...invite another female into our bed? She tells me that she finds it exciting to think about the possibilities. I admit, I find it exciting to think about as well. I am sure we would have a good time, but unsure how she will act the morning after. Would you feel...guilty?...dirty?...ashamed? Or, could you look at it in the context of a learning sexual experience shared with the one you love?
2006-07-17 06:50:26 · 11 answers · asked by badbilly 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask yourself 1 thing. Is it worth loosing everything for the chance at this? Answer yourself honestly then go from there. I am sure you will make the correct decision.
2006-07-17 06:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Andy S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well I wouldn't invite another female into the bedroom without making sure that she was totally up for it, and that the two of you have discussed openly and honestly your feelings, and concern. Personally, I would do it and see it as a sexual experience but I am in a relationship where communication is key and both of us have no holds bard on what is said and done. When we do things like what you are planning to do, we just don't jump into it head first to make sure both of us are completely comfortable in our mutual decision. Also it helps just to see it as experiemental that way it eliminates the jealousy factor, or any other emotions that come with it.
2006-07-17 14:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will regret it the next morning (especially god forbid, she was raised Catholic) It will jeopardize the specialness of your marriage vows, you lose respect for eachother(because it's then likely to happen again) eventually desroy your marriage :_( Been there, did that. Don't do it find some other kinky stuff to spark up the sex life. Don't cheapen your marriage this way.
2006-07-17 14:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by T S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do this, unless you want to destroy your marriage. I am not saying it will, but it very well could.
Yes, it may sound exciting, but it's wrong. You are commited to each other, or so you should be.
I would feel guilty AND dirty the next morning.
2006-07-17 13:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband have discussed it at length and I still feel that I would feel taken advantage of the next morning and lose a little bit of my respect for him. But you never really know until you have tried it.
2006-07-17 13:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? But be prepared to kiss your marriage good-bye..............this question comes up often around here, and there is good reason almost everyone, almost always advises against it.
2006-07-17 14:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To think about it is much better then the act its self. what if something goes further then you want it to? throw a blow up doll in to the mix :P.
2006-07-17 14:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by steelangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go watch the last episode of Entourage for advice. bringing another person in complicates things...
2006-07-17 13:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by theverygrouchyladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was me i wouldn't do it. in these days and time you never know what you are going to get. i am a firm believer in loving the one your with.
2006-07-17 13:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by rosehughey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it, but I will tell you that when I saw my man having sex with my friend, I was PISSED OFF!!!!
2006-07-17 13:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋