2006-07-22 16:45:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honesty, integrity, devotion to family, hard worker, great sense of humor, loyalty. Not necessarily in that order.
2006-07-22 17:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh yes the question that all men ponder at some point in their lives. I can tell you that the journey that lies ahead of you could be one of the most remarkable experiences that you will ever embark on. It took me going through phases to get where I am now. I have been that playboy type and single lifestyle doing whatever I wanted to do. But later in life I realized there was more to life than that. So I did what most men couldn't. I took it upon myself, in order to understand women you have to get on their level, try to understand who they feel. So after talking to many women throughout the world. I travel a lot. I came to an understanding and then I just embraced my own feminism. Trust me guys have it in them, just most are not able to accept it and harness it. I will tell you that women as a whole want a guy who will accept them for who they are insided and out, not for what we want them to be. Trust, Honesty and Integrity are all virtues that we as men need to adhere to. Life is all about choices, most women just want a man who makes them feel comfortable, someone that when they talk to you, they feel that you are really listening to them.
2006-07-23 11:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Not Important 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've met many different types of other girls, and we all talk about what we like in guys, and no matter what type it is, we always seem to agree. Here's the basic info (might want to write this down!):
1. Girls absolutely adore a good sense of humor! If you can turn our frowns upside down by being a total goofball, chances are that we will want to talk to you and be with you more. It can make even the homeliest of men look like prince charmings to certain women.
2. Independece. As much as we all love guys, we don't want to end up being your moms. We want you to have a job, not get too clingy, and let us give you attention but still have some "me" time.
3. Personality. This includes kindness and generosity. You could look like Mr.Universe, but if you're gonna be a total jerk, you will not find many dates in this lifetime. Oh, and guys who are abusive, they don't stay with women for long. We tend to consider them scum of the Earth.
4. Intelligence is key to a lot of girls. We want to be able to have an intelligent conversation, to be able to show you off to our parents and go, "He has a Bachelors in such-and-such program! Look at how smart he is!" So many girls in college won't even look at you unless you plan to finish college as well.
5. Fun loving guys will always find themselves with lots of girls willing to party along with them. Period.
Really, looks might have SOMETHING to do with dating, but it's not ALL that we look into. Most girls are way less shallow than the average guy would think. With some charm, manners, and personality, ANY guy could get the girl of his dreams!
2006-07-22 23:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by minerva779 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young single women seem to like rugged, popular, confident, athletic, fun men...but after these foolish young women marry, grow up, and divorce their childish first husbands they fall for kind, reliable, intelligent, family-oriented, sensitive men who were sadly scooped up by other young women who knew better. Oh...if only I knew then what I know now... Strive to be this second type of man and your future wife will have reason to be nothing but happy.
2006-07-23 00:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by ophelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who looks at life as if his glass is always 1/2 full. Someone who can make me laugh. Someone willing to sit and talk about anything (or at least give it a good shot. lol).
A guy who's willing to hold me even when he doesn't want to. A guy who doesnt' need a reason to go out in the field and pick me flowers, it's just because he wanted to.
Most important though, someone willing to say I Love You and mean it.
There's so much more. Thank god, I found all the above and more in my husband.
2006-07-22 23:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody I can make laugh and tickle and chase around the house. A guy who will sing even if he can't carry a note. I like a laid back loving man. Cuz I can be a stress case. I like guys who don't look like Atlas. Muscles are just not that cuddly. I like big guys cuz I am little and i wanna lap to crawl on and hug him and .... n/m. LOL I like a guy who likes to do things with me, cuz I do things with him. And cuz he wants to be with me, even just to watch me pull weeds. Better if he joins in though. Simple eh? Are you like that? We are not as complex as you think.
2006-07-23 00:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humor???? That's the wrong answer.I know some fat funny guys that cant get laid... Women want skinny guys, at least 5'10" and have a decent job. That will be honest and stay skinny even if they don't....
2006-07-22 23:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by aaron c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
2006-07-23 11:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sense of humer, they have to be charming.. and willing to give up their time for them. Surprise them with dates or presents every once in a while.. NEVER point out her mistakes. Like the twix commercial.. if she asks you if she looks fat.. chew it over.
2006-07-22 23:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I like when a man can make me laugh and when I think he is sincere.
2006-07-22 23:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by vampire angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋