I am married with kids. The sex is gone. My wife has no interest in me at all. What do I do? I am lonely and temptation is there......
2006-07-17 17:30:26 · 16 answers · asked by Rob M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try to talk to your wife. If it doesn't work then both of you should seek counselling. There must be a problem and you both should resolve it.
Besides, I don't think its normal for a married couple not to have sex for that long.
2006-07-17 17:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Zail-Em 2 · 9⤊ 4⤋
The sex isn't gone it just took a vacation. You need to have a talk with your wife and find out why she's not interested in you. Men don't realize sex isn't something that just happens in the bed. It starts by talking to her,,,,helping with the kids,,,,listening to her,,,,making her feel special. Talk to each other before you're living by yourself in a tiny apartment with no money (child support). Most women don't want a man with baggage...you think you're lonely now, just wait. Work on making what you have better.
2006-07-18 00:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby (of 9 years) says either get a divorce or get a better hand lotion! Really though, have you tried asking her why (in a nice tone) Maybe try marriage counseling? If that does not work, as much as I hate the idea of divorce, you cannot live like this for another 2 years!! Whatever you do don't cheat on her though because she can use it against you in a custody case to take your visitation away!!!
2006-07-18 00:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys really need a counselor. Don't give in to the temptation, PLEASE. Your wife needs some help, but it could be you do as well. It is rarely all one sided. Anyway, don't give up until you've done everything you can do...for the kids' sake, k? An affair wouldn't only destroy your wife, but wipe out your self worth and destroy your kids.
2006-07-18 00:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by LastNerveLost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your wife about it. She might be having the same problem as you are... Dont listen to people who tells you to divorce your wife and find another. Don't decide on things you will regret later. Focus on your children's welfare as well. if you divorce your wife, your kids will suffer with your decision.
2006-07-18 00:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by Charmaine * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your wife, tell her to change or get out of the relationship. Do you think she loves you? Do you still love her? Find what's wrong and fast.
2006-07-18 00:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by oblivionpr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a mistress. Go to sex counselling. Get a divorce
2006-07-18 00:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Erik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. If you can't resolve the problem (consider counseling too) and you can't live without it, you may have to leave. But make sure you have no other options before you do that to your kids...
2006-07-18 00:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Lucybelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her, and start looking for Ms. Right, she's out there, somewhere waiting to be found. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-18 00:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats too long... i mean if everything is essentially the same w/ u 2 and if u are still in good shape and everything but she doesnt want it, then either she has to change or u need to leave
2006-07-18 02:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by duff007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres high possibility that shes is having with some one else,
find it out yourself, is that she does not like you, or does not like sex with you? if its the first one get out of the relationship soon, if its the second one, try counselling.
2006-07-18 00:40:53 · answer #11 · answered by who is this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋