My ex moved in with his girlfriend last September he was giving me money every other week. now he wont give me any more money until i sign separation papers or we get divorced. Is this legal? Do I have any recours?
2006-07-17 10:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have 3 kids
2006-07-17 10:18:32 · update #1
was that agreement before or after with him only or was it with lawyer?? if with him no lawyer.. I think yoiu should get your own lawyer and then explain that you and your ex have a agreement when he walk out. and then they lawyer will make sure he will pay more than what he normally pay you. It not fair that he moving in with his girlfriend and use disagreement with you and telling you what you need to make choice. if you sign and what if he didn't pay still..??? better get a lawyer who can know what best for you and will make him pay more that what he pay.
Do not sign anythinguntil you see your own lawyer.
2006-07-17 10:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called "black-mail"...and it's more than a little illegal. Tell him either he comes up off the cash and take care of his kids that he left so he could go party all the time with girlfriend, or you'll take this matter to your lawyer and his girlfriend can go visit him on "visiting days" at the jail.
2006-07-17 17:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt even have to give you money, he is done and over with you, he is giving you money for the heck of it , to be nice. he can do that,why dont you just sign the papers?i mean what are you holding on too?the money???because it is not him? why dont you make your own money and if you have kids with him, get him for child support. he is already living with another woman, so why would you want ot hold on and try to stay with him because of money. sign those papers and give it up and move on.
2006-07-17 17:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Go to your county or state Child Welfare and file for support for your children. Him not contributing to their needs financially makes him a dead-beat-dad. Your marital situation is not an issue in that. They can easily attach his wages.
You only get to do this once, then the amount is set...he can't be tried for a larger downt he line...so
it is WISE to get a lawyer, to help you get a larger amount from the get go; BECAUSE when the children get to be teens, their expenses will be phenominal.
Not good luck,
Good Deal...get a lawyer.
stw
;)
2006-07-17 17:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop being so greedy... just do it.. sign the papers, take everything to court.. and he will be forced to pay child support. but for you personally, you can probably get alimony or something, but nothing for you just being hurt,,, or something like that... ad why are you taking so long to sign the papers anyway?
2006-07-17 17:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by TeTe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey go get yourself a lawyer and start the divorce. Take him for alimony as well as child support. Fix his tail. Go for it all. He wants to play games with you now is your turn to play the games. Good luck.
2006-07-17 17:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still has to support his kids. Contact your local Social Services office.
2006-07-17 17:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by kalsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is he is not providing for his children and you can take him to court for child support and then if he still refuses you can charge him with abandonment and take full and permanent custody of the kids and he will only be allowed to see them on your terms
2006-07-17 18:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sign the papers...dont be a b*tch. i seem to think you want him back if you wont sign the papers.
2006-07-17 17:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer, get a job, if it is court ordered then file contempt.
2006-07-17 17:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by big T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋