I am 24 and a twin. I just got married 2 mths ago. My husband has been bringing up the topic of making a family. I thought we should wait to see if this marrage works. But he really wants to have sex. What should we do. I want to be a young mom. When should we have sex and should it be unprotected. I would like to know when you had your first baby by age and if married. Thank You!!!!
2006-07-18 04:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by Kelly M. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have a baby. What the hell do you mean wait and see if it works. Wait for nothing, MAKE IT WORK!! Work on your relationship every day. If you two want to have kids while you are young, WTF are you waiting to get younger, if you are let me know how that works out.
Sorry to be so harsh but read your own question, then you will know the answer. Good luck with your new family, you will love it.
2006-07-18 05:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie, sweetie, sweetie. Who in this bright world would want to consider a proper age to have sex? 11 year olds are seen carrying papers to put their "baby" up for adoption, some abort their beautiful babies....regrets, regrets, regrets. But let me tell you, Regrets are only when they abort or do not have a baby at all....that is the only regret. Because there is no such thing as regretting doing it with the guy...those are intimacy moments of pleasure and ahhhs...but let me tell you something dear...following someone else's regrets, doubts, and life is not always correct or proper...so you go on with your own instincts...we are fragile creatures, but once you push the wrong button we end up being the QUEENs of the Islands!
so if this man of yours doesn't buckle up properly, he will be a sorry @ss bastard!
Anyways, God created Love and Sex for one sole purpose: to deliver another living soul into the world!
So when you are ready, you tell the Lord that you are, and then you get down to work....enjoy and feel it. Because those are the most valued years in a marriage life!
congratulations! you are on for a BIG start!
2006-07-18 12:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by ChikSurfer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you and when you are ready to have kids. The age of 24 is fine. As far as waiting to see if the marriage works, if you're having doubts about the marriage working, why the hell did you marry to begin with.
2006-07-18 12:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is a little confusing. Why are you waiting to see "if it works out"? When you say he wants sex, are you saying you two haven't had sex yet, or unprotected sex yet? You say you want to be a young mom, but you don't want kids now. And again....are you saying you two haven't had sex yet? Because that's what's coming across in your question. Clarify your question and ask again.
2006-07-18 12:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First marriage and you see who that works and then you can wait around two years a have kids no bad!!1
2006-07-18 12:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by bebe0625 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel like your not ready, then wait for a while.... your husband should understand that!
2006-07-18 11:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean to tell me that you all have not done the deed yet??
2006-07-18 11:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋