how to train your wife to obey?

Question

like traditional marriages bibile based

i am the wife

im a bible thumping
kept woman who wants to please
my hubbie w/o deciding first if i want to !!

Answer 1

Hi, Sorry people have given you such rude answers. The Bible does say a wife should obey her husband. This "mutual submission" doctrine is so flimsy it breaks at the first look at the scriptures. The Bible never gives authority without the one in authority having the right to back it up. I see no reason why it would be different with a husband and wife. If Jesus was against "wife training" why didn't He say something about it in His word? The use of the rod was certainly going on then.

Anyway, I'll get off my soapbox. Christian Domestic Discipline is one way to train your wife to obey. Go to the Christian Domestic Discipline yahoo list and learn more about it. Also go to the Loving Domestic Discipline website and the Taken In Hand website. Most women are happier with a firm, loving man. Many, many women would love to have a husband who will spank her when she needs it. Mine does and I love him and find him very attractive because of it, but I don't love the spankings. Thankfully they're rare.

Answer 2

Obedience in marriage is a two way street my unwise querier. She will love and obey you out of respect. Only as you love and obey her wishes also.

And when those wishes conflict you had best learn the art of compromise. If you think that obeying you, means to jump up and get your dinner any time you snap your fingers then get a dog and live happily ever after.

If you on the other hand do unselfishly those things for her that she truly wants and needs. And you have wisely selected a spouse that is kind and unselfish then she will respond in a similar fashion.

If she is as self centered as your very question makes, you sound. Then perhaps you have a rocky road ahead.

Answer 3

I am a male and I married my wife for 9 years and have 2 beautiful children. I am sorry that things are change than the bible said. I don't need to tell my wife to obey like traditonal.

how made this marriage work we share and we trust eachother alot and I don't tell her to clean this and do that. We work as a team and do what I do and she do and we both work and we always love eachother and do thing together. I don't see why you have to train your wife????? You know that it will never make this marriage work because you don't even care and dont even care about her and how she feel or love her.. you just want her to obey to you. It will not last and She will be happy to find someone like me and person that listen and she listen, If I want my wife to obey my marriage will not last this long.

So you need to change to be a better person that really trust caring loving, commucate, sharing, helping each other and do things fun and not all about obey.

Sorry dude, There nothing to train about to have your wife obey, so there fore you need to train yourself how to be a better husband and caring and etc.

Answer 4

I haven't been on a train for a long time now, but I guess if I ever do travel through the train in the near future, I would like to read an interesting novel. Now that I imagine it, it seems like something I'll seriously look forward to.

Answer 5

Well, actually I have a few questions? One, is she aware that u feel this way? Two, before marriage this needed to be discussed!
Three, if u not married yet there is still time to come to some understanding about what u want and her place in the marriage!
A heart to heart with her is the way to go that is my suggestion instead of saying to train her! If she loves u she will do the right thing that u both decide upon!

Answer 6

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how to train your wife to obey?
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Answer 7

Take first the right material: an obedient foreign woman.
Then keep her isolated from the world - completely isolated - and start working because each year you must make her pregnant.
Be sure that she has no reachable family, nobody to complain except while changing tissue nappies that she would have to wash by hand.
Remember that one stimulus provokes a response, then if she dares to contradict you, just kick her over and over. Teach your children -boys- to through stones to her in order to get trained just in case.
If the food she serves you with so much love tastes weird, is because of her tears. Eat more so that you can blame her to spend your money in stupidities and start the kicking process again.
If one day you start with belly cramps, blame the couscous that she made two month ago to save money and electricity.
When you get blue, do not ask her to call the ambulance, but order a nice and resistant iron coffin. Your wife and kids will turn it shreds out of hate to you.
Satisfied?

Answer 8

First of all you can't train your wife to obey, that is more like a Master/slave relationship,
which is what you are probally into but won't admit to it and hide behind the Bible.
I believe in Men being the head of the household and both man and woman have their roles in the family unit, and I will also role play (key word PLAY) with my Husband
But I am also a strong woman and I would not allow someone to TRAIN me in real life.
As far as me respecting my Husband and living in a DD relationship, he still treats me with respect and would never humiliate me in the real world. I would suggest that you look for someone that wants the same lifestyle as you and wants to be trained. There are lots of women that will willingly be your slave

Answer 9

Sounds like you need a dog, not a wife. OBEY! Men love that word, don't they?
Ok, you want to go to the bible on this? Read Ephesians chapter 5. If YOU are doing everything it says there, and not just picking out what suits your over blown male ego, you'll see that ANY woman would be willing to submit to a man who does what Christ did for his bride, the church. Pay particular attention to verses 25-33 (and not just 23 and 24 which you have obviously heard mentioned and memorized to your sad advantage.)
The whole of the subject begins with verse Ephesians 5:21 which tells BOTH husbands and wives to submit to ONE ANOTHER!
Get it right man. The bible is not a tool to beat someone with, it is the inspired word of God to teach us to live in love and harmony.

Answer 10

The Bible teaches that women have choice in obeying their husbands. Just as a man/woman makes a choice to obey God.