My husband has admitted to "cheating on me" ( you touch mine I'll touch yours moments with a dozen women, and masturbating naked with other women) He also chats and sends naked shots of himself to other women on the web. He even video taped a few sessions with his friends over the last year(I found the dvd's he made). We have a baby a little over a year ago. It's been going on about 3 years now. I get so mad at him and I want to leave, I even told him I hated him a few times. He hasnt't had a job in 2 1/2 years, and he buys stuff all the time. I love him sometimes but mostly I deal with him because of our son. my husband says we are replaceable all the time and he hardly helps me with our son. He's only changed about 5 diapers so far. He says he never wanted him and he wished we never had him all the time(sometimes he says he doesn't mean it). I guess the only thing we have is our son. We enjoy a movie once and a while, and we hardly talk, our son notices everything it makes me sad
2006-07-17 19:31:01 · 15 answers · asked by justme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh my god that poor kid.Think of it like this do you want your son to grow up and be like that loser?Girl get out know why you still can.It sounds like your punishing the kid if you stay with him,right?I dont know it sounds like hes a loser and you can do better!!!!!!YOU honestly dont need him!!!!Life is to short to be unhappy!!!!!!!1Live life for you and your son,,good luck
2006-07-17 20:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by heather 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok, he's been this way for 3 years and u had your son a year ago? ummm what did u think that having a baby was going to change him from being a pathetic excuse for a husband? Geeze i cant believe u'd bring a child into an already crappy marriage.. but none the less.. Why are u staying? he doesnt have a job, he's not a good husband nor a good man, he isnt a good father.. so why are u not walking out???????? why are u putting urself and your son in this type of environment, surely u cant love this kind of a man????
Im not for divorce but your husband is simply pathetic.. and your even more pathetic if u stay ..
2006-07-18 02:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt' stay married because of your son... especially since your husband doesnt even want him. You have to get your son out of this situation of have him feel unwanted by his father for the rest of his life.
Take him away and provide a loving and caring home for your child.
As for a man who thinks you are replacable, replace him!
All the best to you and may god bless you.
2006-07-18 02:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married to a real LOSER !
He says he wishes he didn’t have a son ?
He says that you are replaceable ?
What are you waiting for ?
Leave the loser NOW !
Your son can already read his dad, he is already suffering from the actions of his dad, and you will let your son be harm for the rest of his life because because you let your son be exposed to his dad.
Get someone who will love you and your and support you.
2006-07-18 02:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want your son to have such a father ?Well I don't.You don't look like you are living in happiness.Get this straight this man does not love you all he does is to be with other women.I rather say that you leave him,stand on your feet and bring up your child.Its for your son mentally and physically.
2006-07-18 02:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is for real???? He should be voted A**hole of the Year!
Hellloooo...you need a divorce asap!!!!! You are getting nothing out of being treated like a doormat and it's horrible for your child to have your husband provide that type of example of how to treat a woman.
You have no idea how good life can be. After your divorce you will understand!
2006-07-18 02:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the same boat as you, its called security, you like his company, but when hes gone you want him back. ur not sure if you can make it without him. I would get rid of him, for even saying he never wanted the child, he has no respect. you dont need to be deserved like that. its just wrong. looks like hes just using you, since you work, and he does, the problem is that you are letting him get away with a lot of things. hes taking advantage of it.
2006-07-18 02:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz dont give him the benefit of seeing you in pain. if hes not paying you some respect by doing such things and saying nasty words, then he doesnt care & love you at love. enjoy your life with your son less him. we only live ones so why make it miserable with such jerk. pack all yours & your son's things and leave him. you dont need a crap. maybe in GOD gracious time he'll send you somebody who would love & respect you an your baby. God Bless!
2006-07-18 02:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lying sack of shlt. This story in untrue. Quit trying to get sympathy. I have seen your other questions and you previously stated you were happily married with NO kids. Get a life and grow up!!
2006-07-18 02:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think sticking with him even though he had done so many bad things to you can be consider tolerable. but saying that to your own son is unacceptable. no father can do that to your only son.
and he said that you're replaceable and do you think he can't?
give your self a favor and leave him.
2006-07-18 02:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on girl.. you are much more valuable to deserve all that.. you have to be able to respect yourself by knowing that you don't deserve that.. because who would respect you if you don't respect yourself ?? so, get the hell out of there.. save yourself and your son... and ask God for protection... He will give you what you need in the future... good luck sister..
2006-07-18 02:59:39 · answer #11 · answered by Lina G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋