My wife works in close contact with a young girl whom I would call "confused". She was married once, to a boozer, and now divorced. She now hangs with mostly women, and has confided to my wife, that lacking a good man, she has been intimate with women, although just lightly. My wife has told me that she thinks this girl has some interest in her, and kind of makes a joke about it. We have done things together, and she treats me very well, very warm and freindly. I remark to my wife that she is attractive, and such a shame she has "gone the other way". She agrees with me, and says " a good hard man would be able to bring her back around. We all three enjoy each others company, and I see some sparks. I think we all have the same thing in mind, what should I do. Married for 23 years, same sex partner, just each other. Time to give a threesome a try???
2006-07-18 23:48:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would talk to your wife frist about the idea when she has nothing against it. Then sudjest it to the other lady and enjoy the evening...
or even more..
2006-07-18 23:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 15⤊ 7⤋
From talking to other people I dont think this would be a good idea. If you want your marriage to work then I would say dont. There are alot of things that can happen when doing a threesome. Dont throw your marriage away over this. I know your thinking what can happen. Well, What if you or your wife really enjoy this. What are you going to do if this is what your wife wants all the time and you dont or the other way around. There are alot of things to think about but I would say NO. Married people dont work good with threesomes. If you weren't married I would say go for it. Just think about what you are doing. Your wife should be the only person that you want to be with and you are the only person that your wife should want to be with. I hope you make the right call.
2006-07-19 00:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do it. They say it is every man's fantasy and I have thought about it too. My wife even had a friend that agreed to be the second woman and my wife suggested we do it.
The thing is, I loved my wife and only her. From the day we met I have had no desire for any other woman. It sounded fun, but then the thoughts came; if she liked it, will she do it while I am at work, what else would it lead to. To me it is the begining of the end of a marriage. It invites jealousy, doubt, confusion etc. You made a vow and committment to your wife when you got married and that should not be broken.
2006-07-19 01:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your wife going to do when you and this younger chick gets to close and what if you like this younger girl sex better than your wife? be careful threesomes and gangbangs never work out with a married couple most of the time women get jealious of other partners and you will lose a marriage of 23 years and that is a oddity these days (now banging the young chick on your own go for it she want you to pound it just don't let your wife know that's the key)
oh and these retards telling you to worry about your wife going lesbian dude she ant one she won't be and besides most lesbians and bisexual women do it for their husbands and boyfriends now a days every woman is bi because it is a fad it's the cool thing to do their retards just focus on the young as-s lol
2006-07-19 00:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by SLICK77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just hold open house and get the whole neighbourhood in?Maybe your lesbian friend can bring a couple of gay men to join the party too and you can see what its like to be the meat in the sandwich.Just make sure you do not send me an invite.I am a bit old fashioned and prefer my sexual partners one at a time.
2006-07-19 00:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by mystic_master3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! If she's truly a lesbian she can go out and find another lesbian to do those things with! You are straight, so why would you put yourself through something you don't want to do? It is your choice and if you feel anything close to being uneasy about it, tell her straight up.
2016-03-26 23:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God did not make two Eve's for Adam.Your wife maybe suggestion what she thinks you might want to hear.Tell your wife she is all you need and you are all she needs.You will get burned in the long run and I also mean that in a spiritual way.
2006-07-19 00:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You WERE married. As soon as your wife defiled herself and your marriage with another woman, she trashed your marriage. What you are suggesting is depraved and immoral. If you have any integrity left, I would suggest you divorce your wife. That way her decision to continue in her depravity will bring her own consequences. However, the fact that she is being allowed by her husband---the head of the household who is responsible for his wife's spiritual health---then her sins are yours, anyway. So, you will have consequences, as well.
Why would you take something as beautiful as a marriage and turn it into something filthy?
2006-07-18 23:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should respect your 23 year marriage. Thats a long time to be married and feel the way you do.
2006-07-18 23:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the idea of a threesome turns you on. If you want to continue to have a marriage, leave it alone. It can mean nothing but trouble.
2006-07-18 23:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would youwanna do something as dumb as that remember they say a woman knows another womans body really well and they knowwhat they would want done to them so go ahead and encourage her and you may end up losing her!
2006-07-18 23:54:55 · answer #11 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋