2006-07-22 13:52:17 · 23 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That depends...how stupid do you want to be? What don't you get about he's gone and you have been replaced? I'm not sure how any of that could seem 'mysterious' or like he's giving you some clue he wants anything to do with you. You can not make someone love you, you might as well just get up every morning and beat your head against a brick wall, its just as productive and just as painful. You need to accept reality, its over, quit longing for what you wish it had been because it wasn't or he would still be around. Once you have joined the real world you need to find a man whose reality can match your ideals.
2006-07-22 13:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want your husband back if he has another woman? If I were you, I'd be filing the divorce papers and getting everything that he has and finding a new person.
2006-07-22 21:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to take control of your life and begin moving forward with out him. Most men, in a situation like this, has the control because we are to busy falling apart. If we just focus on one day at time, and start rebuilding our life without them, makes them take notice faster, because we are not doing the inevitable. No matter, how bad you feel, your going to feel worse if you give into the pain and let it control you. You have to reach way down deep inside yourself and find that grit, you probably haven't used in awhile. Everyday, you have to go on with your life. Make your self get up in the mornings, shower, dress, fix up, and face your demons. If its meant to be, things will come back around. You will be ahead of the program, by taking control of your life and redirecting. You will also not be so quick to give in to the situation just because. You are stronger and mentally better. You will make better choices, which will benefit you in the long run. Believe!!!
2006-07-22 21:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get your husband back is do somethin specail 4 him tell him how you feel about him make him understand that youll got married 4 a reason but when you tell him this make sure it dont turn into an arguement and if the reason hes with the other women because of sex leave him no man should treat there women bad
2006-07-22 20:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by peaches w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to pretend you don't care. you have to be strong, don't show your weakness.it's going to be hard, but you can do it. when he sees that you "don't care and have gone on without him" you'll see a change. who knows , you may like your new life and may realize that you really don't need him. and if he doesn't come back , then let him go , cause what comes around goes around, paybacks are hell they say. He's going to get the same , that other woman doesn't know that he can do the same to her. Say a prayer, if he's a good person , God will bring him back, and if not , God wanted you to start over.
2006-07-22 21:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by smart007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you want husband back??? he has cheating on you! you don't need man like that.. I know you have to hurt to understand and you will know about love reason you have to hurt i know he will not leave me and I felt good and now I know I am hurt and if I have him back again I know that I will be hurt.
You are better than him and you can do better without him and you smart and pls go find other guy that really love you and will not cheat and love you for who you are.
2006-07-22 22:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing the things that captured him in the beginning when you first met. Make him happy so that he has no reason to have another woman.
2006-07-22 20:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by sodafan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him if he has another? Why does he have another? He would just cheat on you again maybe? Don't know why these things are the way they are. If he has another, move on and get a life of your own.
2006-07-22 20:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can get him back by first trying to record eye witness accounts and umm put them on tapre recorders... i say this becuase if he were to try and divorce you that would mean he cheatd and shoud pay u alimony!!! and then when you get all of that out of the way... you can try stayingout all night and umm act suspicious like talk on the phonein the other room... and if you want to cheat then do it a city over so he cant get any information on you
2006-07-22 20:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch Fatal Attraction for some ideas.
2006-07-22 21:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by GentleheartedOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋