how do you know if your husband is cheating?

Answer 1

Changed attitude towards you and your relationsship
An increase of unexplainable money spent
Change in appearance or more self-conscious about his appearance
Away from home more
Changed telephone patterns
Change in sex drive and intimacy
Unexplainable receipts
Unexplainable body marks
Woman's intuition

Answer 2

Here are just a few tell-tale signs:
He may pay more attention to his hygiene.
He may change his appearance: grow or shave a beard, different type of clothing, especially underwear.
He may carry more cash than usual so he leaves no paper trail.
He may have a separate bank account.
He may be more affectionate to you than usual.
He may be at home more often.
He may start "going out with the guys" more than usual.
He may change his work habits, like "staying late".
He may call you for a reason he's running late more often than normal.
That's just a few. Most of these also are signs of a cheating wife also.

Answer 3

Tell Tale Signs of A Cheating Spouse

The following is a guide to help you determine if your mate is cheating on you. After reading this list you may find there is some area of concern. Do not confront the cheater. This will only cause them to clean up their act and make it more difficult for you to catch them. You may not have enough proof to make your case. I would urge you to seek professional help.
* At the beginning of an affair the mate that is cheating is more attentive to his spouse. This is due to guilt that the cheater may be feeling at the time.
* After the affair has been going on for a while the person cheating seems to find fault with the person he/she may be living with to try to justify the affair in their mind.

* Cheating spouses may lose attention in the activities in the home. They don't show interest in the livelihood of you or the children that live in the home. Nor do they have any desires to do any fix-ups to the home (i.e. lawn care, house repairs, etc.....)

* Intuition (gut feeling) that something is not right usually is a sign you may have a cheating problem "when in doubt check them out".

* Cheaters may have a change in sex life (i.e. more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests.

* The cheater has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home, especially the mate (i.e. if he/she didn't act the way they do, well then maybe I wouldn't be doing the things I do).

* Another sign is "Finances". "If someone wants to play they have to pay" therefore keeping an eye on their monies (i.e. check stubs, bank account balances, credit card bills, etc...) would tell you whether their spending more money than usual.

* Grooming habits will change. Cheaters will be more attentive to their person (e.i. the way they dress, frequent bathing, physical fitness, grooming of their hair, switching of colognes, etc...).

* Physical signs to look for to determine whether or not someone is having an affair is lipstick on the collar, odors of cologne/perfume on a shirt/blouse, checking underwear for secretion stains. You can also check their wallets and/or the glove compartments of their car to see if they left receipts, pieces of paper with phone numbers, addresses, condoms, etc.

* You may want to monitor your spouse for two weeks. During this time keep track of the mileage on their car. Monitor the time they leave for work and the time they come home. Keep a calendar and note the times, this should help you establish a pattern. If your mate claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify this overtime.

* Be tuned in to home telephone calls when your mate has a tendency to whisper or gives a quick answer and immediately hangs up or when you answer the telephone and get an abrupt hang up.

* Many cheaters use cellular telephones to communicate with their lovers. Should your mate have a cellular telephone you may want to get a detailed billing of the calls made from the cellular phone to determine whether a certain number has been frequently called. A good area to start looking is for the first number called when your mate first leaves for work and the same number called again right before they return home.

* Female cheaters are more discreet in the selection of a lover . This is most likely because of their concern of Sexually Transmitted Disease's (STD's). Most females are looking for a longer lasting relationship rather than a "one night stand". In past years men were the aggressors, in society today, with the increase of women in the work force, women have become equally aggressive.

* When a female is having an affair she tends to have more of a "glow" about her.

Answer 4

Nobody has to tell you, in your heart you know something is not right....things aren't the way they were and they're not the way they should be. If you suspect him keep your eyes and ears open and wait. Unless you have proof most people who cheat will deny it when confronted. Because if you're a cheater than you're a liar.

**if you think he's cheating make him wear a condom...you need to protect yourself from whatever he may pick up.

Answer 5

i don't know how to tell, but i'll pray for you and your husband. i think that you should just talk to him and be serious, and be like i don't know y but i was wondering if it ever crossed your mind to cheat on me or if you ever did, i was just wanting to know cuz i had a strange feeling their not always right, but sometimes they have been, and i thought it would get a load off my back if i just straight up asked you. and it would be a lot less hurtfull to find out this way than finding out the hard way.

i hope this helped
God bless
your sister in Christ
Samantha

Answer 6

Ask him. Then ask him for all of his credit card statements and telephone call records. If he will not, then call each of his creditors and ask them for those statements [it might cost you a duplication fee; in many states a spouse is entitled to see the financial records of her/his spouse EVEN WHEN THEY ARE NOT LISTED ON THE CREDIT AGREEMENT]. You can also call your cell phone provider and ask for a detiled list of every single telephone number dialed from his phone, as well as every single text message address he has emailed or has received email from. If you see a number come up every day or several times a day, you might want to check into that number and see who it belongs to.

By the way, be prepared for a double dose of shame, anger and surprise. If he is cheating, it is most likely someone you know, perhaps know well, and maybe your best friend [or his best friend's wife].

Keep the law on your side, and the trigger locks on all firearms.

Answer 7

Unfortunately that is what most men do, whather it be emotional or physical. most men who follow christ are less likely to cheat, for they know how to resist temptation. So the real ? should be, Can I stay in a relationship where there might be infidelity or not??
One thing you should not do is become miss detective/nagging housewife syndrome. BAD BAD BAD!!!! Do not take ot personally either, the less self confidance we potray, the harder it is to bring him and yourself back down to reality. Why did we marry in the first place. Were they for the wrong reasoms? Or men are sexual ANIMALES> SPICE it up, Ask him what his fantasies are, than tell him yours. Then explore what is missing in your relationship!? GOOD LUICK

Answer 8

Signs: If he picks a fight with you for no reason and feels justified in walking out. He is going to see her.
They can't just leave it makes them feel guilty so they make a fight first and make it your fault. When you got the hots for someone it is hard to be objective.
Once they get that satisfied and they are back home.
They are the perfect husband until the next cutie comes by they have to have.

Answer 9

unexplained time away from home that he has no good reason for

a sudden and new concern for his looks, hair, clothes, cologne, stuff like that

being secretive about things in general but phone calls and other communication tools are good clues

showering as soon as he gets home, before you can get close to him, or coming home freshly showered (thats why lots of guys claim they 'joined a gym')

change in sexual activity with you (and it can be more or less, not just less)

unexplained financial situations (money missing that shouldn't be) credit card charges, atm withdrawals, always check out the money, if he's spending it and bringing home nothing to show for it something is up for sure, its not just floating away like a helium balloon

good luck!

Answer 10

BY checking the sperm count next time you have sex.
This is how to do it.
When your husband has not had sex for lets say three days, He should shoot at least a tbl spoon full. If he has had sex recently he will only have a tea spoon full.
Now the best way to check this is after sex use the spoon and see how much you get in it.