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I know she'll probably answer this, but I've gone to sodding bed anyway!

2006-07-22 10:43:21 · 40 answers · asked by poppies say grrr! 3 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

40 answers

slap your **** on the keyboard. ; )

2006-07-22 10:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 6 2

Communicate with her more. Sit down next to her while she on the computer and find out what she finds so interesting on it, to avoid being with you. Work at letting her know what you need, besides sex or feely touchy....Not every woman wants that kind of attention solely. Women feel so much more and notice so much more when their mates care so much more about the "little"things that are such a big deal to us. If you still love her, let her know. If she doesn't react quickly, find out what it is that is bothering her. Communicate often. Even if the ugly comes out in the conversation. I have been married 27 years, and the communicate is always the most difficult to keep strong because as you grow up and older, your insight and needs and cares grow stronger and sometimes in a different direction. Don't give up if you still love her and still care. Don't go to bed alone as your escape. Or you will always go to bed alone mentally and physically. See ya.

2006-07-22 11:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by patricia h 1 · 0 0

Is he trying to catch up with you? Do you have more points than her? It sounds like Answers can make some competition in a marriage. Don't go to "sodding" bed, stay up on Answers and make sure you take a strong, and lengthy lead. Be the man!

2006-07-22 11:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0 0

well you if it's peeing you off that much,which it obviously is,then think back to why you married her in the first place,and try to recreate the magic that was once there.
take time out,if you have kids get a family member to babysit or get a sitter,tell her your taking her somewhere special,that you will pick her up at blah blah time,(even if that means going elsewhere for you to get ready) pretend your going on a first date,but with the added benefit of going home with each other.
it's pretty obvious you need to spend quality time together again.
good luck

2006-07-22 11:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_kitten_692006 1 · 0 0

I'm sorry, but I'm with her, and doing the same thing at this moment. You need to meet up with my husband to sympathise with each other. What did you want to do this evening anyway? H ave you actually tried to suggest doing something that's more appealing than doing this, or do you just want her to watch football with you? Take her out somewhere nice.

2006-07-22 10:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well if she had something exciting in bed waiting for her, then maybe she would consider leaving the computer and going to bed. Give her a good reason to go to bed.

2006-07-23 07:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by Elana N 2 · 0 0

Well, give her a strong reason to leave computer for you, maybe you make her feel boring already, find something exciting and new, make a romantic weekend together doing some outdoors so she wouldnot have time to stay before computer-

2006-07-22 10:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lla 1 · 0 0

=( That really sucks.... My boyfriend has the same problem with a game called Warcraft. I see this is definitely you venting your frustration...which is something I've done on his game before, also.... but we both know it isn't exactly going to get us positive attention! LOL Anyway, keep plugging along, and try talking when things aren't so tense, ya know? Good luck (and wish me the same with my boyfriend's game! lol)!

2006-07-22 10:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm f**king around on Yahoo Answers too waiting for my boyfriend to to make me an offer I can't refuse !

I'd love it if he stormed in here and said " log of right now and get your a*** upstairs and get naked on that bed"

Sod the points, I'd be up there like a shot !!!!

Take my cue.................................................

2006-07-22 10:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by fudge 3 · 0 0

Well, Mark, I think you got your answer there man! I too have a husband who pays little to no attention to me, so am doing the same thing as your wife!
I think this may be the beginning of the end . . .
Good luck, to both of us!

2006-07-23 02:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Strip and get naked and make her a really good offer she cant possibly refuse; try something different in bed, take Viagra, buy sex toys- if you want her to be with you and not the computer, make it worth her while!!!!

2006-07-22 12:11:09 · answer #11 · answered by k0005kat@btinternet.com 4 · 0 0

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