Marriage & Divorce - 22 July 2006

and smiled? If so........what were you smiling about?

2006-07-22 15:10:05 · 19 answers · asked by sqwirlsgirl 5

Sometimes I pay my wife for sex. She gets what she wants (money) and I get whatever I want because I'm the paying customer. You wouldn't believe the hot nights we've had. I always wondered if any other men have done the same.

2006-07-22 14:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by TCPBCP 2

My ex boyfriend has a problem. he lied about alot of things that he said he did. like being in a gang and killing someone and putting a guy in a vegetive state. he used to tell me things ppl said that they never. i feel like i was deceived the whole time we were together. he doesn't respect women by the way he talks about them. that is why i left him. now he is with a 16 year old girl. hes 22. is it wrong to feel like my whole relationship was a lie? i feel as though i don't know him. we have a daughter together. this is so sad to think i knew someone and only to find out that i don't know him at all. i just don't believe anything he tries to tell me. i found out i was pregnant after we broke up but i miscarried and all he could talk about when i told him that i was preganant was if he should go out with this 16 year old girl. i am so pissed off and hurt over the miscarriage and all his lies. what would you do?

2006-07-22 14:30:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

like traditional marriages bibile based

2006-07-22 14:30:50 · 53 answers · asked by kim 1

My boyfriend of 7 years has cheated on me, He keeps denying it and would not admit, I confronted the girl and she told me everything. All the pieces just fit. I had my boyfriend call her since he kept denying it, and as he talked her she said everything she told me and he did not deny one word. He couldn't. Because it was true. All he said was "she's crazy, I wonder if she knew who she was talking too" I feel betrayed and hurt, how do I let him go? Please dont be too brutal, this just happend yesterday and I still hurt Alot!!

2006-07-22 14:28:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean when everytime you and your husband get into a fight, he always brings up getting divorced? I know he could never live without me, but why does he always have to bring it to that point? It seems like everytime we get into a fight, he does not stop until he makes me cry. why????

2006-07-22 14:26:45 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband cheated, but now that I've tried to move on, he wants me back, this is the first time he has done this, he says he knows what he done was wrong. he wants to go to counsling, and he is attending church. should I give him another chance? I really confused on what I'm feeling, can anyone help me here, or has anyone out there, been through this, that could give me some good advice?

2006-07-22 14:09:27 · 28 answers · asked by tonee12004 1

My husband did this.. I left him then couple months later I went back to him then he abused me and I left and went to a battered women's shelter. Now we are getting a divorce and fighting for custody. He was charged with 2 felony counts for hurting our children. They are thinking of giving the kids to someone else or giving them to me or giving them to him.... my lawyer isnt very "with it" ..... what are my chances and any other advice you may have would be helpful I love my children dearly although I made some horrible mistakes.

2006-07-22 14:05:37 · 17 answers · asked by pruittwithkids 1

Hi.Say you are passionate about one thing, and you work your entire life for the chance to do it. One day, you are given an great oppurtunity, plus great pay to do something you love. However, this choice is not convient for your significant other. What do you do? take the oppurtunity, and rish losing that person, or stay with that person, and lose your oppurtunity FOREVER, and end up with another job? Which is the best choice for a determined person who wants that person there as well? is this a fair ultimatum?

2006-07-22 14:00:50 · 20 answers · asked by ? 5

Here's the situation. I'm a military officer that did "the right thing" if you want to call it that. Watch 'Officer and a Gentleman.' You'll understand. After almost three years of a nightmare marriage, we're finally getting a divorce. Each time I visit my son, my wife keeps telling me that she wants to have sex one last time, and that it would be strictly physical. But at the same time she talks about how she still loves me. She also talks about hard it is being a single mom and how she works 12 hours a day. She even showed me the blister on her foot she got from her waitressing job. It's also interesting to note that when we lived together she couldn't wait for term to be over. Now, she's all for me staying in and retiring in twenty years. I don't consider myself a deadbeat dad. I'm actually paying a small bit over the max amount because I felt sorry for her. I'm starting to think I'm just a means to an end. Who thinks she's a golddigger?

2006-07-22 13:58:44 · 18 answers · asked by Thomas K 3

2006-07-22 13:52:17 · 23 answers · asked by JJ 1

I have been divorced for a few years. I still love my ex-husband. I want to tell him that I do but he lives far away now. I loved him a lot then and oddly enough I still love him now. I wonder if he still has some feelings for me even though we have been divorced for so long. But yes we did get divorced for some reason. Should I tell him I still love him after all these years?

2006-07-22 13:43:55 · 28 answers · asked by angry@fate 2

The custody agreement was made about 7-8 years ago and says she keeps dad's name. It was filed in Texas.

2006-07-22 13:38:11 · 10 answers · asked by water 1

i know it's not ok, i don't want this to happen, but i simply cannot get my first love out of my heart and mind, her image keeps appearing before my eyes, and i'm full of regrets about the mistakes that broke us apart... i need her, it's like all my happiness depends on her being in my life; i've decided to fight for her for the rest of my life, no matter what, i know it's unlikely that i will ever succeed, but i'll try.... i gave up on her so many times... that's why i lost her, no more, i will fight till the day i will die, i will fight for that small chance... maybe in 10, 20, 40 years from now something will change and allow us to be together.

2006-07-22 13:16:59 · 25 answers · asked by Daniel D 1

I tried it before with my 1st wife, what a farce. She was cheating the whole time we went. Now wife #2 wants to go and so do I. She has been twice to counseling and I have been once, never together. I am depressed (clinicly) and I accuse her of cheating, I read her e-mail, look thru her cell phone. She said enough is enough. I love her very much, but I can't stop the thoughts. I am 45, she is 32 and a very good looking (strong headed) woman. We have a son 2 yrs old

2006-07-22 13:11:57 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1

She has started early menopause and has lost ALL desire. What can she/we do to help?

2006-07-22 13:09:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is my 2nd marriage. The first one lasted 19 years and produced 3 boys. Now 20, 17 & 13. She cheated and her situation didn't work out.
My wife now, for the past 3 1/2 years, has had enough of my drepression and is ready to walk out the door with our 2 yr. old son.
I work 2 jobs. By day I am the polcie chief of a small town, by night I work at the local airport for Delta. So I work about 60 - 65 hours a week. She had asked me to quit the airport job about a year ago, but I enjoy it and my 1st wife left me with about $30,000 in bills not to mention she gets $200 a week in child support.
My wife is very head strong, she too is a police officer. She has her hobbies, she plays soccer and has horses and within the last year has joined this medivial thing called the SCA. She really enjoys it. She goes away about 4 or 5 weekend a summer.
I know I have a depression problem & I don't talk. I was looking at her e-mails from what happened with wife #1. Boy is she mad. We are in counselin

2006-07-22 13:05:31 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1

Yesterday during our conversation my girlfriend said to me that the thing she most likes about me is that I am very sweet and really down to earth, which she says is uncommon in men! What does it mean when a girl says this? Is it a good thing or does she find me a bit boring?

Thanks for your help, much appreciated.

2006-07-22 13:02:50 · 13 answers · asked by AskingQuestion 1

I have tried the dating websites as suggested by people. I have met nice people right here at "answers." We IM and get along great until I send a picture. Yes, I am overweight. I tell them up front so it should not be a surprise. I am 5'6" and am 50 lbs over the "ideal" not maximum recommended weight for my height. I have lost a bit and am still losing. It is just taking a while. I believe in honesty in any relationship and won't lie about my size. Why is it that no one corresponds after they hear this?

2006-07-22 13:00:32 · 19 answers · asked by physandchemteach 7

2006-07-22 12:54:46 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel D 1

and neither have any children. Only serious responses please.

2006-07-22 12:48:38 · 12 answers · asked by happytime 2

Serious and sincere question. Long married and not looking to break that up. But no intimacy or affection. IS finding it outside a viable idea?

2006-07-22 12:36:05 · 11 answers · asked by Buddy L 1

has treated you like **** for oh...about 25 years??? When all you did all that time was suck up to them; and now you've "had it' and feel true anger toward all of them. Now, husband worried because I've had it and NOW after all these years, is sorry. PLEASE TELL ME... I'M A MESS. I am angry and it's built up for SO freakin long, I can't take it anymore. I've wanted to run away for soooo long but I have a son who loves us both and is almost 18 and I feel he will hate me if I leave his father and that would KILL me. I don't know what to do anymore.

2006-07-22 12:25:22 · 18 answers · asked by butterfliesRfree 7

I need some advice. Hubby has lost all interest in intimacy.
Forgive me for being blunt but he has no problem "rising to attention" The issue is that whenever I mention his lack of interest he shuts me out and refuses to talk to me about it. He tells me I'm beautiful, etc but its been almost four months since any kind of "playtime" I can handle the lack of sex (maybe) but its the fact that he won't talk about it that bothers me the most. I'm not trying to push, I just want him to tell me what it going on. Thanks for your advice.

2006-07-22 12:16:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did I ask the question in my favor or hers. Thank you very much for your input. Trying to quit smoking and too poor for takout right now.

2006-07-22 12:11:43 · 6 answers · asked by brokolay 3

2006-07-22 12:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if he/she is a foreigner and really had his/her heart set on living in the US? Am I not dashing his/her dream?

2006-07-22 12:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-22 11:47:26 · 16 answers · asked by sara 1

2006-07-22 11:41:28 · 15 answers · asked by tjip36 1

2006-07-22 11:37:43 · 20 answers · asked by Steve 2