Marriage & Divorce - 22 July 2006

2006-07-22 11:37:38 · 14 answers · asked by short stuff 1

I went out with my ex boyfriend, only for about 6 months, but I really loved him, we were really close and I got on really well with his family, we split up because I didn't really feel the relationship was progressing, although I really loved him, this was also a few years ago now, but I still think about him all of the time, and often wish I hadn't ended it and often wonder how things would be between us now, I'm finding it really hard to move on, does anyone have any advice for me on how to deal with this?

2006-07-22 11:37:27 · 19 answers · asked by babygirl 1

2006-07-22 11:26:26 · 19 answers · asked by i.needitall 2

2006-07-22 11:20:51 · 29 answers · asked by kaleimakana420 1

she used the excuse "I don’t feel good" or "I’m sick" all the time... also she says she is soar all the time…but we barely EVER have sex… she doesn’t even want to orally satisfy me when she is “soar” then when I ask her why she don’t want to do anything she also says she isn’t in the mood….or she get VERY pissed QUICK!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE….ITS KILLING ME!!!!!!!!

2006-07-22 11:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by Ma2 1

2006-07-22 11:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by Jerry 6

If your husband cheated on you (and you were aware of it), would you stay in your marriage for the security of your home and stuff, or would you leave and get a divorce? I know of many guys who cheat on their wives. I think it is awful! The wives just carry on as though nothing is happening? Don't they know? Can't they feel that their husbands are cheating? Do they stay for security? Help me understand why they continue to live with it.

2006-07-22 11:05:29 · 16 answers · asked by Author Al 4

2006-07-22 10:55:53 · 42 answers · asked by colorist 6

I know she'll probably answer this, but I've gone to sodding bed anyway!

2006-07-22 10:43:21 · 40 answers · asked by poppies say grrr! 3

I always get mixed aunsers about this
Is it wrong to have male friends if ur maried ?

2006-07-22 10:39:25 · 9 answers · asked by bestcom_laura 1

I have been debating putting this on here for a few days... I am just gonna do it.
I have been dating someone for 4 months now. Which i know isnt a very long time for a long term. I have had 1 serious relationship before where marrige was talked about. This time, I feel as though its perfect. We dont live together, but when i sleep next to him i fall asleep in his arms thinking how much i love him, and everyday i wake up with a smile and think ... i wish i could do this every day. we get along great, havent had a argument yet. Disagreements on certain topics yes, but we usually respect others opinoins. ANYWAYS , MY question is "is it wrong for me to imagine and long to be his wife? wanting to be his wife and mother of his children." of course i'mnot ready for all of those things to happen right this second, but what do you think? I'm scared that one day my emotions will explode and i will just blurt out " i want to marry you" before he gets a chance to propose. i'm 24 hes 26

2006-07-22 10:27:03 · 22 answers · asked by Frankee 2

I've been dating my boyfriend for four years. He has made it clear on several occassions that he wants children. He has even named them. I'm not sure what I want as far as children but more often than not, I don't want them. I can think of better ways to spend our time and money. However, there is no convincing him on my point of view. He thinks I'm just selfish.

We plan on getting married when I'm finished with college and I can't marry him unless I'm sure. What should I do?

2006-07-22 10:26:21 · 16 answers · asked by missjessie 1

I am, but are you??

2006-07-22 10:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by wormwoodkid 3

I am making hamburgers for ourtwo kids and company with kids and my wife says by adding 1 tablespoon of fresh dill and 1 tablespoon of fresh basil i have ruined the burgers for the kids and no one will eat. I go to resolve the problem by washing the meat and rinsing the spices off and she yells at me and says I am wasting eggs. Please help me to resolve this I dont want to argue and it seems there is nothing i can do to make her happy with the results.

2006-07-22 10:15:53 · 18 answers · asked by brokolay 3

my husband read my journal of personal thoughts, and turned into a really mean person towards me. i am more hurt that he read my thoughts of what i was feeling at "that moment" it had not meaning to it, it is my way of venting without arguing, am i wrong for that? he used the five months that "things have not felt right" to try and hate me. not to mention joining dating sites too. i am just hurt what should i do, i wonder if my marriage is over although i am making a effort to forgive, and he says its forgotten,but how, when he made me feel like sh*^ for motnhs,?

2006-07-22 10:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by zen4steve 1

my husabdn read my journalof personalthoughts, and turned into a really mean person towards me. i am more hurt that he read my thoughts of what i was feeling at "that moment" it had not meaning to it, it is my way of venting without arguing, am i wrong for that? he used the five months that "things have not felt right" to try and hate me. not to mention joining dating sites too. i am just hurt what should i do, i wonder if my marriage is over although i am making a effort to forgive, and he says its forgotten,but how, when he made me feel like sh*^ for motnhs,?

2006-07-22 10:14:02 · 6 answers · asked by zen4steve 1

Don't you think this is the right thing to do instead of saying,hey baby I may have cheated on you?What purpose does that serve?

2006-07-22 10:08:11 · 5 answers · asked by consigliere 6

We been married for 2 years. He says he don't love me anymore like he use to. But he still wants us to work it out. We went away this weekend and he said he still felt the same. But he wants to wait on the divorce to see what happens between us. He tells me its over all the time and he still wants to be friends and do stuff together i want this to work so bad i am trying everything. Should i act like i just don't care anymore or should i keep on trying. I got a `13 month old son i got to be thinking about to. Please help me i love my husband so much I don't want to lose him.................

2006-07-22 10:06:47 · 9 answers · asked by Angie C 1

you ask them what took so long and about the miles,and they tell you they drove upto a completely diffrent store,(4 no reason)thru the parking lot,then they went to the right store,and that's where the miles came from?Both stores are2 minutes away and it took them over 30 minutes to get back with change.

2006-07-22 10:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by Direktor 5

The problem is my husband is so controlling, jealous, &down right mean 85% of the time.When we first married he didnt want me to work, but when I kept complaining about him not paying the bills but buying beer & his extras he insisted I get a job. Iwent & got a job at a hotel & every morning he would fight with me accusing me of cheating & so on.All I would do is take my kids to the babysitter go to work and pick them up & go home. So I finally got sick of it & quit &now he is fighting with me about not working .I stay at home all day if I go to the store, to his parents to take the kid to swim He just fights with me so now we dont go anywhere. I feel really uncomfortable around him because of his controlling and jealous way so I don't speak much. Now he has gotten to the point of calling me every name in the book and tells me he doesnt love me. I'm not allowed to go around family but he goes to the bar till 5a & spends bill money on his fun while the kids & I are at home with nothing

2006-07-22 09:59:09 · 9 answers · asked by steelersrock_81 1

Do you thinks as a spouse, that you have the right to tell your family and/or friends something that your other half has told you in confidence that is private and personal?

2006-07-22 09:49:25 · 32 answers · asked by Married Male 2

too late anyway because thats what we are doing, i'm just curious to what people think

2006-07-22 09:41:58 · 18 answers · asked by lola c 2

my husband decided last fall that he didn't want to be married to me or be around me anymore after 11 months of marriage. i was a widow for a long time before i fell hard for this man. i was not even looking. i didn't think i would ever have those "want to spend my life with this person" feelings again. i am supposed to know what i did. he won't look at me or talk to me. and he has been taking another woman places we used to go. i don't know what god wants me to do. it's a hard situation to describe. i feel as though my heart has been murdered. i married for life....not just for a few months to try it out! i don't care about money, etc. i just love the man.

2006-07-22 09:31:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-22 09:28:31 · 19 answers · asked by consigliere 6

My husband makes comments about me that are not nice. He says he's joking just to pick on me but it is driving me crazy! Picture this: I'm 5'5", 115 pounds...thin and attractive. Seriously! He makes comments about my butt, boobs, thighs...you name it. I have had two children but you wouldn't know it. I even look about 5-10 years younger than my actual age! What's up with that?

2006-07-22 09:25:58 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is currently in Poland on a stag weekend and as we speak he is in some seedy night club with strippers and lap dancers. This kind of thing has never bothered me before, infact he did all this on his stag do and I was fine with it, but we had a baby this year and my body is certainly not back to what it was so I feel insecure. I tried to explain, but he said he had to go and couldn't get out of it. So he's left me at home looking after our son on my own while he has a fabulous weekend abroad with naked women flaunting themselves at him. We can't afford a holiday together and all his vaccation goes on a DIY project. All I can tell you is that I am finding it really hard sititng at home knowing he's in a club with strippers etc. What should I do? Should I say anything to him when he gets home on Monday? Am I wrong to feel this way?

2006-07-22 09:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by newmummy 1

I have seen on HBO'S real sex episodes that some places have adult sex clubs for couples i was wondering what states have them and has anyone ever went to one?

2006-07-22 09:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-22 09:01:59 · 18 answers · asked by italyazzurre44 2

2006-07-22 08:55:01 · 7 answers · asked by consigliere 6

2006-07-22 08:31:21 · 26 answers · asked by sunshine 2