2006-07-22 11:41:28 · 15 answers · asked by tjip36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it was always so easy and nice we wouldn't appreciate the very special things that life does have to offer.
2006-07-22 11:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to tell my daughter that things have to be tough so when the good stuff happens we appreciate it more.
I know there have been times when I really just wanted to pull the covers over my head and not come out...ever. But it doesn't help the situation. It won't go away until you deal with it. It's not going to be fun, but one of the best things about us..is that we learn to cope and get through things. We don't just give up.
I've had things go so incredibly wrong - that everything I did just seemed to make it worse. It got to the point where I just started laughing....because it was like some horrible cartoon and I was the "fall guy". If you're American...you may know the Roadrunner cartoons. There is this skinny pathetic coyote who really only wants to catch the roadrunner, and everything he tries, no matter how logical and reasonable it is...blows up in his face. I have been, more than once, that coyote.
You keep going. You try to make it right. You try to make it better. And no matter how often it blows up in your face..you never give up. Sooner or later...unlike the coyote...it'll work out.
2006-07-22 11:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old song says: "If it weren't for bad luck I'd have no luck at all...." Life is hard because of the nature of humans. They are not satisfied with what they have - they want more. A principal once said to a meeting of parents, "Remember when you were expecting your child? All you wanted was a healthy baby with 10 fingers and 10 toes. Now that the child is in school you want more and more."
2006-07-22 12:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't have to be. You do have a choice on your actions. What a man/woman thinketh so it is. Think positive my friend, and feel and feel proud about what you have accomplished so far. You might feel better if you can take some classes or active in a hobby. Good Luck!
2006-07-22 12:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by ianthra2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if life will be predictable then there is no challenge.
If life will be so simple, then we cannot strive to be perfect.
And if we just accept things the way they are without having to toil and find what is best for us, then we can't really be the highest form of animal.
2006-07-22 11:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything worth doing is going to have a bit of trouble to pull off do the best ya can things will come out good or bad ya did what you could there is honer in that
2006-07-22 11:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by problemchild20032003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is what you make it out to be. Be strong and tackle problems one at a time. Good luck
2006-07-22 11:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is what you make it and how you perceive it. Take one day at a time and realize that some times we all have bad days.
2006-07-22 12:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, whatever led you to believe it would be easy? Sorry if someone told you that but they lied. If it wasn't for the bad times you wouldn't know to appreciate the good ones.
2006-07-22 11:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of Aden and Eave. At that time the Loed told them they would never have it easy again. So because of our sins things have to be heard.
2006-07-22 11:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋