Marriage & Divorce - 17 July 2006

the past six months of my life have been very tough. my wife basically told me its nothing i did or didnt do, but that she right know is unable to contribute anything to our union. our 7 year old daughter was on holiday for the summer and comes home today. i lived with my brother for the past 5 weeks and was very emotional which probably didnt help my situation. she is right, there is NOTHING there. we went on vacation last week for our 10 year annivarsary and basically did our own thing. she wouldnt even kiss me during the most amazing sunset ever. i brokedown weeping uncontrollaby several times and she insist she still loves me and just isnt sure what she wants. i am growing impatient and do not want to go into debt getting a second place for an extended period of time. ive tried everything i can do to snap her out of this rut and am about ready to give up. she doesnt even want to do councling and wont even tell her family. what should i do??!!

2006-07-17 07:18:57 · 36 answers · asked by vader1779 1

What do you do when your partner claims to be attracted to you but can no longer make love to you? They are healthy, not using drugs, not cheating, and not overworked...

2006-07-17 07:12:32 · 10 answers · asked by pandora the cat 5

Me an my ex are doing our divorce ourselves an have the papers all done, we have filed the divorce petition and the waiver, and gave a court date but what about all the other papers, the marriage settlement, child custody papers, child support papers, the papers that show our legal residence, and of course the decree itself. In what order do file all these. I asked the court house an they can't give out advice, so I'm turning to you....please help!!! Thanx

2006-07-17 07:11:44 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa 1

She cheated and got pregnant by another man and left him. They seemingly had the perfect marriage for 15 years. Now after years of being apart, she is calling him just to chat or when she "finds" things that belonged to him. What do I do? They had no children together and we are trying to conceive. I have never been jealous before, but now I am experiencing alot of sad jealousy. We are perfect together and love each other, but he has been hurt and is overly cautious. He doesn't defend her and he doesn't speak kindly to her, he did tell her once to stop calling because he didn't want it to hurt our relationship, but she chooses to continue to do so. He hasn't reminded her not to call again, so should I tell her not to? She and I went to school together and I have always liked her. She is always cordial to me when I see her in public, but her family treats me like "the other woman", even though whe left him and he and I didn't get together well after their divorce.

2006-07-17 07:06:05 · 6 answers · asked by Junior's Gal 3

2006-07-17 07:02:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a follow up. My wife is the woman who is turning 30 and asked if I would get her a black stripper for her birthday. She said that it was a fantasy that she would only ask for once. I trust her because we have a faithful and very honest relationship, which is why she admitted that she was curious about black dick. I'm not jeolous or racist (I sure enjoy seeing Halle Berry!), so I'm actually proud of her honesty. It doesn't turn me on, but seeing her excited does. What do you think about me proposing a compromise? What if I bought her a large realistic-feeling black dildo? That way she could see what it feels like, but it would just be the two of us. I want to think this through before I talk with her. Ladies, I guess, what I'm asking is: would you rather have a live stripper where you can see his goods (but only touch)--or, a realistic dildo where you can experience what its like to feel and see something different inside of you? Serious replies only.

2006-07-17 06:59:46 · 11 answers · asked by yofreshbreeze 1

2006-07-17 06:59:20 · 12 answers · asked by Clive B 1

Can anyone shed some REAL light on why men like to shift blame from what they've said or done wrong and either do one or more of the following:
a. focus on something YOU'VE done (the ol' eye for an eye syndrome);
b. focus on some part of what you're saying to about them as if what you're saying (or the way you're saying it) is actually the issue at hand instead;
c. get angry and refuse to discuss the topic at all.

I mean, is it a genetic thing, or what?

Thanks y'all. I can't wait to see the responses I get to this one. I need a good one 'cause murder is still illegal, isn't it?

2006-07-17 06:58:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Isn't it the paper anniversary? What is a good present for this?

2006-07-17 06:58:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

newberry, VT

2006-07-17 06:55:04 · 1 answers · asked by Allie 1

2006-07-17 06:54:48 · 23 answers · asked by Clive B 1

My ex has been sending me emails and faxs for over a year now just to irritate me.

2006-07-17 06:54:39 · 17 answers · asked by idle_lurker 1

What do you love about that person? How is that person unusual from everybody else in the world?

2006-07-17 06:52:47 · 21 answers · asked by obsession0524 2

...invite another female into our bed? She tells me that she finds it exciting to think about the possibilities. I admit, I find it exciting to think about as well. I am sure we would have a good time, but unsure how she will act the morning after. Would you feel...guilty?...dirty?...ashamed? Or, could you look at it in the context of a learning sexual experience shared with the one you love?

2006-07-17 06:50:26 · 11 answers · asked by badbilly 5

2006-07-17 06:49:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-17 06:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It puzzles me why women are the ones who work a full time job, plus bear the brunt of the household chores and child rearing and preparing meals? I mean, I understand if the lady is a stay at home mom/housewife, but a woman who works 40 hours a week+? Why arn't the childrearing and the household chores shared equally? If man wants a woman to go out and work as much as him, why does the woman have to still do all of the work at home? Does anyone do this, and if you do, why?

2006-07-17 06:41:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-17 06:40:38 · 14 answers · asked by alex m 1

I got married a little over a year ago and I am not sure if I made the right decision. Before the wedding I had doubts but never said anything because I thought it was just cold feet. My husband and I argue and he seems to focus all of his attention on other things. At first I tried to work things out but now I have started spending more time with my friends. I think about getting a divorce but I do not want to disappoint our families. What should I do?

2006-07-17 06:34:50 · 13 answers · asked by becjohn09 1

2006-07-17 06:27:23 · 11 answers · asked by sexy c 1

I ask questions of random topics often. Politics, religion, cultures, polls etc. Every once in a while, I ask opinions regarding personal situations. Easier to get strangers opinions sometimes. A few have been about my marriage and the issues I face with my husband. I just found out that he has been looking my questions up to see what I'm asking and who's answering. We went through this about six weeks ago, and I requested privacy and that he understand that sometimes, knowing someone else out there understands and/or has been through the same thing, is theraputic. He agreed not to invade again. Well, that changed today. I am considering a separation, so I guess that means all bets are off, and he needed to dig. Why doesn't he realize that this behavior just confirms my feelings that the relationship has failed?

2006-07-17 06:26:00 · 12 answers · asked by carolinagrl 4

How do you break up with a live in boyfriend, who has a very short temper, who you think will hit you, destroy your house and car and just totally terrorize you? I got into a bad one....but he's never hit me, but the look in his eyes says he will. I also have a two year old baby to worry about. Any advice?

2006-07-17 06:17:50 · 16 answers · asked by 123456 1

2006-07-17 06:16:12 · 7 answers · asked by Smegma Stigma 4

I've been married for some time now but latley I've been wanted to hook up with a woman I work with. We flirt with each other alot and she mentioned getting together sometime. I know its wrong to cheat on my wife but I really want this other woman. Should I go for it?

2006-07-17 06:14:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does a Hindu husband have powers to unilaterally decide what is right and wrong and educate, correct and punish the family members?
When he considers that the crime committed in the matters of heart is extremely bad, can he go the extent of punishing by death?

2006-07-17 06:07:36 · 11 answers · asked by stvenryn 4

Marriage is the foundation of a stable family, which is the foundation of a good life and society. Marriage also brings economic benefits as the partners to a marriage must legally provide for one another and their children. Obviously, a lot of people don't bother to get married anymore. Why?

2006-07-17 06:05:53 · 23 answers · asked by The Man 4

I am going through a divorce and our mortgage is both of our names. How i do i get my name off the mortgage. I would like for him to buy me out of it. Is that possible???

2006-07-17 06:02:29 · 12 answers · asked by JUST_ME 3

I have been married to almost two years now and have become very depressed over the fact that I don't want sex with my wife anymore, but I want sex from others that are more attracitve than her. I love her, but I am not in love with her. I am considering leaving her, but not sure. Any thoughts?

2006-07-17 06:01:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean if you are still at your prime age -20s- and working hard to be well established in your career, will going into marriage ruin your effort to achaive your ambitions as you will consume part of your effort to support the future family.. specially when the wife is not from the same field of career..

2006-07-17 06:01:06 · 2 answers · asked by helix 3

2006-07-17 05:41:06 · 4 answers · asked by staci 1