what's the worst thing about having an affair!?

Answer 1

the reason you had one.

if there's a reason, there's a problem.

if it drove you to an affair then the rest doesn't matter. break up.

Answer 2

Destroying your childrens, husband/wifes life, destroying your reputation (if you even have one, lol) Feeling guilty. Making every one else hate (even though they still love you, they can hate you at times.) oh..and i don't mean you, unless you have.

Having to tell lies all the time..
Saying everything is going to be ok, (he still loved me) promising to come back home are go for a couple weeks, and he eventually come...in a couple months.

That's more then one reason, but, oh well..I think all of them are =

Answer 3

definitely the guilt and having to pretend that everything's okay, and being normal when you're just a swarm of emotions inside. the hatred at yourself for having betrayed the one you love, and the 'not being you' the whole time. there's so much conflict in there it's a wonder we bother to do it!

Answer 4

This guy I know, Robert Reed, got AIDS when he cheated. For a long time he had to walk around in his robe sipping tea.

Answer 5

Watching your dad put furniture in a moving van and realizing that he's never going to live with you again.

Answer 6

The fact that you had one!! and AID STD Crabs and telling the person you said you love you had an affair. Then she takes all that you have worked for.
YOUFUCKINGPICE OFSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Remembering the right name to say during an orgasm.

Answer 8

the fact that you destroy the best thing about a relationship: the trust. the fact that in the end you destroy the relationship itself

Answer 9

Bringing aids home to your spouse.

Answer 10

Getting pregnant!!!