do you think sex gets better as you get older?
I know my husband seems to get better with age....
2006-07-18 04:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by panda 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as charming as I do find the term "older ladies"...*sigh* reality is a b*tch...anyhoo...at the age of 45 I can honestly say OH YEAH it gets better with age!!! *woo hoo* I don't know if it's the experience, the hormones, the fact that we have fewer inhibitions...whatever the case may be it is FABULOUS!! And all the middle aged men who are going after women that are younger are absolute fools..they are missing some of the most earth shattering, face melting sex they can have with a woman who's going thru her own mid life crisis AND at her sexual peak AND peri-menopausal!!
Good news is that it sounds as if your husband will be able to keep up with you...I know mine is smiling a lot more lately! LOL!
2006-07-18 04:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course as the saying goes, "Use it or lose it" The problem is women peak at 44 and men at 18. So keep the men using it, or they will have to rely on Viagra in later life. I thought the previous answer, was funny, 33 and she is considering herself in "later life" , I am 57 and know I am now in later life for sure, but still enjoy more than ever the lovemaking and long extended sex that I can now have. Older men and women make the best lovers!
2006-07-18 11:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by RandyFWiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok definetly!!!!
Speaking form experience:
When a female is younger she is still fumbling in the dark about her sexuality. Getting to know her own body, what she likes/dislikes. As with anything, the more you do it, the better you should get...practice makes perfect. Also bear in mind that as you get older and you begin to "know" yourself, shyness and inhibitions seem to go away. You become less concerned about what you look like, but more amped to get yours...especially when you know what it should feel like and have learned how to achieve it (rather than leaving them in charge of getting you there).
It seems backwards though huh? One would think that when your in late teens or 20's is when you're your hottest (body wise) and as you get older and things start to drop, sexyness should decrease. Not true. Remember that sexiness is 90% linked to how you view yourself. Being comfortable with and knowing your body makes you confident. When self esteem is eminant, sex becomes waaaaay better because of it!
So please let me impress upon you that it's faaaaaaar better the older you get. 30 is the new 20...and so on...!
2006-07-18 14:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by cinimon_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it gets better as the saying goes young guys do it all night aoder guys take all night to do it (more fore play) from a 50 yr. old guy
2006-07-18 11:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Carl D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately!
I am 33, and do not have any of the hang ups I had as a younger woman........plus, I have EXPERIENCE!!!!.....30s ROCK! And I will have NO PROBLEM turning 40 either! : )
2006-07-18 11:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah. Because now you are comfortable with your body and you got some experience under your belt.
2006-07-18 11:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely.When I was in my 20's I was afraid to ask for what I really wanted.I'm married to someone now who really wants to please me and that makes it great.I'm able to say exactly what I want.Also because of this I think anyway,I am able to have multiple orgasms and I mean multiple.And they intensify with each one.
2006-07-18 14:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Flaming40s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is based on mind not age
2006-07-18 11:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by sathyanarayana s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋