i am definatly not having an affair nor do i even have anyone that i meet or talk to at all i am in love with my wife very much and i,m more than happy with our sex life allso i,m with my wife 24/7 apart from the odd time when it s not practical despite this my wife is sometimes convinced that i,m seeing another woman and that isee her during the brief moments apart please help us iknow my wife loves me very much
2006-07-17 17:40:20 · 15 answers · asked by seu_seh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your wife is just insecure.Give her the assurance of your love for her.Shower her with love and care.Being with her 24/7 is meaningless without trust.Is she happy with your sex life?Does she enjoy making love with you?Do you satisfy her?Sounds fun but very important in marriage life. Wake up and get this answers from the horses mouth.Good luck.
2006-07-17 21:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by hannah n 2 · 45⤊ 18⤋
If you're with her 24/7 I don't see how it would be possible! Maybe she has a low self esteem. Do you compliment her? Maybe if you throw out more of them it will help. Some women are just like that. Sometimes a person will accuse another of doing something when actually THEY are the ones that are considering such. Tell her how much you love her and if she continues to accuse you then seek counseling.
2006-07-18 00:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by buzzbait0u812 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friends wife that did that too. She had very low esteem and even went to see a pyschologist and that did not help every time she suspected it she got in contact me with her suspicions after the third time it became very annoying and it didnt matter how many times i tried to reassure her she wouldnt believe me even with the facts. I got sick fed up of her and gave up. She didnt even see that her husband was totally besotted with her and totally in love with her. Eventually the accusations became more frequent and ended up with her even accussing him of being gay when spending more time with a friend who was so straight it became obvious and silly that they split up because of the accusations.
Every time I have heard of this to of your partner falsely accussing of an affair and including myself it becomes so tiring that eventually you end up going astray and doing the dirty it makes things so much easier. I recommend that you either go to marriage counselling the two of together and get relay your fears to the counseller about the acccusations.
There may also be another reason she is doing this and it may be the case that she has been doing the cheating and she only projecting her guilt on to you. So you may need to say this to her. Even threaten her with splitting up or a trial seperation if the accusations get worse.
Good luck.
2006-07-18 01:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Gar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your wifes history, but she certainly has issues. Has she been cheated on in the past? Did she have a less than happy childhood?
there is not much you can to other than talk to her about how you feel about her and reassure her that she is the one for you. Let her know how thinking like this cannot be good for her emotionally, and not good for your marriage if she keeps it up.
I hope you work it out. Good Luck
2006-07-18 00:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, speaking for experience, women just need to be reassured. Maybe she feels that by accusing you of seeing another woman, you'll defend yourself and assure her you'r not. And she may also believe that in your response she will be able to read if your lying or not. Just be sure to tell her often how much you love her and that she's the only one for you, because as silly as it sounds, sometimes you just need to be reminded. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-18 02:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that the lack of trust is hurtful.. Suggest counseling, tell her you feel the constant accusations are abusive. Look her in the eye tell her you love her very much and you'd never want to be with another woman.
2006-07-18 00:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Farrah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you are having an affair and if she does not start treating you better and satisfying you more often and in freaky ways that you are going to leave her for your new woman that knows how to satisfy you, she should get into shape real quick after this talk.
2006-07-18 00:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's extreeemmmely insecure, and it's just going to take a very long time for her to start to relax.
As annoying as it sounds, you're just going to have to choose to live with it for the unforseeable future.
2006-07-18 00:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you go and have an affair "just to prove her right" as wife's liked to be right,you can also blame her for forcing you into it thus making her feel bad and giulty and she'll think its her fault and she'll be the one making up with you.
2006-07-18 03:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by stephen a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably see-ing this sort of thing happening in the lives of people she know, and she has become suspicious.
2006-07-18 01:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by skeetejacquelinelightersnumber7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck!
2006-07-18 00:42:49 · answer #11 · answered by jingles_200 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋