is it true that after getting married husbands often get bored with their wives?

Answer 1

I wouldn't say bored... its just some of the passion and lust flames out. But the level of comfort and trust that develops far outweighs any loss of passion.

Answer 2

What do you mean by "bored"? Sexually, in general????

Men and women get married way too young and pick the wrong partners. Then, they have kids pretty quickly and while the females want to settle down and raise their kids - the men are still in high sexual gear and get a bit taken aback that their wife now looks different and also is not 100% focused on the man's needs.

So, they fight and sex declines.... divorce often happens.

The miracle of waiting to get married until you are 30 is that you really know yourself A LOT better, people tend to marry someone who is way closer to a true match made in heaven, and marital bliss is a lot higher. Boredom is a lot lower too because you end up with someone who is a perfect match.

Answer 3

Sorry to hear that you are having problems.....it sucks when the one you love may have an eye on someone else. My suggestion would be two fold. On the first one, see about hiring a PI (private Investigator) so check up on her, and see if he/she can catch your spouse cheating on you....it will make it easier for you in the divorce and also you will have some straight answer instead of always questioning what she is saying. While the PI is doing the checking, see about some counselling, and see if you want to work it out. But I WOULD STRONGLY URGE YOU TOWARDS the PI....divorce can be messy and painful, but if you are prepared with ammunition going in, then she probably wont give you too much of a fight if at all. And if the PI finds nothing, then you know what she is telling you is truthful and you are already doing the counselling. Good luck.

Answer 4

Yes, it happens too often.

I am not a male chuavanist. But it is generally because of women. They only talk of clothes, fashions, models and related persons.

Women tend to forget completely that the person they are talking to is different. His sphere of interest might be politics,
games and sports or social problems. They should also take
interest in what their husband is interested in, learn a bit about it and update it from time to time. The woman that
can do this, does not have to worry about boredom or nothing to talk about.

I thank God, my wife does not talk on typical women subjects.
We sometimes talk for hours, even 20 years after marraige.

Javed Iqbal

Answer 5

Men just get bored with routine. Plan surprises and change things up in the bed, and you will have a better chance of keeping his interest. But, alas, some men will cheat anyway, just for the excitement of getting by with it.

Answer 6

I don't think they do. My husband and I have a good marriage and he loves spending time with me more than ever and we have been together two years and have a child together. I think it's all about the person you marry and not the marriage.

Answer 7

Because the women lets herself go and gets bored with the man.

Answer 8

its not that the men gets bored from his wife its that the women start to not show as much love and affection as when they first meet because it is usualy 95% of the body contact at first and i think men can go alot longer without showing affection than women

Answer 9

Ofcourse!!! If you eat the same type of burger everyday then you will get bored. Try putting the things in different order!!!Make him go nuts everytime!!!lol

Answer 10

Many guys do but thats why you have to work at marriage ...look at porn with your partner...there is couple porn and brazillian porn something for ladies and men... and porn for women.. you have to be creative and go on field trips, vacations, say you love each other everyday and kiss before you go anywhere and never go to bed angry!