What if he/she is a foreigner and really had his/her heart set on living in the US? Am I not dashing his/her dream?
2006-07-22 12:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NEVER marry out of convinience or out of pity.
2006-07-22 12:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by schnikey 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's a lot better to realize this now than after the wedding. Who cares if it ruins someone's dreams of getting to the US? There are other ways of getting here than marrying. You are the smart one to realize the problem before it got worse. Hang in there and stay single.
2006-07-22 19:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not your problem that they arent from this country, marriage is to big of a commitment to make just because u feel bad that if u dont marry them ur dashing their dream..
2006-07-22 19:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by preciosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, foreigner or not, it is wrong to lead somebody on for that long. Obviously, if he/she was in the relationship that long, they had an obvious devotion and love for the other person..more than likely hoping it would end in marriage. It's just cruel to keep a relationship going for so long just to end it for the sake of ending it.
2006-07-22 20:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by sbhb090896 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not the best situation but it sure beats getting married when you don't want to. There are other ways to get to live in the US and if she sat around for 3 years and didn't do anything to fix that for herself then thats her problem.
2006-07-22 19:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the ownership papers are so important, then why don't they come with DIY directions. Not At All, after 18 years I still do not wish to be married.
2006-07-22 20:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by American Pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not wrong
you simply decided it's not right for you for whatever reason, it's the chance both of you took that it would work out, yes it also means she get her hoped dashed, but she'll try again, those filipinas are fine women
2006-07-22 19:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, the reason you guys started dating was to see if you would be meant for each other before getting married and then divorced
2006-07-22 19:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Dirtydagar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its better to end it now before you get married. Its free to split now but a divorce cost money.
2006-07-22 19:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by gruntlicker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, dating someone, no matter how long, does not obligate you to marry them, no matter what the circumstances.
2006-07-22 20:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong if ur intent was to lead him/her on. but if u just took some time to think and realized that despite ur time together, that marriage wasn't a possibility, then ur not wrong. it may hurt him/her, but they can find other ways to become a resident/citizen.
2006-07-22 19:07:20 · answer #11 · answered by miss_coco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋