How can I find out if my husband has another e-mail account that I don't know about? (without it costing anything) I love my husband, but he accuses me of cheating a lot and I am very faithful to him. They say, "The one who's accusing is the one who's doing". I need to know if he has another e-mail address. Can someone help me please?
2006-07-17 11:34:34 · 14 answers · asked by Karma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a long one:
find out most likely email hosts. search possible names/SN's for your husband on those sites. if nothing you could check the history of your computer or his computer and see all sites visited. any email sites like yahoo, find out what were the id's or somethign. or you could hire a Private INvestigator but that might cost $$... try the local mob boss he might be able to lend you someone for "tailing" only, tell him you just want the guy to find out if your husbands doing anythign suspicious. tell them Prescott in Brooklyn sends his regards. Any questions send them to Maggio. Hope it helps, if he's cheating, nail him.
2006-07-17 11:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I was involved in a relationship where I was constantly accused too.
Your statement "The one who's accusing is the one who's doing" is more right on than you think.
When I finally found out she was a cheat and liar months and months had passed. I was truly miserable and physically sick and dying.
If he ever reacts with anger when you bring it up that is another sure sign he is a cheat.
Moral of the story -- You do not need absolute proof to know truth. Trust your gut because it is right 99% of the time.
2006-07-17 11:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A slippery slope. Putting all religious and moral considerations such as "honor thy husband" aside...
If you must know, record his activity. There are a million programs that do this, and here is one:
http://www.topshareware.com/Golden-Eye-download-422.htm
Put it on the computer he uses. You can look at what he looked at as well as get his passwords to boot. Great stuff for divorce proceedings.
(Please don't freak out when you find his p0rn stash, it is extremely common and doesn't lessen his relationship to you - unless of course there's children or donkeys involved. In fact you might try some of whatever you find - it might help your relationship.)
Caveat Emptor:
1) Never ask a question you don't want the answer to
2) If you do this, it means you've got more problems in the relationship than just a (potentially) misbehaving husband
3) If you're wrong and he finds out...
Yech, I feel so dirty.
2006-07-17 11:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by whalehunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going into the history section of your computer. (If he is deleting that, than you should be worried too).
Another thing is to try and think like him. You know, sit at his desk and think of what names he would come up with. Does he have any knick names that he used to have and doesn’t use anymore? Men aren’t very creative with that kind of stuff and will usually stick with the same thing over and over again.
You can also go to whitepages.com and do a reverse look up (free) and type in his address to see what e-mail address’ he’s using under that.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 11:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail address, i do not know, although what they say... the one who is accusing is the one doing, is B.S., it is insecurity. Can you talk to him about why he accuses you? i would start with that and go from there, if you are that afraid that he is cheating, then leave for a while, go stay with family and friends, and have one of his friends keeps track of him for you.
2006-07-17 11:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at your history and see if there's a clue of any odd websites he's been to. Although if he's cheating, an email account is the least of your worries. Good luck.
2006-07-17 12:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity killed the cat. Next time he accuses you of cheating, ask him what you are doing that gives him that impression. Sometimes it's insecurity talking, it doesn't mean he is cheating on you! :-)
2006-07-17 11:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by wondering in michigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if hes cheating what thrill would he get on the internet check his phone watch his behavior in not just what he say what he do. do he go out ,do he come home same hours do he work over check pay stubb is the romance still the same do he get up strane hours and leave do he go to work early than he use to .come on do your home work
2006-07-17 11:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is trust your husband suspicion brings problems better not look for the email
2006-07-17 11:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by chinwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can go into control panels and then users will tell names there if not go into cookies see what sites are being viewed on yahooo can go into history and do same thing, if you find a site you dont recognise do the same thing he did create a name and lay it on him build yourself up so he will have to email you then you will know
2006-07-17 12:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by wendy120257 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋