Don't you think this is the right thing to do instead of saying,hey baby I may have cheated on you?What purpose does that serve?
2006-07-22 10:08:11 · 5 answers · asked by consigliere 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you plan on never, ever doing it again, then stay quiet, but if you are going to continue doing so, I would suggest you say something before she finds out on her own.
2006-07-22 10:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes about little things that it is pointless to hurt anyone about or things that are just silly but about cheating, no you shouldn't lie..that is an indication of serious problems, not to mention you have no right to deceive someone you claim to love like that, its just wrong in every way imagineable. He has the right to know what he is actually dealing with and who he is actually married to and you have no right to ask him to live a lie....how would you feel? Besides if it takes 20 years for him to find out it will still feel like its yesterday so unless you are absolutely positive that there is no way he will ever find out you are better off telling him yourself. Did you tell anyone? Any chance the other guy might become jealous and let him know just to make trouble for you? Any chance anyone saw you? Any record of it (phone, credit cards, THIS QUESTION).
2006-07-22 10:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The purpose is to come clean and be honest ...give him the chance to accept or to walk away. When you just lead some1 on & you get caught in your lie...which eventually he will find out..... He will be foever haunted to know how long you played him and why you played him?
Personal Experience - and each day I am tormented by all the nice things and hard work I was putiing into the relationship, when she had many chance to come clean, but she was scared that I was going to leave her dry with her bills!....Which when I found out...I was GHOST LIKE PAC-MAN!
2006-07-22 10:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies always resurface. I know that, I found out of all the lies my boyfriend has hidded and it hurt as hell to find out it even happend. Don't lie, its the worst thing you can do. And there are ways of bringing it up. Honesty, this time it may help you.
2006-07-22 15:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like they say cheat once bring to cheat again.If you dont tell your mate ,well sooner or later he/she will found out.
2006-07-22 10:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋