Husband has anxiety when it comes to sex, we've been married 3 years and he has never lasted longer than 5 minutes, most of the time less than 1 minute. He usually pleases me through oral, but for the most part he is awkward in bed.....I do the lingerie, oils, dirty talk, etc, even bought him books, but nothing is changing. He says sex is not that important to him and that he doesn't really care about it that much. I've gotten very frustrated and angry through the years and told him I didn't want to be tempted to leave because he didn't care about pleasing me sexually.....also, I had a girl on girl experience before I met him, I told him about it, and he gets excited about that and loves to bring it up in the bedroom. It's not the same for me, so I ask him not to dwell on it. When he doesn't talk about it he's a different lover - awkward. He doesn't watch porn, and we have no internet at home, he isn't cheating I know for a fact. It's been 4 weeks since the last time we had sex. Help!
2006-07-17
11:30:31
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