Family - December 2007

is he being a fair/loving brother? I don't think so....he's got two sisters that feel cheated. who is right?? help please.

2007-12-07 20:02:44 · 5 answers · asked by natagansidagee 1

Is it ok to sleep with your Finace's mother if she ( the Fiance') doesn't have a clue it's happening ? Can you be in love with them both ?

2007-12-07 19:27:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was invited to my family Christmas Dinner. On the same day I have my x-mas party at work. I gotta be honest I hate going to my family gatherings. I don't hate anyone I just hate the aura they put off theres a few who stay in their own click won't even say hi or acknowledge other family members outside their click. When I go I feel Like half act like their better than everyone else. And all you hear is about what they have a like a new car, etc. And of course everything they have is way better than anyone elses. I'm not jealous in the least little bit. I just hate going cause I'm just me Im not in competition with anyone else. I might not have alot but everything I do have is paid for. I just wish everyone can get togeather and leave the bs aside and have a good time like family is supposed to do. And I think everyone should mingle after all we are family instead of being in their clicks. I feel if I gotta put up with the bs I dont wanna go. I will stop by the ones home i care to see

2007-12-07 19:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by chelly 2

and he never lets me use it. He always comes up with silly excuses to play his stupid games on it and whenever I come, he tells me to come back later. what to doooo????

2007-12-07 19:23:22 · 9 answers · asked by Junaid K 1

I have a step-son who is 13yrs old. I have recently had an argument with him about having him help his sibblings clean up their toys. He totally ignored me and continued laying down on the coach. So then I decided to raise my voice (like always when it comes down to him), and he just totally disrespected me by talking back while his father looks at me like I did something wrong. how do I deal with tring to keep order in my house with my own children when my step-son doen't respect me? Then later My husband and I got into it b/c he disaplines our daughter and I laugh because he has no problem doing it to our children but when it comes down to his son he won't do 1/2 the disapline on him. Am I wrong? Wanting my step son to pitch in with the chores or helping his sibblings clean up before bed time even if he did not do the mess. I really don't know what my question should really be but I do know I need some really good advice on how to deal with my step-son and how to handle my husband?

2007-12-07 19:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I married the love of my life. But he is the oldest of 8 children and his mother is currently seperated with his father. He has young siblings. It was a very sticky seperation. His father really dont have much involvement in his or his siblings lives. I live a couple of blocks from them, yet i find myself there all the time. The family is great dont get me wrong. But i notice his brothers and sisters really look at him as a brother and a father. His mother is dependent on him and his other brother who is a couple of years younger then him. His father takes care of all the fianical problems, so its not like he is literally taking care of them. Ive been married already for a year and half and had my son who is 6months old. I just feel a lot of times that i married a guy with 8 kids. Though i respect him and completely understand how the situation is. i want to start our own family, but all our decisions are based on them its hard to move on. i jus feel dat they are stopping us!

2007-12-07 18:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by Nezzie Y 2

this didnt happen to me or any1 i kno i read it in a magazine. i dont think its normal i think some1 touched her there. what do u think?

2007-12-07 17:44:01 · 11 answers · asked by silkydreamgirl10 3

do you think it is sad that there are teenage girls out there that have to come to yahoo answers for questions like these?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApUajMLybNGIrjRnrxo0TTdJxQt.;_ylv=3?qid=20071207222602AAt5Q31

Do you ever wonder why they cannot ask there mother, or a women figure in there life about things like this? Do you wonder if there parents have even talked to them about this?
I was greatful that my mother talked to me about this stuff before it even happend, and I plan to talk to my daughter!
I find it sad that there are teens that have to come to yahoo answers because they have no one to talk to or choose not to talk to someone they know.....

2007-12-07 17:34:50 · 9 answers · asked by shawn 5

Their car is in bad shape especially the tires. 2 weeks before Thanksgiving one of the tires went flat. My daughter gave her a tire and all she had to do was have it put on her rim. In the meantime I took her to work, picked her up from work and told her several times to get the tire put on the rim. She waited until the day before Thanksgiving to fix it and drove the car to her ex husbands , a 40 mile trip one way, to pick up her daughter because her ex , (he has custody) told her that they were having dinner with his parents and he would not bring the daughter until Friday. The last time she drove there the car broke down and I had to go pick her up and pay for the wrecker to pull the car back. This is a hardship on me. So I told her and my son not to take a chance driving the car that far anymore. It is easier for me when it breaks down here to pick them up usually late at night and tow the car in than when they go to the next state. I also told her I would take her to pick

2007-12-07 17:32:00 · 9 answers · asked by gatekeeperonduty 2

2007-12-07 17:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by Joyous Dawn in the morning 3

to the Veterans and their families and survivors who served at Pearl Harbor 46 yrs ago today?

Thank you for your service and sacrifice to our Nation!

2007-12-07 16:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by Steve T 5

my mom and dad are divorced. i have a very complex situation. when my mom and dad seperated my mom found another person. but this hasnt stopped my dad from coming over at least more than once a week and we all get along(which is good thing-its like the situation on Reba) so i see him alot throughtout the week. i love my dad soo much the little things he does and says just light up my day, hes so awesome. so now the dilema is that i dont want to stay at his apartment because i get really homesick. i have stressful weeks because of my classes in school, and i really cherish my weekends. my mom has decided that me and my brother would go to his house every other weekend. it seems like too much for me, i just wanna be home. i wanted to know if i just have to get over it or does it sound like something i should think about a bit more

2007-12-07 16:53:39 · 7 answers · asked by Sabrina 2

my parents are divorced n my mom is with my step dad duh and well my boyfriend is close wit my parents n my step dad is always telling him that he has gone out with girls behind my moms back. But then he told him that if he told me or my mom what he told him that he would get him bad. should i tell my mom or should i wait till maybe they get into a arguement n then i tell her or what should i do

--- Confused Chick!!!!

2007-12-07 16:16:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

plz help me !!!!

2007-12-07 15:58:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If we do, CPS is called or she tries to get my husband fired out of spite. We tried allowing her to live w/ us b/c all her utilities were cut off, but after 2 wks had to hv police remove her bc she refused 2 leave. This woman didn't even raise me. She pawned me off on my grandmother. I have 2 half bro/sis. My sister is a heroin addict & my bro has given up on her. 2night she tells me she never wants 2 hv anything 2 do w me bc I didn't make it 2 her house in time & ice cream I'd bought her was melted. Bought her 1/2 gal yesterday. Tomorrow, even though she wants nothing 2 do w/ me, she'll call & ask more favors. She's had what we believe to be her final SSDI hearing &hopefully will b getting a ruling soon. After she receives her $ & can pay her own bls, I hate to say it, but I never want 2 c her again. She's made my entire life hell & I cant take it anymore. I know its a disease or so they say, but part of me believes shes just always been a spiteful heffer. Am I a bad person?

2007-12-07 15:51:55 · 12 answers · asked by gwenbleu2 1

My sister is 19 and dropped out of high school for about a year and everytime we try to talk to her she threatens my mom that she will leave the house. she works and helps my mom when my mom needs it cuz she cleans houses. The thing is she listens to her bf's mother who shouldnt be saying anything cuz her son is the same like my sis. I just want advice on how we can talk. my mom has raised us without beating or grouding but i turned out ok (honor student) and i really want my sister to make something out of herself.(she would have made a great lawyer) i want to talk to her and start to get her on track so her life wouldnt be as tough as my moms and she needs a guy who will treat her well and help her get on track but i guess her bf can stay but any advice on how i should talk to her (my mom and i should talk to her) plss i need to do this as early as possible

2007-12-07 15:49:03 · 4 answers · asked by Lost&Confused 1

I am going home 8 hours away to see my mom for Christmas, even though our relationship has been strained for many years, even growing up but very signifigant, her no showing at my wedding due to her wanting me to allow (her new husband of 4 months) to give me away. I said no that I wanted my brother to do it and my husband to be supported me. Her retaliation was to no show. Now she has some health issues and we are going home for Xmas to see her based on a recent wish to have us together for Christmas. My husband is awesome, treats me well and is a good sport going along and trying to get along with her. Everytime we go up to visit she suggests that he and her husband hang out then she monopolizes all of my time and excludes my husband. (her wanting girl time is understandable but its whenever we go). How can I be kind to my mom,(its the holidays) but be firm with the fact that she has to accept my husband of ten years as part of me? This really hurts my feelings.

2007-12-07 15:33:08 · 17 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2

I have this younger sister who trys to act just like me. I'm sick of it! I will get new clothes, shoes, ect. and she will say they are ugly. Then when I out grow them and she gets them she likes them. She also thinks that because I can wear it she can wear it. She trys to hang out with my friends and treats me like I'm the same age as her. I really like this friend of mine. Everytime I am talking to him she has to walk up and listen . We really don't get along that great, but I still love her and try to be understanding. I just want some space and don't want someone copying everything I do. Please don't tell me to take it as a complement , my mom tells me that, and I have tried talking to her.
Sorry it's so long

2007-12-07 15:29:45 · 9 answers · asked by R.A.R 3

i hav found out that my gf is pregnant about four months now, and i still havent told my parents, we are both mature adults.
we are also both from different cultures and this upsets both families,(Pakistani/chinese). i hate to admit it but most of the stress im feeling is considering my familes reaction.
i know how they are, they didnt approve me at first going out with my gf because she was chinese...basically they have old view thinking. to get to my point, i am unsure whether to tell them or not, because i knw how they will react, they will be angry and dis-own me of which i dont want to happen. should i just move away with my gf and tell them in a while when im ready, or tell them prior to the baby being born?

2007-12-07 15:27:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm on the point of leaving and taking my 11 month old daughter out of this situation. My fiance's son who is six is playing us against each other. Acting spoiled and pretty much telling his mother that I want all of his father's attention while he is over at our house. He tells her other things too that aren't true like I drink when he's there (and I don't drink) So his father has pretty much cut me out of the picture as far as being a parent figure and gets together with his ex wife to discuss things and does not include me. His tantrum throwing and lies have drivin a wedge in between us and we are no longer close. This just started a month ago and I'm so sick of it that I'm thinking about leaving. I do not take all of the attention believe me I actually hardly get to spend anytime with my fiance anymore at all because his son demands that he stays up with him playing video games until 10:30 at night. If we do talk his son gets in the middle of us and throws a tantrum! HELP.

2007-12-07 15:13:58 · 8 answers · asked by mudpuppie_80 4

My mom doesn't have a job but she gets some type of check frm the gov. & we get food stamps my father is a functioning crackhead meaning he has a good job but he spends major money on crack & he jus moved out because my mom is cheatn on him & i saw the fat bastard who she with. But my problem is my appearance there is no income in the household & its hard 4 me 2 go 2 school with the same clothes frm last year. Wen I had a summer job I bought a few school outfits & my parents were supposed 2 get me & my little sister sum more but it nevr happened (school startd 3 months ago). I am about to be 16 in a week exact and I am really prayn tht I get a job so I can do 4 myself n my little sis bcuz no one else is. I just look a mess n it is really affectn me I am so over this though

2007-12-07 15:12:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My MIL is not too bad, but given the choice to "take her or leave her" I would definitely "leave her" ha ha! What is your horror story and how did you cope (or did you???)!!!

2007-12-07 14:50:10 · 15 answers · asked by laura d 4

Ok here's the story my son is finally getting his HS diploma in 2 weeks, and he's also joining the Marines possibly leaving in Jan. I want to do something special for Christmas because who knows when he will be home for the holidays again. Any ideas?

2007-12-07 14:42:37 · 4 answers · asked by dawn w 2

2007-12-07 14:37:09 · 16 answers · asked by Jalisa 1

well me and a relative of mine got into a huge argument. he is always aggervating me and i never do much about it. well yesterday i was doing my homework and i really needed to concentrate, but he came in my room and i asked him nicely to get out. but he wouldnt so i told my mom to tell him to get out and he got mad and he put my computer chair out of place just for the hell of it and that really bothered me, because my mom is always getting on to me about where the computer chair is and she tells me she wants me to keep it under the desk. so i told him to put it back where it was and he didnt so i told my mom to tell him to do it and he did it but he didnt do it right and he knew what he was doing, he was trying to aggervate me even more. so i got a belt and i followed him and i gave him a good smack with it, but im sure it didnt hurt too bad. he got so angry he pushed me down into the dining room table and pushed me down and we fell down in the chair and the chair fell down. so i got

2007-12-07 14:35:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a child at 19 pushing 20 so I felt it was time.

2007-12-07 14:31:15 · 40 answers · asked by chicken2008 5

Ok, My mom when we were little use to go out to bars and leave me and my sisters home alone (ages6 &7). now that im almost 18 in 8 months, my mom treats me like her slave, she calls me a whore (im not) she use to beat me, but now its all verbal abuse, my sisters stick up for her and never me. I have moved to my fathers, to Ohio, and to Seattle washington just to get away, but she always forces me back, Just recently when I moved to Ohio, but I left my moms house in washington because she had 9-10 people living in a 3bed room house, but me and 3 guys that arnt related were having to live in the cold gorage together. I couldnt take it so i left. But anyways i want to know if i have a case that i can present to get amansapated right now on my own??? PLEASE GOD HELP. I cant take this anymore....



if it helps i have had jobs, and an aptment, but she keeps forcing me back I am able to take care of myslef but because she is my gardian i have to come back home when she says..pleaseHELP

2007-12-07 14:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by fairygirl888 2

I was mad at my son and threw my ipod at him, it hit his head and knocked him out and broke the ipod. Whos fault is it that the ipod broke?

2007-12-07 14:06:26 · 10 answers · asked by mowurlawn4cheap 1

My little sis is a pain in the rear and she won't stop annoying me!! any advice on how to get her to stop? shes a 6 year old just in case you want to know.

2007-12-07 14:03:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i heard my parents fighting a few hours ago, and i am not so sure what it was about, but he said "its over, we're through", and then they were fighting about who i will stay with when they get a divorce. then a few minutes later, he told my mom he's leaving(hes drunk,), and she took his keys, and he had one hiding w/ him and he left at about 7:00, now it's going on 9:00. he told her he'll call her tomorrow, and he came into my room and told me he loves me and he left. my mom doesn't want to call the cops, and i'm afraid he gets killed or worse. right now, if he were to come back, i would ignore him. i hate him right now. i told my mom about it and she told me when he calls to tell him i love him...but its not how I FEEL. i want to make him feel bad for leaving me and my mom, him being drunk, me being scared, and leaving me and my mom here to cry. i'm only thirteen years old and i don't konw how to deal w/ this. please help me. :/

2007-12-07 13:50:28 · 7 answers · asked by Itsallaboutmehunni 2