my Husband has a gf or two and I am suppose to just look the other way . But it pisses me off when she calls the house
2006-07-17 08:46:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are you putting up with this?
Do you want a STD like herpes, gonorrhea or even AIDS?
2006-07-17 08:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay you have lost who you are! If you want your marriage speak up, ask him why did this happen and why? Is there a long history betweenthe two of you? Is it worth the agony and pain? Hell, NO! If you are allowing this to continue why would he care to stop? When did you stop loving youself? You deserve better so you need to go out and get it!!
Or give him an ultimatum,and stand by that decision. Do not be moved by any means. Stand strong. Start by changing the locks, the number, and find you a good *** lawyer and sue for child support if there are kids, and spousal support. BY no means are you a doormat,you are a very bright intelligent woamn who deserves love and respect and if he can not give that to you then count your blessings cry those tears dry your eyes and heal. This will take time, but you can do it. You just have to believe.
I am experiencing somewhat of the same dilema myself that is why I can speak from first hand experience. We are not the first to be cheated on and we will not be the laast. So say your prayers and I will say one for you and do not be moved!!! Just because he does not love you GOD does and learn to love yourself life is too short so go live it and enjoy make the most of what you have now, call some friends, make time for family so you can dwell on something else besides the situation at home.
God Bless You and keep you.
2006-07-17 13:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your husband and he has girlfriends? i think he thinks its okay because you are allowing him to. leave him he has obvisiuosly not thought about you. he definitely isnt thinking about how you feel as his wife. he doesnt love you at all. what's the piont of getting married if he isnt going to take the vows seriously? he dont care about the whole idea of having a person to trust and confide in. he's still looking and he is not going to give up on trying all the flavors of baskin robbin( that slut). you either give him a choice for good. is it going to be me and only me or them and no me? if he chooses them, then im truelly sorry, he was never worth it and hell never understand the concept of a healthy relationship and marriage. i hope you do find someone who will love you for who you are and will love you for forever!
2006-07-17 09:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by ???? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you let him have those girlfriends. Dump him. Be a strong women and dump that losers A$$. God, When I read this things and it seems the women are weak I get all mad. Why can't you stand up and be strong. I'm a woman And hell, If that was my husband I would have kicked his A$$ out.
2006-07-17 09:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an abuser---both psychologically and probably physically as well--its one more way to keep u under his control! Its really its insecurities that makes him cheat rather than nuture and develop his relatinship with his wife
2006-07-17 09:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't HAVE to it's not in the how to be a man handbook.
SO you get a boy friend and have an open relationship
2006-07-17 08:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey u better get out now if u can.My husband cheated on me twice & finally I had enough.Our divorce should be finalized any day now.
2006-07-17 15:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's disgusting. Grow a pair and leave him. Or tell him if you want an open marriage, I'm going to find someone to have fun with.
2006-07-17 09:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let this happen and your complaining about it??!! you need to think about what you just asked, you know your husband has g/fs and it pisses you off that they call your house ??!! damn are you stupid.
2006-07-17 09:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want their cake and be able to eat it also. Or in this case, their mistress(s).
2006-07-17 08:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋