I put cheating as kissing, talking (wrongful), and of course sex. I want to see how many people have actually cheated on their spouse, also your age when you did it and did you regret it.
2006-07-17 08:43:06 · 17 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 43 and never cheated on my ex the entire time we were married 11 years.
Can't say I've ever cheated in any relationship I was ever in for that matter.
2006-07-17 08:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never been married but was with the same guy for 8 years. When I was about 23, I did cheat on him (not sex), just kissing and some playing around. I felt guilty about it but very strongly suspected that he had cheated on me many times (which I thought to be the reason we weren't married). We are no longer together because not long after that he very openly began cheating on me, even asking advice on how to get a girl into bed with him!!
2006-07-17 15:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated, but I have been cheated on. I suppose that is the reason I have never cheated. I learned at an early age that even the pain of losing a friend or family member to death is not as brutal and long lasting as the pain from being cheated on. It seems that every 10 years or so, I receive a reminder of how badly it hurts when someone you love cheats on you. It's a pain I would never inflict on my worst enemy, so why cause somebody you care about that kind of pain. The only exlanation that makes sense is that cheaters may never have been cheated on themselves, so they have no idea how significant the agony they are handing down to their significant other.
2006-07-17 15:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by bluesea112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cheating started while engaged and I was only 21. It continued for more than 25 years and the split it caused ended up costing my marriage. Inside I felt the cheating was harmless because I never placed importance on the women I cheated with. My wife was important to me but I never attached guilt to my actions. Many people make the same mistake. If I had realized how wrong it was to ignore my willing wife and do all those things with strangers both our lives could have been much better.
2006-07-17 15:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Started out with talking. Moved on to kissing. Moved on to more. Not actual sex, but close enough.
It was several years ago. I was 33.
Do I regret it? No. I love the guy I cheated with.
2006-07-17 15:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I was 22. We;d been married 1 year. Things were bad. We ended separating a month after,for different reasons. He never found out.
I regreted doing it that way, and I regreted doing it to him.
I did not regret the expierence I had.
Although I won't do it again.
2006-07-17 15:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by curiousthree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been married so I have not had any spouses to cheat on. I have never cheated on a girlfriend either. Hell.. I am a freaking 29 year old loser that has never had a girlfriend! Shoot me now!....
2006-07-17 16:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by escaped_mental_case 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have with my childrens father he was very abusive towards me physically and mentally and I would cheat to feel like I was cared about.... I been with my present boyfriend for 4 years and I never have cheated on him and I would never dream of doing it.
2006-07-17 15:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
31 years of marriage and never cheated.
2006-07-17 15:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by Critical Thinker No 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is not cheating. If that was the case, everyone would be cheaters.
2006-07-17 15:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋