexually charged adventure"

Any ideas?

2006-07-18 11:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by mrpeabody 3

Ok my husband and i sepereated for 1 year about 2 years ago and now we are fine and all is well we just hit a bump in the road. Now while i was seperated i went on a date with a fireman we saw eachother a few times and when it came to intamacy i just kissed him. He wanted more i couldn't because i still loved my man. Now my husband's business partners girlfriend is my friend now and i told her about this. I have found out recently that she has told her boyfriend alot of things about my husband and i. Should i trust she won't tell him about the firemand and should i just come clean and tell my husband of the relationship?

2006-07-18 11:20:16 · 6 answers · asked by blondiebella 3

My husband thinks that working hard and long hours to provide us a better life is what I want. But I don't agree, just having enough to get by and some to put in savings is enough for me. I work too but normal hours. I want to know how many women out there would rather have a comfortable life but rarely see their husbands/boyfriends or would they rather make enough and spend more time with their men?

Men, do you think that is what women want? With the rate of divorce nowadays, is it lack of communication vs 'long distance' relationship. Meaning two people rarely see each other due to conflicting work schedules?

2006-07-18 11:15:28 · 22 answers · asked by jade11378 3

I am the maid of honor for my sisters wedding and am stumped on what to say at the reception. Every web sight I go to says it's free and then they ask for your credit card. HELP

2006-07-18 11:06:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has confided that she wants a black stripper for her birthday. I thouht she was joking at first. She said that if I did get her one, she would allow me one wish also, like my fantasy about her dressing up like a maid. Or even allowing me to get a lapdance from a female stripper (one time). She said that she has no intentions about being unfaithful. She has been faithful and would just like one fantasy and would not ask for more. She says that she would not do anything sexual with the stripper, but would touch him if I would let her. If not, she would just look. Should I allow her? She IS a faithful wife and is extremely open with me. She says that she is 30 this year and would like to do one crazy thing since we married so young. She says seeing a muscular black guy strip for her is the only thing she wants. Should I allow her one crazy thing like this? Should i be bothered by the racial aspect or is it a common fantasy?

2006-07-18 11:02:14 · 22 answers · asked by yofreshbreeze 1

2006-07-18 10:55:43 · 39 answers · asked by skept1c 3

It's just the internet so it shouldn't be cheating.

2006-07-18 10:55:40 · 24 answers · asked by wildladyreba 2

Please say yes!!

2006-07-18 10:44:30 · 16 answers · asked by whatwouldjesusdo23 1

I'm an American and my boyfriend of three years is Arab and he recently asked me to marry him, but refuses to have sex before we get married. I love him,but what if we are incompatible sexually? Is that something to really 'find out" after marriage?

2006-07-18 10:40:04 · 18 answers · asked by consigliere 6

Should my wife be pissed at this and want to leave me, she says that she is not gonna look behind her back everyday to make sure I am not with my ex in a way I should not be. I have children with my ex-wife.

2006-07-18 10:35:13 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is for the father in case of the mother leaves with the baby and we are not married

2006-07-18 10:32:35 · 5 answers · asked by john 1

It's like bleeding inside but you can't even shed a single tear. If only we can cry and then feel better afterwards but no, we just have to keep it all inside.

2006-07-18 10:30:40 · 6 answers · asked by *♥£öVe§♥* 3

Mine is sort of 'on hold' I guess you'd say,with my hubby working very long hours and our 4 kids keeping us sooooo busy.

2006-07-18 10:15:07 · 14 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7

I have a low sex drive, this happened after the birth of my son and I am going crazy trying to fix the problem but it is hard to fix the problem when you don't know what the problem is. This is causing a problem within my marrige my husband thinks I am not attracted to him anymore and that is not the truth. Has anyone else had this problem and what did you do to fix it??? Help Help please

2006-07-18 10:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by 4X4 Woman 3

2006-07-18 10:11:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 10:09:51 · 8 answers · asked by Gearhead 2

If a woman stays home to "take care of the home and family" but does neither...does this man have any recourse?...He tries to keep up with the cleaning but he works, She can tell him every tv show on at any given moment and she has more virual friends than IRL friends. The kids are mostly clean and well kept but don't have nice clothes and have been known to throw the main breaker in the house to get her off the puter when tired of being ignored.
I would really like to get the ladies opinions if possible but men you chime in too please

Thanks

2006-07-18 10:05:04 · 14 answers · asked by Cadman1965 3

2006-07-18 10:01:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never gone back out with someone who has cheated because I feel I wouldnt be able to trust them and I would hate to be jealous for the remainder of a relationship.. have you ever gotten past it, and if so, what did you do to get past it?

Im posting this in the marriage and divorce section because I want older and experienced answers.

2006-07-18 10:01:03 · 18 answers · asked by senacia 4

What do the Statistics declare or just your own opinion on this question. I would preferr those who are already married and have been married for a long time.
If not, then just give me your opinion.

2006-07-18 09:54:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 09:53:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 09:52:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 09:51:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my hustband that we could go to foxwood but now i change my mine because i would like to go to the beach on my b-day. He is mad at me and i don't know what i should do . should do both. that's what he went to do. but i just told him it is my b-day. he still mad at me. so told him to take 20 dallors and run . he didn't like that at all. that is because he went more money to play with. i yelled at him because he is being stupid. I saided to him u went to the foxwood 2 time. u should be happy. i said to him that forget about it i wouldn't go anywere now .

2006-07-18 09:47:18 · 6 answers · asked by cookie 2

though ias her to wear inner garments at home , she refuses and says i interfere with her freedom - i feel embrassed when my friends coming hom having a nice view of them

2006-07-18 09:40:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am just not happy with my marriage. For 8 years I have done EVERYTHING!! We have 2 children, a four year old and a one year old. I just don't think I love him anymore. He has changed though, He helps me a whole lot more than he use to. Any advice? or should I just go ahead and leave?

2006-07-18 09:36:19 · 12 answers · asked by Cutie B 1

2006-07-18 09:29:30 · 14 answers · asked by maf20057 1