2006-07-17 16:59:49 · 43 answers · asked by princess d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is a commintment between two people not one and if you are cheating you broke that commintment and then if you can't stop you need to leave him before you hurt him more he will find out. can never tell when but he will find out
2006-07-17 17:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Angelgrl 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hon, are you a masochist or something? Who else but a masochist would strap such a tasty target to her forehead as this question?
*sigh* No. Don't leave him. Tell him the truth, and let him leave you. It's the least you can do for him. If you're truly that far gone that you cannot control your sexual desires, you aren't ready for an adult relationship. It really doesn't matter "who started it"; what matters is that you made a decision to pull down your panties for another man and you didn't care enough that your husband would be hurt by it. Want to know why adultery is wrong? Because it means that you care more about your own selfish desires than the well-being of another person. Because it hurts people. The trouble is that you're more concerned with how it's going to affect you when you're found out.
I don't hate you. It's none of my business. I just feel badly for you. I urge you to seek help from a counsellor. Good luck.
2006-07-17 17:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should ask yourself is, Do I really love my husband?
Why am i cheating? Who do i really want to be with? Am I making a mistake? This is really not fair to your husband. You should stop cheating and figure out what you really want. If my wife was interesred in another man i would feel better if she would tell me before cheating.
2006-07-17 17:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by urivera81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is gonna bite you good in the *** for cheating, why did you marry that man in the first place? To fall OUT of love? Way to go on being a statistic
2006-07-17 17:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tabbitatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask your husband about this. If the situation was in reverse would you want to know if your husband was cheating on you? Your husband deserves to know the truth.
2006-07-17 17:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'd like to say that you're a ***** and I hate you.
Secondly, yes, leave him. Before he finds out. I just left my wife for cheating on me, and now she's acting like I'm the one in the wrong, and doing an awful lot to piss me off.
I hate women.
2006-07-17 17:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by nex_nox_noctus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah!!! wouldn't u want him 2 do the same for u?... u obviously don't love him enough...i say just do the both of u a favor, and let ur husband go. stop using him as a safety net, for when ur lovers lose interest for u to fall back on!!!!!
2006-07-17 17:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by the answers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a cop out....you can do whatever you want to do and in this case you want to cheat and lie. Do your husband a favor and leave him so he can find someone with morals.
2006-07-17 17:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it would break his heart if he found out that you are cheating on him. also your marrage would be some what empty since you're with someone else. but if you have a child together then i would try to stop cheating and keep the marrage it's kind of difficult to raise a child on your own.
2006-07-17 17:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with your husband, he desrves that. If you feel you can't stop cheating than you need to get out of the marriage.
2006-07-17 17:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋