Family - December 2007

stop asking the other son to go between the parents.

2007-12-07 02:13:13 · 17 answers · asked by turnerfaircloth 1

Hello

Im from Bolivia and i met a guy from australia 5 months ago, he came to live with me and my family during 2 months, during that time he didnt pay a penny for anything, was giving everything to him (food, electricity, a car, everything!). After those 2 months he leave, and i found out i was pregnant, he promise me marriage, that we will sort it out either me going to australia or he moving in my country. With the time was more and more difficult find him to talk about the situation and now im 4 months pregnant and desperate about what to do. Im planning to to australia, and give birth there, because everything is a mess in my country, I do think will be the best for the baby. My questions are.. If i can give birth there without having troubles because im planning to go with a tourist visa. And if i get some support from any institution in legal advice to get to my baby the last name of the father, and get with it Child support, because i will be single mother. please help

2007-12-07 02:04:24 · 3 answers · asked by Sortilegio 2

never comes over here to visit. They are the same age and go to school together, but they always go to her house. When she comes here to pick him up, she asks if he is here, quickly walks by me without saying hello and goes to his room, get him and leaves without saying goodbye. Now he has had girlfriends in the past and it was a mix of them coming here and him going to their house and the other girlfriends were always very nice with me and respectful and communicated with me. I'm not saying she does this out of disrespect, maybe just shyness, but they have been together going on 3 months now. I told my son since he is making it last with this girl that they need to plan on spending at least one day out of the week visiting over here and not every day over there. Her mom is a stay at home mom so I know they aren't just left alone there, but for whatever reason this girl just doesn't want to come here. I ended up yelling at my son this morning because it is upsetting me that

2007-12-07 02:03:42 · 21 answers · asked by Corona 5

He doesn't work, he drives her car why she's in college. He has nothing lives with his parents at 21. Has no diploma, my daughter is being conned. Her Dad is a Vet. so school is her chance to make something of herself. But this idiot, has control of my once level headed girl. She cannot be this stupid can she? Her whole life is giving to this idiot. He will be 21 soon, and hopefully he can find someone with lots of money to take her place. Anyone have words of wisdom I can say to her? Or a good threat to get rid of him? Any advice will be considered.

2007-12-07 01:58:09 · 30 answers · asked by itsmetrea 6

bit of an emergency!

2007-12-07 01:56:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a 23 yr old who works his a off, pays off his student loans hasn't finished college, job is threatening him, has little to no friends, and feels he will never be able to go back to collge and he will be working a dead end job.he cries like every month for about a couple days straight. he's depressed at his present situation and now that he's comming back home he looks at the walls and go to work. I really want to help him. I want tot tell him he is a very young boy and he can do anything he wants but its hard because he does not believe me since i'm his mom. I keep telling him there are 30 yr old and ABOVE who don't have his life together yet. I really am concerned. his car broke down not too long ago and when that happened he had to move in with me . we can't really LENd him any money and even if we could he wouldn't take it. he seems angry. mostly at himself. he's turning 24 soon i want to show him the way but honestly i don't know what else i can do. any help for a mom?

2007-12-07 00:47:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I do? :( she's so obnoxious and even my dad is getting depressed.

2007-12-07 00:01:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stepson is 22 years old and he is using "cat" and heroin & he is influencing my own youngest son of 17 years old. We tried to put the eldest into rehab but he won't go at all!!

2007-12-06 23:56:23 · 9 answers · asked by Jane 2

2007-12-06 23:27:29 · 17 answers · asked by amfe1983 2

My mum and dad broke up when i was only 6 sence then he has remarried anyway i don't know why but his new wife does not like me at all and she won't even talk to me. The last time i went to see dad at his place i heard his wife talking about me behind my back and she told dad i only come over for money and i don't care about him and thats is not true.
I still love dad but i don't wanna go over a listen to lies about me.
I also asked dad to come over my house sometime and he told me his wife said his not allowed to come and see me at my place.

What should i do

2007-12-06 23:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by cripplercar 3

46 he used to make clicking noises with his tongue and walk around with a hunched back.He'd walk around saying to everybody "How's it going, how's it going,hey".But when he turned 50 that's when the trouble started as he had himself a midlife crisis and he and my dad would always be fighting but I mean actual physical fights.How do I deal with the fact that all this happened?

2007-12-06 21:17:05 · 7 answers · asked by Brad Jordan 1

2007-12-06 20:54:35 · 20 answers · asked by sana 1

I am engaged to a girl that her father loves her very very much and he don’t like the idea of her loving me and want to marry me, he hug her kiss her even he kiss her from her lips, My question here is it normal that a father kiss his daughter from her lips or this is gay?? I’m concerned about this…..please advice!

2007-12-06 20:23:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats the best way to deal with drama queen behaviour? in both adults and children?

2007-12-06 20:07:19 · 14 answers · asked by Jess007 1

el salvadorian. Me and her father are still together and Im happy with him. But I think that his family is kinda racist because they never want to do anything with my family. They did not want to participate with my family for my baby shower and they threw me another one for them and didnt invite no one from my family. and my boyfriend has told me that when my daughter gets older that they wont come to any of her parties that I give her that my family will be at and they will always throw their own parties for her. And I think this is very wrong because his family has never met my family to not want anything to do with them i dont want them to like be apart of my family but I think when it comes down to their grandaughter they should be able to celebrate and support her with the other side of her family. Am I right for feeling like this or am I taking this too seriously.

2007-12-06 19:29:07 · 6 answers · asked by Cheri 1

Parents (24 and 25) are not married and the child (2) has the father's last name. They live in California. Who has legal custody? One of them is under psychological evaluation and unstable. The best interest of the child is also an issue here. Thanks for your support, A worried Grand-Mother

2007-12-06 19:24:12 · 3 answers · asked by Langoustine 2

Well, I know as far as my sisters goes, I'm always the one who is doing the giving because it makes me happy to think of the happiness they will feel after have receiving the gift(s).

I guess over the yrs. I feel rejection [even tho we live far away but no problems between us] they haven't sent me anything in yrs. not even --well one sister doesn't send thank you notes too much.
hmmm\but then the next yr. keep sending gifts anyway
it makes me feel good to give

2007-12-06 18:51:47 · 4 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4

I was recently married in august and the day after the wedding when we were leaving for our honey moon my husband's mom told him that she was very disappointed that he was going on our honeymoon than a family trip with her becuase there will be other times for me. now she says things like "oh honey i forget your married" or she will invite him places and make it a point not to ever include me. she tells him that he has lost a lot of weight and invites him over for meals because "someone needs to feed him" she asks us to please not have children and i have heard her tell my brother-in-law that i took her baby. I don't know what to do, how should i handle this? will it go away on its own?

2007-12-06 18:34:05 · 14 answers · asked by Shelby L 6

ok my sister was in the bathroom one day and i really had to pee i knew she wasnt going to the bathroom so i bardged right in adn she was standing with her leg on the sink shaving her butt!!!!t freaked me out and now i feel really weird around her should i confront her er forget about it or wat????

2007-12-06 18:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will be the first to admit that I am no good at relationships. I ben with so many men all I can do is wonder where I went wrong. I think what it is, is my older brother is sooo nice, that when I meat other men I have expectations that they will be good to me. So I have had so many problems with my boyfriend "BONES" that I am thinking to bake up this time. We ben together for about 4 months. I LOVE HIM. But he is NOT good for me and my doughter. We need a real man to take care of us. Not to drag me down with him. I need a good way to get him to move out of my place, and to do a final brake up. My friends say that he will not go on without me and that he loves me. so this is hard. He ben stressin me out all kinds to that I cant even imagine to share. We Wont Go There. so:Whats worked for you in the past???? How to get over this??????

2007-12-06 18:17:49 · 11 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

Your own personal project? To introduce them to a new way of life. If only for a day!

2007-12-06 18:13:10 · 6 answers · asked by suzyqu81 1

last thanks giving she was grinding her teeth in my uncles face cause he expressed a different religious opinion. called me a communist, and said i should have to live in a third world country, just cause i had an opinion on the war and our military. i have to walk on egg shells while she controls the whole atmosphere. she tells my one year old that her mother(me) is crazy and she should live with her. it seems small, but i am dreading this x-mas dinner. my sister is afraid that by me not going, i am breaking up the family, and hurting my grandmother, as well as putting her in a weird spot. i seriously can't stand her, and talking doesn't do it, you talk, she gets in your face all intimidating like. i'd appriciate any suggestions.

2007-12-06 18:10:19 · 10 answers · asked by shes_a_rriot 3

He gave me life in this world but I have " crooked teeth, an underbite, petite, ugly ( as by many ppl so I always get teased in school ), and a broken family . Is god always like this ?! Why me, as if making me ugly is not enough, I am so far away from my family and I see them once in 2 years and I have no bestie or whatsoever . My mum's having an affair an I suspect my dad is too

2007-12-06 17:53:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I get home, my fiance and his daughter are yelling at each other, which i can't stand. So i get involved in their fighting to calm them down. Should I stay out of it or get in middle. My fiance's daughter is 12 and she tells me to shut up and mind my own business, Do I listen to her or do i get in middle? I have known both of them for five years, and her mom sees her two times a week and every other weekend. My fiance, his daughter and I live in same household and have lived together for three years, any advice is helpful
Thank you

2007-12-06 17:48:03 · 8 answers · asked by chiefs fan 4

Some background about my family I (21) live with my mom (45) and my sister (going on 16). My moms a single mom so of course raising two girls money is tight

ok I found out back in about 2000 that my mom has this alter ego on the internet. she pretends to be in her late twenties, uses pictures of other people, and ends up on the phone with them for hours at a time either telling stupid stories, fighting and crying and threatening to kill herself.

Recently with her discovery of myspace its only gotten worse, she is " dating" this guy. I've heard her talking to him and to someone else about how she bought a good bottle of scotch and spent over 200 dollars on it, paid 250 towards his cell phone bill since he was calling her, and bought him this engraved necklace for about 200. I was hoping that she was lying to whoever she was talking to but had proof when a billing statement arrived at our house in her other name for a necklace that was engraved. I'm sorry thats way too much money to spend on a lie. My mom has my sisters money for her bands florida trip this spring and we suspect thats where she's getting this extra money

My mom has no idea I've know all of this and that I've actually found her myspace as well as his (unfortunately hers is private)

I'm out of ideas and I'm afraid to confront her about it.This is a long shot but has anyone dealt with anything like this... what should I do?

Thank you in advance

2007-12-06 17:44:17 · 4 answers · asked by Morgan 2

I love my mother, but I know that there is something wrong.. First off she's never happy, and she's always putting someone or something down. She left my father when I was seven, after having an affair on him for about two years and married the man that she cheated on my father with. He is a very good step dad to me, and always has been. I know my mom hasn't had the easiest life, her parents were alcoholics (but never beat or neglected her) and they were 100% illiterate as well as poor. I know before I was born she did a number of different drugs, but now she is in a great relationship. My step dad does a lot for her, she has a lot of material things, and I'm always calling her, trying to make time for us to do things together when I come back home and more. But she is always putting down myself, my brother and my real dad.And putting herself before us. She puts down anything I do well at, and when I fail, throws it in my face. The same with my brother.

2007-12-06 17:23:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

he really doesn't now how to talk me .. he yells and acts like a freak as camunication ... and how he acts like he is the only thing that matter !! and he is suck a rasist person !!
This year my own dad forgot my birthday!! .. and yesterday he was tryin to make a point he sayed i was 10 !! i'm not ******* 10 .. i was a little shocked but not really .. he was never good at anything to do with me

And with my mother she is ver rasit!!! and all she does when she comes home is ***** !! about EVERYTHING!!! when she stars talkin in the tone i walk out of the room .. even though that makes her ever more mad ,, and she only thinks about her self .. when she gives gifts .. she doesn't think tht person will like unless she likes it ..

i know it doesn't seem like much to hate about them .. but if u come here and seen wat there like .. u would really understaind

i'm just wondering is it normal to hate ur parents like .. truely hate them?

2007-12-06 17:20:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

she doesnt really wanna tell anyone yet...its been almost a week....i dont think its healty to keep it a secret that long...especially since he treated her so bad and she still wants him....i told my best friend and she got very upset...what should i do?

2007-12-06 17:12:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I better let You know that I'm a hypochondriac! And my parents and little brother are going to a historical Monument the weekend before Christmas for his Christmas Present. And I'm staying with my other brother who's 8 years older than me and who is almost always on the computer in his room,and my parents don't want me to have any friends over to spend the night(s) while their gone,and so I'm just wondering if y'all have any idea's what to do with and with out my brother????(My brother who is going is only 2 years younger and I'm closer to him)Also It's really only the night time that I'm scared about and what to do to keep me from freaking out!!!But I also want tip's for the daytime too!!!!! Thanks a Lot,God Bless, and Merry Christmas!!!!!!

2007-12-06 17:09:28 · 15 answers · asked by George 3

2007-12-06 16:41:08 · 13 answers · asked by pato29 1