She would never watch it. She'd take a picture of two monkeys doing it at the zoo in a heartbeat though.
How can I "correct" her thinking on this? Any ideas?
2006-07-22 05:49:13 · 25 answers · asked by tspbrady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there are videos of woman doing it with animals if she likes that better
2006-07-22 07:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by aprilx4u 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
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2016-07-24 22:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmmm.......this is a tricky one! My boyfriend likes porn a lot! He did not date much before we met, (like 3 girls) and had a lot of back luck with girlfriends/women in general as far as getting along with them and them using him and stuff like that. So needless to say, he watched a lot of porn and masturbated a lot. So when we got together, it was kind of weird for me because i always thought that if you were in a relationship you would not use porn that much. Or at least I never did. I am very sexual and I like sex more than once a week or once a month. I asked him if the reason he never wanted sex was because of all the porn. I mean I know I don't look like the chicks in it, but how often does a girl come along that would not mind sex every day, or a few times a day like 3 days a week. He said no porn was not the reason he was not that into sex, but that he does not want to be with me just for sex. I mean thats great and I think a lot of girls would like to hear that so they dont feel they are being used, but only to a certain point.............this is 1 year into our relationship...........so I just let him know that it was hard for me and it really bothered me and now things are really good! I'm not saying I hate porn or anything, I just think that if you have the real thing there, it should kinda take a back seat! Good Luck!
2006-07-22 07:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nearly impossible to turn around a moral issue. You might try finding out what it is about porn that she hates. Is it the ugly men actors, the totally unnatural positions, the fact that it shows close-ups of excited genitalia? Once you find out the issue, you can work on changing the mindset. One suggestion for you would to ask her for a favor, to allow you to have porn on while you are going down on her. 1, she'll get hot while watching it and may be able to associate that, 2, you won't be watching it which is probably the reason she hates it. Women do not like competition and porn women are competition for your attention.
2006-07-22 05:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to live someone else's fantasies? To correct your wife's thinking would be to say the words "Please imagine another person satisfying you while we make love." or "I want you to think about another in sexual ways so that you will possibly go and cheat with someone else." Besides, you will make her feel less of a woman when she realizes that she can't live up to the people on the screen. Porn is filthy and wrong. Have you tried wife-swapping? Now that would be fulfilling! Pretty much the same thing. If you try to brainwash your wife in thinking that any sexual situations are okay to fantasize about your asking for another man to take your place. Don't be surprised when you come home from work and find her in bed with another. YOU TRAINED HER TO DO THAT, REMEMBER?
2006-07-22 06:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Raquel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women find porn "wrong" because they feel inferior to the women in the movies. Or they don't want you to expect them to perform the same way as those women.
I would suggest having a serious talk about what her fears are, and why you feel the need to watch with you. Maybe you can work this issue out, or maybe you'll have to continue to watch alone.
2006-07-22 05:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the question would be is she really uptight about things in general. To her the monkey thing is probably funny, while porn could disgust her. I don't think there is any way to make someone like porn. Maybe it's one of those Freudian things they talk about in psych class, I don't know, lol.
2006-07-22 05:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by banshee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have a low selfasteam! If so dats y she dont like to watch porn. U have to help her get a higher self asteam about her self. When she know with out a doubt dat u think she is far more sexyer then any porn star and dat she can do things better then they can ,she will start likeing it more. U have to work with her and help her with out gettin upset at her. trust me i know wot im talking about ....BEEN THERE AND DONE DAT!!!! it worked for me..did not happen over night but it worked.
2006-07-22 06:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by springn1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some porn you think she might enjoy and have it playing on the TV some night where she'll see it. Maybe if it's softcore porn she might like it better. Some women are offended by the hardcore stuff.
2006-07-22 08:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by cryptoscripto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont force her to if she doesnt want to. Somehow or rather, she would blame you for making her do what is against her will.
Appreciate the fact that she dislikes porn like others would dislike other things. This is just personal preference, I guess.
Am pretty sure you would never do "something" in your life too,eh?? So, respect her wishes.
2006-07-22 05:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? so that her needs can suit urs? to get u to have the right to look at porn when u should only be concentrating on your wife ? Na, i dont think u should try and change her to suit your perversion needs.. thats not right.. u married her knowing she was like this, so now deal with it..
2006-07-22 05:53:45 · answer #11 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋