Should my wife be pissed at this and want to leave me, she says that she is not gonna look behind her back everyday to make sure I am not with my ex in a way I should not be. I have children with my ex-wife.
2006-07-18 10:35:13 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i hope your wife is having real sex with someone else right now !!!
if my bf was in Iraq , and i was sitting at home waiting for him.... and he did that... i'd be cashing in my free sex ticket thats for DAMN sure! then i'd drink a beer in his memory and never look back.
2006-07-18 13:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Frankee 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yes it's WRONG!!!!!!!!! The only thing that you should be conversation about with your ex wife is your children. I am an ex wife and my ex husband is remarried and even though I can't stand his new wife, I would never do something like that!!! It's wrong and there is no way to sugarcoat it. Wrong is wrong. And I KNOW that if your current wife did that with an old boyfriend or ex husband you would be PISSED even more than she is, because men can't handle what they dish out!!!!
2006-07-18 10:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by jennymustafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely wrong, jackass. Your wife has every right to be pissed. It just leads to a lack of trust. When you are married, you may think about other women, but the only thoughts that come out are about your spouse. Sure the hell not phone sex with your ex-*******-wife. What kind of influence do you think that has on a relationship?
2006-07-18 10:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by ^i^ Angel ^i^ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you should call your ex-wife would be to talk about your CHILDREN, not having phone sex. Would you like it if your wife was having phone sex with one of her ex's. Just put the shoe on the other foot.
2006-07-18 10:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by KeKe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she your ex if you still call her for other reasons. You need to think about that ! I feel for your present wife. She has rights to you now. And even if you have kids with your ex that doesn't give you the right to cheat on your present wife. My goodness guy grow up. Phone sex even .........
2006-07-18 10:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please refrain from using the fact that you are in Iraq to somehow excuse your behavior.
You were verbally intimate with someone other than your wife. The courts would consider it adultry.
Is this the standard of loyalty you would teach your kids?
God Bless you for your service to our country--show some of the same loyalty to your current wife!
You need to go to your wife with more remorse than you have ever showed her, and agree to whatevere counseling, etc., she wants. That's if you want her to take you back.
Perhaps there is still too much between your ex and you for you to be in another committed relationship?
2006-07-18 10:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be doing anything with another woman to get sexual gratification if you are married. Doesn't matter where you are.
Ask yourself this: How would you feel if your wife were doing the same thing to you, having phone sex with her ex?
I'd leave you in a heartbeat.
2006-07-18 10:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by postalmaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a wife - pay attention to her - give her those phone calls and time - not the ex - she's an ex for a reason - leave her in the past and get on with your future with your wife - see if you can mend fences with your CURRENT wife quick enough...
2006-07-18 12:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong. And you obviously know that already or else you wouldn't have asked it....
Any contact with your ex other than over your children or casual conversation occasionally is wrong if your wife is uncomfortable with it.
If the situation was reversed wouldn't you be pissed?
2006-07-18 10:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by randompersoness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were your wife, I'd be telling you to go live with your ex-wife if you are having this kind of relationship with her. Evidently, you are not over her. Why put someone else through this pain? If you are any kind of man at all, you'd be deciding which one you love and leave the other one alone. You can't have your cake and eat it too and expect either one of them to be happy. It's time to put your wife first and get over yourself.........
2006-07-18 10:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why she is your ex...isn' there? Why did you jump into another marriage if you were still in love with your ex? You need to look at your life and figure out what you want and stop leading both of these woman down a dead end road.
2006-07-18 11:11:54 · answer #11 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋