Marriage & Divorce - 18 July 2006

What do you think I should do. He said he would never do it again...should I trust him again and sort out our marrage?

2006-07-18 05:55:07 · 6 answers · asked by fornewsh1@sbcglobal.net 1

If you are a single mother with a young child, live in the US, don't have a boyfriend, and are in need of small financial help, then tell me your story. Any small amount helps, right?

2006-07-18 05:50:56 · 9 answers · asked by epicrown 1

I have this fantsy that I come home from work, my wife has just got done reading some girly porn (stupid women's magizine) and gives me the why don't you open my car door or buy me flowers.

I tell her cause you mean more to me now when we were courting and my love is so much more mature and and now I give you my BEST not just tokens of love. You see I no longer open your car door because I've bought you the whole car, I no longer buy flowerer's because I bought you the house so you can have flowers growing all the time.

Then she respondes you're right, tonight I'm going to show you my BEST.

2006-07-18 05:45:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love him, but he insults me, he always says he is going to change....

2006-07-18 05:43:55 · 23 answers · asked by bershka_girl25 1

Don't want to leave marriage/family, but I desire the other woman badly, not just for sex, but for a relationship. Please help me, I am really confused.

2006-07-18 05:43:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is 35years old and when we got together/married sex was great but now that we have settled in the sex seems to be disapearing. Is it normal to have a loss of sex drive at this age or is this a problem with us? Men please tell me what I can do to help either way!

2006-07-18 05:38:48 · 35 answers · asked by 4X4 Woman 3

2006-07-18 05:32:44 · 23 answers · asked by Vanessa w 2

I got marriage an year back, my wife lost desire every time we go to bed. i never enjoy her, i got a doctor, she exemine her and note, "no problems", i think to devorce her.

2006-07-18 05:23:45 · 30 answers · asked by MrGreen 1

2006-07-18 05:21:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been having problems lately (see previous questions). Well recently things have gotten better. We're now sleeping in the same bedroom again, back to laying next to each other when we watch tv. She still doesn't reciprocate a whole lot with the kisses or the holding of the hands and it's going on close to three months now without sex. Recently we had a conversation about our current status and she said she didn't see this having a positive outcome and she didn't want me reading into anything and that she can't just quit me cold turkey so that's why all these little things have happened yet at the end of the conversation she said she's not a cold person and excuse her for being unsure. Then the following day on our way to work she said I have to stop taking every little sign of rejection as if it's always going to be this way, that i need to stop thinking things won't get better and she just needs me to relax. So I'm confused. Is she trying to figure things out?

2006-07-18 05:16:41 · 10 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1

They say it is because of the bible but the bible also states that a man should be stoned to death for laying next to a women while he is menstating. They do that now a days.


Make me understand this please?

I am straight and married but support civil unions.

2006-07-18 05:04:52 · 4 answers · asked by evrythnnxs 4

This is a real serious one. How do you know when u have reached an orgasm.

2006-07-18 05:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by viddy 2

As much as I didnt want to do this, my husband has proven to me that my marriage is done. (I can't work in it for the both of us anymore) So, here is my question. Do I slowly hurt him and just start lieing to him and be a total b*itch to him or just let him go?

2006-07-18 05:01:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey ladies; how many times a month do you want your husband to have 'needs'? You know, in the bedroom.

2006-07-18 04:59:29 · 10 answers · asked by welcome_to_how_things_will_be 3

We got married last October. He was everything I ever wanted plus more, well in the last months things have fallen apart and he has become really distant and cold. We went on a vacation with his family and it was torture because he didn't really achknowledge my existence. I confronted him and he told me he didn't love me and didn't want to be with me anymore. But this made no sense because days earlier he was writing me love letters and being so sweet. When we got home after about a week or so of me trying to get affection, attention, or something I left home telling him I would not stay where I felt unwanted. He didn't beg me to come back and I got really worried about things, I confronted him again and he broke down and admitted to cheating on me at the beginning of this year while at work (he was a car salesman and he had sex with a customer he sold a car to in the car he sold her in daylight!!!) He said it was a 1 time thing and that it is because of

2006-07-18 04:58:16 · 21 answers · asked by jackiep13084 1

I am 24 and a twin. I just got married 2 mths ago. My husband has been bringing up the topic of making a family. I thought we should wait to see if this marrage works. But he really wants to have sex. What should we do. I want to be a young mom. When should we have sex and should it be unprotected. I would like to know when you had your first baby by age and if married. Thank You!!!!

2006-07-18 04:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by Kelly M. 2

and my partner is baptised in jehova witness religion can we still get married by catholic church with no complications? He doesn't attend to the jehova witness church but he is baptised.

2006-07-18 04:49:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently in the process of proceeding my divorce. My soon to be ex cheated me several times and enough is enough for me. When I informed him of this divorce, he was attached overseas for work, that was sometime in May. Since then, he has refused to give me the divorce.

Today, he came back home for a short break. I didnt even know he is back. I got to know when I called home and my 2 kids are not at home. He took the kids out.

When they returned later in the night with him, I locked myself in my room till he left the house to stay somewhere else.

However, my two kids behavior changed. No longer the bubbly and cheerie kids. They were gloomy. When I asked them if there is anything they want to talk about, my son started to cry. He didnt want me to go through the divorce.

Any advice how I can get them to understand that it is impossible for me to live with their father now? It hurts me to see them cry but I cant stay in this marriage any more.

2006-07-18 04:48:13 · 12 answers · asked by DiL 3

am worried bcos mum left as and dad went in for another girl, so he has sack as . what should we do, am 18 and doris is 12yrs what should we do should i engage my selves in sexsual activities to get food. help me God bless you.

2006-07-18 04:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are divorsed what happened?

2006-07-18 04:19:26 · 19 answers · asked by richard l 1

Married sex with spouse only 22 ( 4 wanted it more often, 1 was thinking about cheating)

Married cheating 4 (2 were not currently cheating but thinking of a threesome or swinging)

married with no sex 7 (1 getting a divorce)

As for me, soon to be married, sex with partner alone.

2006-07-18 04:14:24 · 3 answers · asked by CosmicCruiser 1

I am in a relationship and it is pretty much dead. No communication, no intimacy, and lots of fights/neglect/crying etc. This is beyond help, I have tried my best. I have fallen out of love with him but am afraid of leaving him since he has nothing. I know, not my problem but it is, we have two kids and he watches them during the day. Arranging options will take time. I had an affair for the first time in my life and he is falling in love with me. I feel I am slowly feeling it as well. I asked him if it's infatuation and he asked no, since he's not just in love with the idea of me but th egenuine me sine it is all I have shown him and he's shown me.
I'm not selfish nor have I NOT tried hard to make it with my relationship, I simply want to be happy. Given this, what would you do? Do you think it's infatuation?
Thanks.

2006-07-18 04:14:22 · 12 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3

I'm just curious about general trends. Did you wait an especially long or short time? Why? How did you know it was the right time to marry them? If you're not married yet, how long do you think you'll wait?

2006-07-18 04:09:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

After a lot of counseling (1 yr+) and talking to friends, we read the "Five Love Languages". We read the book and took the tests. I feel words of affirmation (score:12) followed by quality time(8). Hers were quality time(7), receiving gifts(6) and physical touch(6). Afterwards, we spent a week together camping and discussed the book giving examples of what was missing, what we didn't like and most importantly, when we had spoken the others language loud and clear.

This was two months ago, and I don't feel like I've seen a change. I mentioned this after a month with more examples and I still have not seen it. I feel like I have been trying to make her feel loved. I have surprised her with concert tickets to someone she liked, I bought oils for long massages and I am learning to be the lover she needs. I own a business and agreed that I would leave at 7:30pm and save Saturdays for us. I haven't missed this once.

I haven't felt anything from her yet. How long does it take?

2006-07-18 04:09:25 · 4 answers · asked by mansonpeters 1

2006-07-18 04:08:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 04:07:17 · 6 answers · asked by jahnay 1

do you think sex gets better as you get older?
I know my husband seems to get better with age....

2006-07-18 04:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by panda 6

2006-07-18 04:03:20 · 31 answers · asked by chrissycrock18 1

2006-07-18 04:01:52 · 6 answers · asked by stewart f 1

2006-07-18 03:43:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous