she used the excuse "I don’t feel good" or "I’m sick" all the time... also she says she is soar all the time…but we barely EVER have sex… she doesn’t even want to orally satisfy me when she is “soar” then when I ask her why she don’t want to do anything she also says she isn’t in the mood….or she get VERY pissed QUICK!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE….ITS KILLING ME!!!!!!!!
2006-07-22 11:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by Ma2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
woman r different compared to men, men can have sex everyday of the year non stop. But if ur girl is not having sex with u then u really need to talk to her about the situation. I like sex and cant do without it. i have been with a girl that didnt like sx that much at first but later liked it. u just have to be patient and u have to try find out wot she likes
2006-07-22 11:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mighty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one breaking the bad news, however, I am hoping, it is not 100% accurate, if it is, at least you got your questioned answered.
Something may be physically wrong with her. I don't know what it could be, nor do I want to come up with bad conclusions. Sometimes both men and women use these excuses before or during sex because something is wrong. It can be that they may not be into cerntain sexually activities. Other times the guy may have a very small penis, and does not want to be embarrased, or there can be some sort of infection.
Like I said, I am hoping this is not the case for your girlfriend. What I suggest you do, is talk to her, as best as you can, telling her what you feel about doing such sexual activities, and that you would like to know if she's ok with it , if she's not, you would like to know why. Maybe there's something you can do to help her out. If you want her to confide in you, you have to confide in her as well, don't put her down. Find ou what is wrong with her, and take it from there.
2006-07-22 11:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, but maybe you dont' satisfy her...why get all hot and bothered and then you're 'done' and she's left high and dry without satisfaction? That sucks! It feels like you're being used as a piece of meat and not as a woman you want to be with. Maybe take the time and TALK to her--find out what the issue is. Maybe she's making excuses for a different reason all together...talk to her!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-22 11:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's just not happy, because of some reason. try to talk to her ask her if there's anything wrong with the relationship. when we are pissed or not happy about something we tend to clam up and withdraw from things especially sex. Or possibly she just wants you to do what you use to when you first met, if you remember them try doing some of them.... like for no reason give her a hug and kiss, tell her you love her, buy her a rose, and tell her she is beautiful... well you get the idea. hope everything works out for you.
2006-07-22 11:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by jenny s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly area of sexual pride is a convenience component with someone. Openess in a courting and than the expectations out of a courting. you've slept with 10 adult males and also you're nevertheless not chuffed because you do not have a convenience component with them. come across a guy who loves you not needs to make fren for in basic terms sex. construct a courting and in case you experience you elements your self thoroughly purely than have sex and that i'm particular that provides you you pride.
2016-12-10 13:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you never gave her an orgasm. Never hit her "spot". Ask yourself this, "If I never got my rocks off, would I want to have sex?" I know I wouldn't.
Do you ever try to romance her? Make her dinner? Give her a massage? Rub her shoulders? Kiss her on the back of the neck when she least expects it? Or do you just outright say, "Let's do it tonight."
2006-07-22 11:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by kevsnow00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that she is an American woman. Dump her and get a REAL WIFE from a culture that still has values, like Philippines or Brazil.
2006-07-22 12:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by brian_29_chicago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that maybe your not good in bed and she doesn't like having sex with you. Maybe she doesn't like giving oral sex either. I think it's disgusting me myself.
2006-07-22 11:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is getting it somewhere else and doesn't need it from you...
2006-07-22 12:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by over the top 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she lazy
2006-07-22 11:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋