Marriage & Divorce - 17 July 2006

2006-07-17 19:44:12 · 13 answers · asked by clues 1

2006-07-17 19:33:28 · 11 answers · asked by rare d 2

My husband has admitted to "cheating on me" ( you touch mine I'll touch yours moments with a dozen women, and masturbating naked with other women) He also chats and sends naked shots of himself to other women on the web. He even video taped a few sessions with his friends over the last year(I found the dvd's he made). We have a baby a little over a year ago. It's been going on about 3 years now. I get so mad at him and I want to leave, I even told him I hated him a few times. He hasnt't had a job in 2 1/2 years, and he buys stuff all the time. I love him sometimes but mostly I deal with him because of our son. my husband says we are replaceable all the time and he hardly helps me with our son. He's only changed about 5 diapers so far. He says he never wanted him and he wished we never had him all the time(sometimes he says he doesn't mean it). I guess the only thing we have is our son. We enjoy a movie once and a while, and we hardly talk, our son notices everything it makes me sad

2006-07-17 19:31:01 · 15 answers · asked by justme 1

i have been married for 8 and a half years, and we have been trying for 6 years for a baby, and finally we are pregnant...i am 6 months along...anyways....our life was going really well...we had a home and my husband had a good job and all that jazz....well, some old bills caught up with us, and my husband's paychecks began getting garnished, and i begged him to get a second job just for a few months to get us through, especially with the added expense of needing to buy baby clothes and furniture...well, he apparantly just could not bring himself to get another job, and we ended up losing our place to live, he had to quit his very good job...and we had to move in with friends...two states away!! i am miserable here....can't find a decent ob/gyn...and i am very angry towards my husband for letting this happen...today i kinda flipped out and just let all of my bad feelings loose on him, and now he is mad at me...how do i let go of my resentment and just focus on the crappy future ahead?

2006-07-17 19:28:43 · 23 answers · asked by justjaime25 1

2006-07-17 19:18:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

The kids are getting older[14,17,20] and I'm so lonely. My husband works am to pm. How do I get a divorce[after20yrs] and be finnacialy set. He has no idea I want this. He has taken advantage of me,he hardly knows I'm around and I have tried to make it right. And he looks just like his dad,fat,bad teeth,rotton toes.He was so handsome many years ago.

2006-07-17 18:34:35 · 13 answers · asked by redheadsRbeter 1

I have been separated from my husband since June and after saying he would never file he already is and also trying for full custody. No chance of making it work he has been emotionally and physically(not hitting) abusive before I left and a complete as*h**le since separation. Using the kids emotions and when he can see them to hurt me... completely wrong.

Do you think its right for me to have a guy friend online who supports me and is just there for me but we have never met. I didn't go online looking for someone just met through here "answers" right before I moved out. Is that wrong when technically I am not single yet? I have heard of emotional affairs. Could my husband use that against me. He knows about him. We have feelings for each other but I am worried it could just be lonliness. He just went through a break up too. We probably will never meet in person because he is in England and me USA. It really helps me cope to have his friendship but the feelings are confusing.

2006-07-17 18:18:06 · 14 answers · asked by JustWant2B 5

First of all, he is from a different country, and is 11 years younger than me. He has told me he "how could he love me" and he is always checking out other women right in front of me. When I confronted him, he said "it is time you realize you are not a sexy woman". I am hurt and upset and have put a million walls around me, so our relationship is not good right now. Also, he is mad because he feels I do not trust him, but how can I, he is always distracted by a pretty woman and watches alot of porn. Tonight I asked him for a divorce and he does not want it. The probem is today at work a total stranger looked at my computer and saw me im'ing my friend and e-mailed her thinking it was me and told me he thought I was sexy. I am really flattered and although that might not ever go anywhere it made me feel good and sexy........contrary to what he said about me. What would you do? Leaving him would cause real financial hardship because I have two kids (not his).

2006-07-17 17:55:48 · 59 answers · asked by candi 1

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2006-07-17 17:50:33 · 12 answers · asked by maniac 4

2006-07-17 17:45:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband lies to be about small stuff like quiting smoking, money, problems at work, how he is feeling, and more. He has never cheated on me as far as I know but I have trouble believing whta he says. Should I forgive him and if so how do I trust him again?

2006-07-17 17:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by Diamond Freak :) 4

i am definatly not having an affair nor do i even have anyone that i meet or talk to at all i am in love with my wife very much and i,m more than happy with our sex life allso i,m with my wife 24/7 apart from the odd time when it s not practical despite this my wife is sometimes convinced that i,m seeing another woman and that isee her during the brief moments apart please help us iknow my wife loves me very much

2006-07-17 17:40:20 · 15 answers · asked by seu_seh 1

they all think that the world begins and ends with them and that they know EVERYTHING.......

2006-07-17 17:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

Say you got with a woman and she had a REALLY nice rack, one you dearly loved! But then you had 4 kids and after nursing all of them, her rack shrunk alot - would you still love them as much as the first time you got to play with them? Would you still find her as attractive?

2006-07-17 17:30:32 · 9 answers · asked by Ken'sBabe 3

I am married with kids. The sex is gone. My wife has no interest in me at all. What do I do? I am lonely and temptation is there......

2006-07-17 17:30:26 · 16 answers · asked by Rob M 1

My husband is a sex addictor. Every nite or day he want to have sex.. sometime I can't tahan so i told him i'm tired. He angry i don't give in to him.... end up he go out have sex with his female cousin.
He told me he make the first move to invit her to sex. She didn't reject him. They have sex. They are cousin relationship, how can they do that.. Because to enjoy SEX

2006-07-17 17:13:51 · 13 answers · asked by trouble 1

he says he is faithful but seeing these pictures really made me feel angry and jealous. made me think when we are making love (having sex) am i the one he has his mind on? please give me some possitive feed back is this grounds for divoirce? whar should i do

2006-07-17 17:09:23 · 19 answers · asked by PUNAUNEY 1

2006-07-17 17:02:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend, but he has a girl friend. I think it is possiable for us to get back together so what should i do tell him or just let him go and move on with my life?

2006-07-17 17:02:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been talking to a girl in the Philippines for about 3 years now and we want to get married.

2006-07-17 17:00:53 · 4 answers · asked by urivera81 1

2006-07-17 16:59:49 · 43 answers · asked by princess d 1

I stated datin this guy when i was 15 (John) he went in the navy about 8 months into our relationship well right after he left i found out i was preg. well when i was 17 i was tired of being alone i never got to see John. I met this guy (Roy) we dated for a lil over a year i thought things were great well one day Roy came home from work and told me to get out, so i left for about a year i just dated differant guys well i thought it was time to settle down. I waited a year for Roy but he made it clear he didnt want me back . well i married John we have been married 2 years but a couple days ago i talked to Roy and he told me he regreted letting me go we have been talkin alot the past week. Now i want Roy back so bad but im married and i dont want to hurt John we have 2 kids together. the past 3 years since Roy and i broke up there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think of him i dream of him alot.should i go w/ my heart and leave my husband for Roy the man i think i truly love??

2006-07-17 16:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by country_girl23 4

2006-07-17 16:51:40 · 13 answers · asked by fore p 1

I am nervous

2006-07-17 16:48:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a Ghanaian working in China.l schooled in Ghana and the life of my 'psycology' and 'literature in english' tutors who were from the countries mentioned above inspilled me that l have vowed to marry a lady from any of these countries who is between 25 and 40 years.l can't joke with my marriage life so please l hope l will not be cheated. l tried some otrher sites but it never worked.This is the time l want my fellow yahoo ussers to help me.Thank you and God bless you for your help.

2006-07-17 16:46:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

If my wife chats and is in Yahoo groups but has in the past got an online relationship with some one else am I wrong to tell her that I don't want her in any of the goups that he is in?

2006-07-17 16:44:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

before I got married my husband had told me he would rather get tatoos or something but not a ring but I talked him into. But after we got married he didnt not want to wear his ring. Not because he was cheating but because rings is not him. Even though a wedding is a different type of jewlry. Eventually he statr back wearing faithfully. But I know that it's a lot of men that don't wear their rings. So what do you think is it because some still want to be looked as as single or other reasons?

2006-07-17 16:44:19 · 6 answers · asked by sexibrownthang 1

My husband thinks I am not looking for a job. I'm looking daily and sending resumes and making my callbacks, etc. It's getting to the point where he is calling me names and acts like he does not respect me. We just got married last month, but have been together for three years and he has an 11 year old son. I don't know what to do. :(

2006-07-17 16:43:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-17 16:39:20 · 10 answers · asked by Lynda B 1

Is it wrong for my wife to have another man as a best friend? She talks to him about everything (except our personal things) and i believe her when she says she is not doing anything with him (sexually) because since the day i met her she has always had more guyfriends than girlfriends. She says they are easier to talk to and less likely to judge you on the things you do. Unlike her girlfriends which she says are too back stabbing.
So is it wrong that she has a best guyfriend even though she is married to me?

2006-07-17 16:39:20 · 3 answers · asked by camsamjam04 1