2006-07-17 09:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by smokey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to figure out what the arguments are really about. Clearly if you're arguing because the broccoli was overcooked or the oil change is overdue, then it's really about something else.
I think that seeing a marriage counselor is right for you. He/she can help you work through what you are really fighting about.
2006-07-17 09:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do...PICK YOUR BATTLES! Some things are just stupid, petty, meaningless and not worth damaging your relationship over. Others are more important and can be relationship defining. Learn to recognize each topic for what it is and deal with it appropriately. If it is not important, let it go. do not sweat the small stuff. Above all, learn to communicate without the arguing. Pick and choose times that are better for dealing with issues. Heat of the moment...NOT A GOOD TIME. When you are getting along and having relationship conversation anyway, attempt to address the issue in a way that is conversational and general rather than using "YOU" statements. Indirect statements work better than accusations or finger pointing.
2006-07-17 09:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both are nit picking at little dumb things, then try spending some time apart.....it doesn't mean separation, but hang out with your friends and let your mate do the same, you'll miss eachother too much to be worried about the small things.
2006-07-17 09:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Chicabonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess its love showing in ur arguing not real fighting its u love each other u argue thats how some people like me & my man fell in love started with arguing ended with love
2006-07-17 10:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by ladyspretty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when I tell you....one of you are holding hurt feeings inside somewhere. It could be about anything!!!... Sit down and get to the bottom of it. And make sure that "Honesty" is all that's between you at the time. God Bless!
2006-07-17 10:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spending a little time apart.
2006-07-17 09:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Disney Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
told him he was being and argumentative *****, left the room and stayed away from him until he came to me with a better attitude.
2006-07-19 09:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by bonny b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, We get physical and beat the sh*t out of each other.
2006-07-17 09:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get counseling before it gets worse
2006-07-17 09:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by kishaD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋