2006-07-22 12:54:46 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know it's not ok, i don't want this to happen, but i simply cannot get my first love out of my heart and mind, her image keeps appearing before my eyes, and i'm full of regrets about the mistakes that broke us apart... i need her, it's like all my happiness depends on her being in my life
2006-07-22 13:05:15 · update #1
i know it's not ok, i don't want this to happen, but i simply cannot get my first love out of my heart and mind, her image keeps appearing before my eyes, and i'm full of regrets about the mistakes that broke us apart... i need her, it's like all my happiness depends on her being in my life; i've decided to fight for her for the rest of my life, no matter what, i know it's unlikely that i will ever succeed, but i'll try.... i gave up on her so many times... that's why i lost her, no more, i will fight till the day i will die, i will fight for that small chance... maybe in 10, 20, 40 years from now something will change and allow us to be together.....
2006-07-22 13:10:23 · update #2
Spend more quality time romancing your love now. Your feelings for that person will grow and your ex will be forgotten.
2006-07-22 12:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good For You! A lot of people can say things not being in your situation and not knowing the whole story.It's really easy to say "No, you can't do that" or "No, you can not feel that way" but alot of people do,Only you know what you feel.I do not think you should tell your wife though,you do not need to hurt her unless you plan to divorce her.But you have to realize you are holding your wife back from finding her true love also.Does this other lady know how you feel? She might just feel the same way you do.I am sure you are not out to hurt your wife sometimes you can not help who you love.It is a very difficult situation one you might have to live with.Real Love Never Dies,Good Luck!
2006-07-22 20:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treasure the memory and let go of the fairy tale.
We all have our first love. But, as time goes by we only remember the good times. And we all change as time goes on.
You must be needy in some way to be taking your mind off in this direction of the past. Get your mind in gear and seduce your wife.
Make her feel special....in return you will imporve your own mood.
I have a story about my first love....He sure isn't what I thougth he would grow up and be. And he is nothing like the handsome young man I fell for a long time ago.
From what I have heard from other people their first love is better kept a memory and leave it there.
2006-07-22 20:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in trouble, you never should have gotten marrid as you do your current wife a HUGE disservice for not fully letting go, you are like a few guys out there who simply don't get it, she has moved on, so should you.. or are you going to be a wimp and forever wax poetic about you ex's virtues. if it was so good both of you would be together, but it was not, something drove you 2 apart, leanr from your mistake and move on, life is too short to be whining about ex's
2006-07-22 19:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move away. An affair carried out in your heart and/or mind is still an affair. It will cause division between you and your wife -- whom you loved enough to marry, while your "first love" you did not. Just because things were different in yesteryear doesn't mean they were better.
2006-07-22 20:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. This is sickening.
You might want to start taking some Zoloft. It works!
Get over your ex and live a full life with your wife!
2006-07-22 20:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on ..you are both married....remind yourself of the reasons you married you wife in the first place.
2006-07-22 20:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by not2smarttoday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. You are screwed
2006-07-22 20:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋