Marriage & Divorce - 17 July 2006

2006-07-17 09:57:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not to mention that so many men think its easier! My husband says "its like a vacation! You don't have to really work.". Is cleaning toilets, sweeping and mopping, vacuuming, bathing the dog, cleaning the cat box, doing dishes three times a day, cooking three meals a day, dusting, cleaning tables and windows, constantly picking up toys, grocery shopping, going to doctors, registering for school, doing laundry for four people, managing and paying the bills, all with a three and a five year old, not working?? Did I miss the memo??

2006-07-17 09:50:39 · 26 answers · asked by carolinagrl 4

A program I have installed on my computer to monitor the kids activities recently copied me some text from my wife's yahoo chat sessions with a male online friend. The chat sessions featured sexual innuendos and in one part she typed in "just thought before my husband woke up..." and apparently turned on the webcam because her friend responded with "that is a pretty little nightie". So apparently she was wearing some sexy clothing to show him behind my back!

I confronted her with my discovery the next day. She insisted that their was nothing behind their sexual talk and that she was inappropriate to have worn such clothing in front of the webcam for him but that it did not involve any nudity whatsoever and I shouldn't be so mistrusting of her. After our talk I actually felt bad for being suspicious of her. However I can not get these events out of my mind. HOW WOULD YOU REACT????

2006-07-17 09:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by jmarshal74 1

I am a very upbeat, rarely in a fowl mood but when I am it isn't ok but it is just fine for him to be upset or in a bad mood. Why do I always have to wear a happy smile and be pleasant 100% of the time? He tells me that my mood pisses him off and that I should change it. Aren't women allowed to upset, mad or whatever? Has anyone else experienced this before or is it just me? Maybe I have a difficult husband. Any ideas?

2006-07-17 09:46:02 · 12 answers · asked by couriousk 4

I was wondering whether you had a top list of your partner's bad/entertaining habits, whether it be the old cliche of leaving toilet seat up/leaving washing on the floor/wiping mouth on hand towel etc? It's good to know what other people's quirks are!

2006-07-17 09:45:15 · 19 answers · asked by EK 2

I dont know if he thinks this is a game or something. He is playing with my emotion. One minute hes telling me he doesnt want to be with me anymore. Then the next he looking for me when Im out. He calls me at all hours. Sometimes he doesnt call at all, even to ask or see the kids. He s in his own world and wants to do whatever he wants. He wants me to sit around and cry over him, and how I cant live without him. Im sick of it! Is he playing a game with my head? One minute Im ok, and think I cant get through, then I hear his voice and it alls goes back to hell. Im trying to be strong and not let him get the better of me. He left me with no explanation. Do you think he calls because he wants to argue, or just see what Im up too.

2006-07-17 09:44:52 · 19 answers · asked by carol s 1

2006-07-17 09:42:51 · 23 answers · asked by a friend 2

2006-07-17 09:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by smokey 1

2006-07-17 09:38:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been marry 15 year one son 12 this will be a good chance to get away

2006-07-17 09:29:13 · 5 answers · asked by ahrtracy13 2

I don't know what to do, any advice is appreciated. I know it is not like the real thing, but he showed his d** on web cam, he called this girl sweetheart, darling, lovely, and so forth.
He told her over and over that he loved her. He made many sexual comments, asked her to flash him, said he wanted to see her when she changed her clothes, made plans to go to a hotel with her, told her she has the most beautiful eyes he has ever seen, said he dreams about her and wishes the dreams would come true. He told her not to worry about me cause our marriage is over anyway, and the list goes on.
She and him got in a fight anf
are not talking anymore, so she sent me all the yahoo archives that she had. So I have the proof.
He lies to me and says that she changed it all to make him look bad, but I know it was him because I know how he talks, mispells words and so on. He says well she set it up cause she knows how I talk.
I want to leave but have no where to go, no money, no car and 4 kids.

2006-07-17 09:23:11 · 13 answers · asked by countrygrl278 6

2006-07-17 09:21:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my deceased husband was married to a doreen smith around 1977 and divorce her around 1989 in the state of virginia, i need to know if that marriage was ever disovled

2006-07-17 09:20:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

proper care and feeding of husbands good or bad advise

2006-07-17 09:16:39 · 9 answers · asked by mobile auto repair (mr fix it) 7

she has had a 'stalker' for several months, turned out to be him, i suspected that all along but it was some crazy stuff, even went so far as to stab himself claiming the stalker did it, threatened her kids, broke windshields, tampered with brake lines, i'll kill you all messages and several other 'suspects' being pulled in questioned and accused by police. My question is....how should she handle it, how can she 'encourage' them to keep him longer, this guy obviously has serious issues and she is scared of what will happen when he gets out. He has been there since Saturday night, she found out he was the source of the messages and the police put him in. However, stalking is just a misdemeanor so even if they do bother to do the paperwork (which they probably won't in this town) it won't have anything much in the way of repercussions. any suggestion or information on these hearings would be greatly appreciated! t

2006-07-17 09:14:48 · 4 answers · asked by dappersmom 6

2006-07-17 09:10:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-17 09:07:32 · 2 answers · asked by need more money 1

2006-07-17 09:06:18 · 5 answers · asked by Charon 2

My fiance and I have been together for 3 years, but just recently decided to get engaged, we already have hit a lot of rough areas in our relationship...Including trust and honesty...This is where It lies...My fiance has told me that he loves me and only me. But he's Flirted, Got numbers, checked out, and all the crap a man would do if he's not happy with who he's with. I don't know if I can believe him, but I want to, I do love him and I want to believe him. But he has done a lot to hurt me, and I don't want to leave him, we started counseling. But for some reason I blame myself for everything that is going on. What can I do and how could I make him feel that I do love him and I want the same treatment?

2006-07-17 09:04:46 · 11 answers · asked by missbehave252002 3

2006-07-17 09:02:37 · 28 answers · asked by Charon 2

A friend of mine exceeded California's no fee legal aid. Only because she was $200.00 over. This amount is not much. Her children's father refuses to see his children and give child support. I would really appreciate it if someone can point us to the right direction and locate a lawyer that will not charge an arm and a leg for a single mom that can barely make ends meet.

2006-07-17 08:56:44 · 9 answers · asked by Marie 2

my fiancee says if my son doesnt go by his rules he wil take his tv out.

2006-07-17 08:54:48 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-07-17 08:53:47 · 22 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

My husband and I were married for 5 1/2 yrs. However, we were seperated for almost one year and just got back together. When we got seperated it was because of many things, after all this time we both matured more and learned a lot of things, but now, I have thought of having a third child, see, before we got seperated I got my tubes tied, because I had gone through post partum depression and thought that I would never want another child again. I would have to start off by getting my tubes untied, which is expensive but I wouldn't mind trying to pay for it someday. My husband thinks that our two boys are enough, I just think that I didn't enjoy my last baby as much as I wish I should of. After all this time being seperated and now being together, it seems like we love each other more than ever. I don't know, my doctor said that there is like a 70% chance that I could get pregnant if I get them untied. What do you think?

2006-07-17 08:53:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my Husband has a gf or two and I am suppose to just look the other way . But it pisses me off when she calls the house

2006-07-17 08:46:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance has a 12-year-old daughter that lives with us. She has pictures of her mom in her room. I'm fine with that, but recently I found this 11 X 17 picture of her mom and my fiance together in her closet. I was putting away some of her clothes. I told my boyfriend and he was even sort of weirded out by it, because he doesn't know where it came from, maybe ex-wife. Okay, now she wants to keep this huge photo album of her parents' wedding. Her mom didn't want it at her house, but daughter wanted to keep it. Is this weird or I am just being jealous?

2006-07-17 08:46:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I put cheating as kissing, talking (wrongful), and of course sex. I want to see how many people have actually cheated on their spouse, also your age when you did it and did you regret it.

2006-07-17 08:43:06 · 17 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

2006-07-17 08:40:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

wife of 10 years got hooked on drugs. persuaded by church and family we decided not to get a divorce, and instead she went into a treatment program for 9 months. within 3 weeks she hit the streets again, and once our 2nd car got repossessed that was enough for me.
On my own I sold the house, moved out of the state, eventually got a good job a new house all the while i was taking care of our 4 children.
During this time she went into another treatment program (this one was christian-based) and has now been clean for a year. She hasnt seen the kids or me and wants to come back. My initial answer was HELL TO THE NO!!!! after thinking about it for a while, all the old love feelings kicked up again. What do u think i should do?

2006-07-17 08:36:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 10 years and my husband has been being really hurtful to me. I have gained weight and he constantly makes comments to hurt my feelings. Last night he said he wasn't satisfied with the way I look and I needed to straighten up and lose weight and do more for him. He said was tired to telling me to do the same over and over and he was being hateful to prove a point and get my attention so I would do better. The thing is I've been really depressed and I don't have any willpower. I need some help

2006-07-17 08:34:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous