am worried bcos mum left as and dad went in for another girl, so he has sack as . what should we do, am 18 and doris is 12yrs what should we do should i engage my selves in sexsual activities to get food. help me God bless you.
2006-07-18 04:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!!!! never ever do that please! ...Step back and take a deep breath! You have quite alot that was put onto your plate that you didn't even ask for, but from the sound of your question, you sound like a pretty strong young lady with plenty of survival instincts, and you are just hurt, angry, and scared! So just take a deep breath...now...release the fear...and let's get to work on some quick solutions for you!!!! With you age, I wonder if you are in school? If so, go to see your school counsellor,or a teacher that you are comfortable with and tell her your problem. If you are not in school, then there is always Doris' school. You can go and talk to someone there. You can the phone book, and look in that blue section of numbers. Find the name of the county you live in and at the beginning of this section you should see a group of numbers that are "boxed" look under social services and call them. You are old enough to watch after you sister, so you don't have to worry about that, let them know when you call that you need "emergency " food stamp assistance, and they will get you in to see someone that can help. You will also need to let Doris know that you will both be ok, and even though this does not seem fair,... life is not always fair!!! As long as you stick together as sisters, you have all the strength and courage you need to survive this and every other crisis that may come up! Shame on your mom ....and DOUBLE shame on your dad for not putting his girls first and foremost in his life,...but "Thank God" for you and YOUR courage, strength, . It takes ALOT of both to ask for help!!! AND YOU DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get busy now, and show your parents that they are the ones missing out on you and Doris...this is your time to shine...I believe in you! Let us here how things turn out for you, and never be afraid to ask for help or guidance!!!! God Bless!!!
2006-07-18 05:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by photogram1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need is to settle down your sister bcos she is very young. Put your sister with your grandma, aunt or uncle. This will give you better time to organise yourself to study and work or work.
Remember each time you get your salary, give some to the one who is looking after your sister and give some to your sister. Put some in the bank.
In this situation, don't spend stuff that you dont need.
Be brave because your little sister has only you to be her role model.
2006-07-18 11:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by davidtay25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about to know that your dad is ***hole. and You shouldn't feel stress out by eating and sexual activites .....You are smart 18 years old and you should show good role to your sister doris and keep eachother in shape and do things not think about it all the time about him..... It so sad that he not even try to work it out and save this marriage and sad that he might had sex before he even getting divorce... so i think you should look after yourself and your sister and do things postive.
If not you will be end up like your mother who really will be feel bad and bad wife and stuff like that.
2006-07-18 11:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Look for a job, and try to go to school.
Are you 18 or 20? In your other question you put that you were 20 and in this question you put you were 18.
2006-07-18 11:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get messenger scams like this all the time. The hope is someone gullible will send money... almost certainly to Nigeria or another West African nation.
2006-07-18 11:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job to help with your mom or look for resources to help. like Salvation Army, Churches, welfare. Good Luck and God bless you in Jesus name!
2006-07-18 11:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by cruelgirl6915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Job, school, get all the help you can get from the state you are in. Keep your head high and don't lower yourself for anyone.
2006-07-18 11:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show some respect for yourself and provide a good role model for your younger sister - get a respectable job --- there's more to life than being a prostitute --- but you know that already --- you just saying stuff for the fun of it......
2006-07-18 11:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job, something easy and comparitively high paying for your skill set like a call centre job.
2006-07-18 11:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by SidDes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry on with ur studies and cope up with a part time job,need help mail me
2006-07-18 11:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by wilcy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋