though ias her to wear inner garments at home , she refuses and says i interfere with her freedom - i feel embrassed when my friends coming hom having a nice view of them
2006-07-18 09:40:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stop having your friends over when she is wearing revealing clothes.
2006-07-18 09:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
a night gown should only be worn at night when you both are retiring for the night.
Now if it is a mumu during the day a bra should be worn. But most are dark enough even if she didn't wear a bra.
Guys don't understand what it feels like to have to wear a bra for those heavy things every day like 12 hrs. a day. 7days a wk.
It pulls on your back between your shoulder blades.
2006-07-18 10:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she wears that in a night gown, I say enjoy it! I mean you guys are married and that should turn you on and all that stuff. But when you have visitors over and friends, I think she should respect you enough to wear a bra when they are around. When they leave, then she can take it off again. (Unless you have children, then I think you should dress half decent around your children) but I like to go without a bra at home too. When we don't have company especially, but you don't notice my 'headlights' as much either. I hope this helps.
2006-07-18 09:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some real clothes and she won't have to wear a nightgown all the time. It would be ridiculous for you to ask when you are home alone but i can see the when friends are around thing. Maybe she likes the attention. Tell her its fine when you are alone but if she wants to display herself to the public you are going to have and issue with that. Was her 'display' and 'freedom' something that attracted you to her in the first place?
2006-07-18 09:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously. Why is your wife wearing a nightgown with guests in the house? You are right to expect her to cover up around your friends. Explain to her about guys & what they are probably thinking when she does this. If my wife did that after I asked her not to I would start to wonder if I married the right woman.
2006-07-18 09:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding right? Sounds like a high class problem. I suppose she's a hot 25 year old blond bombshell who you wish would cover up and stop being so sexy too.
2006-07-18 09:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants to give your friends a thrill. You have a right to be embarrassed. She stays in her nightgown when your friends come over? I think you got a problem, there, buddy.
LOL cadman's answer!
2006-07-18 09:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her breasts, but don't want all your friends to see them. She should respect you enough to not share her assetts with whoever comes to your house. Ask her is she could put on a robe when people come over.
2006-07-18 10:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you are with a woman who is comfortable with herself. So what if your friends get a view of them, be glad you have a wife worthy of being checked out.
2006-07-18 09:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wear nothing at home and my husband doesn't mind!!! I think he feels good that his friends get a nice view!!! Makes him proud.
2006-07-18 10:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by wildladyreba 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When her female friends come over walk around in something just as revealing and see how she likes it.
2006-07-18 09:43:48 · answer #11 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋